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When I was a child, because my four sisters and brothers were young, my mother was busy earning work to support the family, and my grandmother often lived in my house, helping my mother do housework, making clothes for us, making shoes, dismantling and washing covers, anyway, I did all the work, my grandma was very diligent, loved clean, and couldn't be idle for a while, but sometimes she loved to nag. Once, I don't know how old I was at the time, anyway, I just remembered, and I don't remember what my grandma nagged me, so I slapped my grandma on the head, I was stunned at the time, and then ran away crying, I regretted the slap when it fell, but it was too late to regret, I will never forget, my grandma covered her head and looked at me in shock, grandma may be afraid that my mother beat me and didn't tell her, my mother didn't know, why am I so ignorant, why are I so ruthless. Later, my grandmother passed away due to illness, this matter became a knot in my heart that can never be untied, I have never said it, until now, thinking about this, my heart is still faintly painful, I really want my grandma is still alive, take her to my house, honor her well, to make up for my mistakes when I was a child, grandma!
I miss you so much! Under the nine springs, forgive your granddaughter's ignorance.
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Now the knot is that I can't let go of my ex, my ex is my classmate, I have been a classmate in junior high school, we both belong to the excellent grades, she belongs to the lively and cheerful, and then after hard work, we finally got together, but after a long time, there were slowly contradictions, plus I was young and naïve, and then I was unhappy and broke up like this. Until now, I haven't been in a relationship since. Maybe she's been in my heart all along.
Maybe never again. Maybe when she got married, I should have died. I hope that the person who loves each other will never let go easily, and once you let go, you may go further and further.
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When I graduated from junior high school at the age of 15, I did something wrong that I still think about at any time and feel sorry for my parents. At that time, the parents were stricter, and the conditions at home were relatively good, just because they did not do well in the high school entrance examination, but their parents didn't say anything, they only told themselves to cheer up and repeat their studies for a year, and then take the exam again next year, but they couldn't listen to the words at all, and then stole the family's 4000 yuan and ran out, and ran to Guizhou to play for a few days. When I came back, I realized that my parents were really anxious to find me, and I searched all the relatives and friends, and I just had to post a search notice. Today, I am also a parent, and I really feel the kind of love for my children, and every time I think of my gray-haired parents, I will feel sorry for them.
I really understood the sentence of pity the parents of the world.
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I don't have any knots in my heart until now, I haven't opened them, and I've long looked down on many things.
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That is, my sister is not happy in her life and is married to a bad husband. He always doesn't want to go out to earn money to support his family, and his sister doesn't talk about him, let him do whatever he likes. My sister won't be angry at all, and she won't call him.
It's sad to think about it, this family was originally a man going out to fight. In the end, my sister is struggling and supporting her family. What's so good about this kind of man?
is eating soft rice, and my sister spoils him like this. Is it really that hard to leave him? Is there really so much reluctance?
A tear, looking at the heartache, can't help her eliminate her worries. What can be done, every family has a difficult scripture. In a word, that lovely face, joyful laughter.
wants someone to love her, but she really needs that person but she doesn't! Happiness in**? Let yourself not be able to speak, and do not know what to save.
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I belong to the kind of school that left home when I was young.,I almost didn't take care of things at home.。 After graduating from junior high school at the age of fifteen, he was admitted to the county No. 1 middle school, and went to school in the county seat alone, renting a house, doing laundry, cooking, and attending classes and studying. In order to save money, it is often no more than a minute to give your parents a **.
After all, it is a rural parent, and if you don't understand the expression, you either ask if you are homesick, or ask if you are short of money. Mu Youyou has never really cared about my heart, so I have been abandoning myself in the three years of high school. Later, I thought about the waste of the past few years, and I was sorry for my parents, although I was later admitted to an ordinary second book after restudying, but the three years of waste have also become an indelible knot in my heart.
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I can't give two children a good education, no money to take them around to travel is my biggest knot, both children are sensible, know that the family has no money, do not ask for brand-name shoes and clothing, do not ask to go to the playground like classmates, go to eat Western food and other requirements, always feel that they are very failure.
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When I was in high school, I had a strong temper, and I always liked to talk back to the head teacher, and the relationship was very stiff, which has always been a knot in my heart.
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It is said that talking about money between friends hurts feelings, and my heart knot is also related to this. A friend who has played together since elementary school until he graduated from college, so to speak, brothers, because he borrowed money and didn't pay it back, he didn't just borrow money from me, but borrowed almost everyone he could, and he didn't keep his word and didn't pay it back.
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When I was very young, I stole a hundred yuan from my mother, and then my mother found out, and I said that my brother took it, and my brother was beaten badly, and I felt sorry for my brother, and since then this matter has become a knot in my heart, and now I am getting better and better to him, just to make up for the mistakes I made back then.
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It was that I didn't work hard in my junior year of high school, which caused me to not be admitted to the university of my choice.
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I've been separated from her for ten years, and I still can't let go, and I always think of her in the dead of night.
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I have been married for so long, and my husband's family has always felt that it is not a family, and I have never been able to break this knot.
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I feel uncomfortable, there is a knot in my heart that can't be opened, why can't I get over this hurdle.
Two days ago, I saw a news Hefei woman jumping off the building, which aroused everyone's attention, the reporter interviewed the supermarket where the woman was, and learned that the woman is a person who loves to talk and laugh, usually very good, hard work, there are two children at home, nothing special, probably because of the family things to fall downstairs.
It's all conjecture.
Why can't I get over this hurdle, the family is not harmonious, the husband does not care, the children need to be accompanied, the elderly need to be supported, the husband needs the wife to be gentle and virtuous, the money is not greater than the social practice, and the society is not more complicated than the family.
To live is to be happy, if you don't live a happy life, are you willing to live?
I don't want to - it's that knot that you can't open, no one to help you with this hurdle, no one to share your unhappiness, no one to understand your pain and unhappiness, even if you have anger and resentment, you don't want to tell others, you don't know the shadow in your heart.
What does marriage give a woman, it is a kind of bondage, it is a mother's love and kind face, the devil is the torture of the soul, or the heart is wrong, marriage is the grave of love, this sentence is right, this is a test of a woman's IQ and heart, in this marriage you will encounter all kinds of problems, husband and wife, mother-in-law, concubine, neighbors, friends and themselves, and two favorites, children and their parents, there is no relevant contact in the world.
The above are all keywords, I simply don't mean anything, these key people are the nouns of marriage to women, which means that you have to marry for these people selflessly, and do everything complicated no matter how big or small things may not be, there are good factors and bad aspects, of course, the knot in your heart can't be opened, that is a dead end.
Heart knot is a disease, it is not easy to open, marriage is a gambling practice, family, education, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, it is not easy to control.
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The heart knot is a psychological state, which refers to the knots that cannot be untied in the heart, the things that cannot be let go of in the heart, and the depression that the heart suffers, which is commonly referred to as a heart disease.
In order to untie your knots, you must learn to control your bad emotions. There are several ways to adjust bad emotions:
1.Energy catharsis: The energy generated by bad emotions can be adjusted in various ways.
2.Verbal suggestion: Language is a unique high-level mental activity of human beings, and verbal suggestion has a wonderful effect on people's psychology and even behavior.
3.Environmental Adjustment Method: The scenery of nature can expand the mind, delight the body and mind, and cultivate sentiment. Taking a walk in nature has a good effect on regulating people's mental activities.
4.Confession and grooming method: When people's emotions are suppressed, they should pour out the distress in their hearts, if they forcibly suppress the exposure of bad emotions for a long time, it will bring harm to people's physical and mental health.
5.Self-motivation: Self-motivation is one of the driving forces of people's mental activities and a way to maintain mental health.
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You have to untie the knot in your heart.
In today's society, only oneself is reliable, and there is a book called God's Dialogue abroad, which talks about what you want, you must first give first.
Chinese sages once said that those who love others will always love them.
They are all the words of wisdom.
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Open your heart and communicate happily.
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I feel bad to see what you've been through, you can't suffer anymore. You're not God, you don't have to save others, live your own life, leave Him! Go a long way.
Forget all about it and start living again! I recommend two songs for you "Laughing and Forgetting Song" and "You Are Not Really Happy". You're going to start your new life!
In addition, you need to make more friends, people need friends. With friends, the gray sky will become clear and clear. I sincerely wish you to get out of this state soon!
You don't need to give your husband another chance! As if you didn't have this experience, let's go, you are so strong, you will definitely be happy!
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You are kind....Life is as undulating as the road, as long as you are worthy of yourself with a clear conscience...
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It's really human nature to be kind I think you should enlighten your husband more, even if you fail repeatedly, you have to have the courage to try. You're going to be able to influence him!
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The knot in my heart is untied, and I am not happy. It may be a matter of regret for something that happened or an action that has already happened. So I can't be happy.
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Because if you really untie the knot, you will actually be relieved, and you will let go of the entanglement, and if you don't get entangled, you will be in a comfortable mood and you won't be unhappy.
The reason why I am unhappy is that I haven't let go at all, and I don't feel relieved at all. If everything is good, there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome.
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Yes, untying the knot is the liberation of the tangled things, and you will feel relieved.
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It's something that I've figured out and is sad about.
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Probably because that's not the answer you want
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I never knew that there were such disturbances in the school, which was really unheard of!
As for what the reason is, I can only say that you are unladylike, and if you meet someone you like in the future, you want to carefully promise others!
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