What is it about my girlfriend marrying her sibling sister to her ex husband after her divorce?

Maybe after your girlfriend divorced, she still thinks that her ex-husband has a lot of advantages, but maybe the two of them don't have the same personalities, but she understands her ex-husband and his sister, so she thinks that the two of them should be more compatible, so it's good to let her sister marry her ex-husband.

It's nothing, they're divorced. It must be that he feels that his ex-husband and his sibling sister are suitable, so the emotional thing is consensual, as long as the two of them feel suitable, this is nothing.

Well, don't think about it, it's normal to marry your sibling sister to your ex-husband without a divorce, because they may have a special reason for divorce. Whatever the reason, as long as it exists, it is reasonable.

This situation should be that her sister likes her ex-husband, and her ex-husband is also interested in his sister. She saw it, and the relationship between their husband and wife became more and more intense, so she had to divorce to fulfill them. So your girlfriend married her sibling sister to her ex-husband after her divorce!

There's a good chance they're in love, so there's a reason why your girlfriend quit.

Maybe your girlfriend thinks his sister is with her ex-husband. She doesn't fit. And his sister likes her ex-husband.

Consensual. Why not? If there are children.

He felt that it was better for his sister to marry her ex-husband. It's good for children, too. The best of both worlds.

Now this society. Marriage is free. No one can influence anyone?

This kind of thing, the most likely thing is that the younger sister fell in love with her brother-in-law and dug into the corner of the sister's wall. Because they are all free love and marriage, my sister wants to marry my sister to her ex-husband, but my sister can't do it if she doesn't agree.

This is also normal, they should also know better, the ex-brother-in-law still has advantages in the sister's heart, so he married the brother-in-law.

Look at it this way because your girlfriend's sister is in love with her ex-husband, and your girlfriend doesn't want to see them suffer and voluntarily give way. Sadly, why should a man marry if he doesn't love you?

Fertilizer water does not flow into the fields of outsiders, because my personality is not compatible, transfer to my sister for use, just right!

It may also be that her sister wants to marry her ex-brother-in-law, and there may not be anyone who can make decisions for her sister in marriage matters now.

It may be that your ex-husband is better in some aspects. Your sister prefers people like that. Another reason may be to marry your ex-husband so that you and your ex-husband's children do not deserve to suffer. After all, the child is her nephew.

This phenomenon exists in society and has several factors at the same time: the first parents-in-law always thought that this son-in-law was worthy of everyone and was a filial and good man. The second is that my sister has always liked this brother-in-law.

The third is that my sister's marriage is not very harmonious, but she also has children, and her sister also knows that her sister likes her brother-in-law. The fourth is that my sister may have a serious illness and quit on her own. The child's stepmother is no one else, everyone understands each other and gets along with each other.

We have a sister here who is sick, and a sister who is on top).

Such a reason does sound outrageous, and if you are divorced, it means that it is not pleasing to the eye, how can you still live together? In fact, when two people live together as husband and wife, they will always pay attention to each other's shortcomings, which will cause various contradictions, but after the divorce, the two people are slowly estranged, and the distance produces beauty, and seeing each other more is also an advantage.

02. In order to take care of the child's feelings, he still maintains a state of cohabitationAt present, the vast majority of parents in society will still pay attention to their children's feelings when they are divorced, especially children in middle school, and parents dare not tell their children even if they are divorced

All in all, there must be a reason for divorce and cohabitation. However, if one party has his or her second marriage partner, it is not appropriate to live together again.

You can't go out to live without a house, you need to live together for the sake of your children's growth, and you can't be financially independent, which is the main reason. If a woman is not unable to stand on her own, she will definitely go out to live, which is also no way.

I can't afford to rent a house to live outside The woman and her ex-husband are separated, if they are divorced and still live together, then it must be for the house, if they have the ability, they will definitely move out, and no one will be so self-respecting. I know a lady who lives under the same roof because she doesn't earn much money, and her living expenses are not enough except for rent. At present, her ex-husband has a girlfriend again, and it is very inconvenient to go out and go in every day, even if her ex-husband doesn't take her away, the current one hates to see her.

During this time, this lady is worried about finding a house, do you say it's annoying? Alas, a woman must be financially independent after getting married, if you are not independent, once there is an emotional problem, it will be you who will cry when the time comes. A woman can be very good if she can stand on her own, come on.

For the growth of children, many women need to divorce and not leave home, and they are still acting with their ex-husbands, the purpose is very clear, that is, to hide the children, in order not to affect the growth of the children. My daughter is a classmate, since she was a child, she has been picked up by her grandparents, it is said that her parents are doing business in other places, and the little girl is happy, but the fact is that her parents have long been divorced, and they are just acting in front of their children. The woman is divorced and does not leave home for the needs of the child's growth, the child grows up happily to middle school, and finally tells the child that there is no way to hide it anymore, this woman and other men have to get a certificate, because they are pregnant.

Alas, this kind of thing is difficult for adults and children, and it is all caused by not doing it well. None of them are winners, and divorce should be thought twice.

Some couples are divorced, but the woman can't support herself independently, so there is no way to leave the house, not that the relationship between the two people is good, but there is no way, this is the reality. Divorce, no one is a winner, so let's do it and cherish it.

Maybe it's because of the house, and although she and her ex-husband live together, they don't live in the same house, so it's like the relationship between the landlord and the tenant.

Because the division of the property of two people was not completed. After a divorce, it takes time for the house to be sold, plus there is nowhere to go and live in the same place.

Some are for the sake of the children, in order not to cause the impact and psychological shadow to the children, they still live together, some are unwilling to let their things become someone else's, and they want to continue to take possession of them, and some are because of other comprehensive reasons, such as not wanting their parents to know or have other hidden feelings, which will lead to their husband and wife living together although they are divorced.

Most of the reasons are for the sake of the child, the mother still hopes that her child can feel the love of the father and the mother at the same time, and the single-parent family has a certain impact on the child's psychology.

That's because they have children, and they can take care of each other's children and not let them get hurt.

Some are because of children, some are because they don't have a place to live, and there is no way, maybe they still have feelings for their ex-husbands, and there are many reasons.

The reason why a woman is divorced and still lives with her ex-husband is because she wants to give her children a complete growth environment, so the two pretend not to divorce!

One is because I have children, and I want my children to live in the illusion of their parents' love. One is because of the money, because you need money to rent out.

This is because they chose to separate on impulse at that time, but there is still affection between the two people, or for the sake of both parents and children, so they live together.

Speaking from the bottom of my heart, I don't agree with your girlfriend. Obviously, she is a woman who has no opinions but is full of dependence. Of course, this perception only comes from what you say in your question.

Your question and your conversation with your friend suddenly gave me the idea of not being able to express it.

What is it about a woman who has been divorced from her ex-husband for six years, but has been living in "her ex-husband's house"? Even if she doesn't have a house after the divorce, she can find a rental house to live in. From the perspective of outsiders, it is natural to feel that she fundamentally lacks the self-esteem that a woman should have, and if she no longer knows how to be self-reliant, it means that it is really incurable.

I don't know what you think of her situation, and you don't need to figure out why. But if it were me in such a situation, I would leave her.

Because your girlfriend and her husband are still entangled, it's better to ask your wife what she thinks.

It's been six years since the divorce and still live in my ex-husband's house, I'm afraid I don't really get along with you, since the divorce should be completely broken, move out to live, such a broken thread is not good. You'd better ask your girlfriend for clarification before getting along.

It may seem like you want to get the right answer, but many questions are just about choice, and choice means taking responsibility.

How far has your relationship developed, have you communicated about this issue, and have you had a common plan?

You don't care what he means, you just have to think about what you mean. The key is that if you remarry and want to live a good life, you have to consider what your current husband thinks. Besides, if you want to take care of the children, you can also take them home, and you don't have to go to your ex-husband's house!

It's not that he has to care about you, it's because you have a fate, and there are children, you can't say that you have no feelings at all after divorce, although you won't be together in the future, but he and his mother will definitely pay attention to your future, so I hope you hurry up and start a family and live a good life, to put it bluntly, he still hopes that you can live happily, it can be said that he will do his best to help you if you have difficulties finding him. For you, don't think too much, if it's convenient, you can care about the child, seize the right fate, and then try to make your life better.

It shows that your ex-husband and mother have always had you in their hearts, although you have divorced because of some things, but your position in their hearts has not changed, after all, a husband and wife, I hope you can remarry after divorce, and I also hope that you will live a happier life, if you don't have you in your heart, how can he care if you are not good or bad.

The ex-husband asked his ex-wife to find someone to marry, firstly, out of concern for his ex-wife, hoping that she would find someone to rely on and not take everything on her own. The second is to hope that his ex-wife will not have any illusions about him getting back together, and it is impossible for the two to be together.

Foolish! He said this because he was heartbroken. That person will let his own woman marry.

To put it bluntly, he genuinely feels sorry for himself, and you can't help it. It was you who broke his heart to say that he let you go and let yourself go, don't you understand. You succeeded, you lost a man.

Maybe they feel sorry for you, you didn't find happiness on their side! I want you to be happy if you remarry someone else.

If the ex-husband asks his ex-wife to find someone to marry as soon as possible, then this situation may be because he feels that it is more difficult to live alone in the early stage, so he will let him find a man to marry as soon as possible, so that he can share the burden for him.

Maybe the two of them don't have this kind of relationship now, so the ex-husband will directly let his ex-wife find someone to marry, because he doesn't want to be with his ex-wife anymore, and he doesn't want to be responsible for his ex-wife.

Although you can't be a husband and wife, after all, you are the mother of your children, and he also wants you to live well and have someone to rely on. It's good for the kid and for both parties.

I thought it would be for you to live a good life, and you would raise the children together.

I want you to live a good life.

The psychology of orangutan sympathy! Don't you even understand this?

Maybe you just kept it and didn't notice it, and you didn't pay attention to it when you saw it.

Multiple friends, multiple roads.

1. After the divorce, the child cannot accept this situation, or cannot tell the child.

Children are the biggest seasoning in marriage, and the relationship between many couples can be mediated to a certain extent because of their children, but sometimes, even if there are children, they can't be eased, and they can only end in divorce, but their children may not necessarily accept itIf you tell them at this time, it is likely to affect their studies and life, in order to have enough time for the children to accept and understand, these parents can only continue to live together after the divorce.

Two: The husband and wife are not in trouble, they are full of hatred, and the woman still wants to redeem it

Sometimes, divorce is not because of the contradiction that can not be alleviated, although the marriage can not go on, but the love and family affection between two people are there, a few years of companionship, the relationship between them is not broken by saying that it can be broken, people are in love with the old, even if they are divorced, there will be a lot of reluctanceAt this time, maybe if you live for a while and see each other's changes, there may be a possibility of restoration in your marriage, isn't it?

Three: I don't want the outside world to know about it for the time being

Although the two of them decided to divorce, it is possible that this matter will affect their careers, so,In order to avoid irresponsible remarks from outsiders, the two decide, after compromise, to continue pretending that the marriage is in a continuous stateIt will be announced when this phase has passed. Whatever our psychology, we're already adults and will be responsible for our actions, aren't we?