Seven years of first love, two months after the breakup I found a new boyfriend, what if I still can

Updated on psychology 2024-06-03
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you really love, in fact, you really don't want to let go so quickly, maybe he will always be in your heart for the rest of your life, so I think if you really let go of that relationship and decide to start a new relationship, try to accept your new feelings, don't always be there.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If that's the case, I think you really should know how to look away, after all, he has already found a new boyfriend, and he has already put you down for you, why should you still be obsessed?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Since people have started a new life, don't interfere with other people's lives no matter what, even if you have a seven-year relationship, but the relationship is no longer irretrievable, maybe there have been cracks in the relationship for seven years? All you have to do is allow yourself to accept this reality, reflect on the mistakes you made in your past relationships, and start a new life.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There is a saying that the itch of 7 years is good! The two have been together for 7 years, which is a hurdle, so they didn't get over it, the two broke up, since they have broken up, it's normal for people to find a boyfriend, if you can't let it go, then let yourself work hard, don't think about these useless things, cheer yourself up.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you can't let it go, you have to let it go, and if you can't keep it, it's not your own. She can be so ruthless, two months, I'm afraid she doesn't care at all. Since she doesn't care, then you don't need to be alone to like it. Don't waste expressions and time on unworthy people.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First of all, I would like to ask you to think about why you broke up with your ex and why. Secondly, How did you and your current boyfriend meet? How did they get together?

    Again, if you still want to live well with your current boyfriend, you have to cut the grass and eradicate the roots first, and completely uproot the cancer of your ex-boyfriend. Finally, I want to say that delete all the ways that your ex-boyfriend can be contacted, and cut off all thoughts that you want to contact.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    She can choose to break up with you, is the disappointment of how long she has been accumulating, freezing three feet is not a day's cold, and she found a new boyfriend after two months of breakup, which means that the other party has let go, in fact, you should also learn to let go, reflect on the bad you have treated her, correct your shortcomings, cheer up, and find your other half.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First of all, you still can't let go of it for more than a year, which shows a few points, one is that you are a person who attaches more importance to feelings, and girls generally attach more importance to feelings; One is to show that you really love him, and it is difficult to let go of truly loving someone, which is why it is like this.

    Secondly, if he is a person who can quickly find someone to fill in, then at least it can show that he is not so serious about feelings, and he can easily enter a relationship, or he can easily walk out of a relationship, and such a person will not be hurt emotionally.

    Then, speaking to yourself. It's been more than a year, and you should be able to come and see the relationship in a comprehensive way. Including his views as a person, and the views of the feelings between you.

    There are a lot of uncertainties, so you break up, then it means that you can't find happiness in him. Since this is the case, you have to sum it up well, face yourself squarely, and face the reality.

    I don't think you should walk into a relationship lightly, think it through, and then make a decision. Then everyone said that the hurt of ** feelings is to enter a news romance again, but this situation is suitable for him, hehe, according to your character, being too light will only make you hurt again.

    In the end, I think you should tidy yourself up first, live your own life, as for feelings, life will surprise you when you are living well...

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    First love is a wonderful experience in life.

    So it's memorable, it's hard to choose.

    But now that we've separated, and we've seen all the differences between each other, let's just make it a memory.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Your mentality is soft, it is easy to remember the kindness of others to you, it is not easy to get out of the shadows, in fact, people who love you will be so good to you, so you have to learn to love, to let go, it is not worth it for a man, through this relationship, you will find a better one, so don't be sad, you have to be thankful, at least let you understand the whole of love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Time solves everything, and the first one that occupies the heart is always so unforgettable, and in the end it can't be torn off, and it becomes a habitual imprint, as long as it doesn't affect your normal life.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Look at it, time is the best medicine, you know, when you are sad, he may be happy, so why be unhappy for an unworthy person, the most important thing for a woman is to learn to live independently.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Either give up, if you don't want to give up, you have to work hard to redeem it, but after you recover, don't care about all factors such as cultural background and family background. Let go and love.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Let it go, the person who doesn't care about you is not worth it for you to care about him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's okay, hehe, everything has a process! The best thing to do is to find a new boyfriend.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Then go back to him and try to tolerate and change each other.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First love is a lifetime of good memories, it's normal to not let go, it is possible that you will still think of her decades after you break up, but after all, you have broken up, you have to open up, she taught you to fall in love, you should try to find your own happiness, because not everyone's first love can accompany you through this life.

    My first love happened when I was in junior high school, and my classmates said that we were in early love, and indeed, I admit that I was in early love, because we were only fourteen or fifteen years old at the time, but the feeling of being in love was really sweet, as if it was as sweet as honey. What I want to do most every day is to hold her hand and walk on the playground, at that time I was still young, at most I was holding hands, and I basically didn't have the idea of kissing each other, which shows how innocent love was at that time!

    My first love especially likes to eat White Rabbit toffee, every time I upset her I will buy a big bag of White Rabbit for her, and then she will burst into tears and laugh, our relationship will quickly improve, but at that time our hearts still remain innocent, which is like now, provoke the object to be angry without a Hermes bag is not good.

    The most memorable thing between me and my first love is that we hugged each other all night in our school class, we stayed up all night, we snuggled up to each other, we talked and laughed, and we even made a private agreement for life.

    Here's the thing, that night after the evening self-study, the classmates were almost gone, my first love came to me and wanted me to talk to her, and then suddenly it rained heavily outside, and we didn't bring umbrellas at that time, so we sat in the class and chatted. After a while, the lights went out in the classroom, and then we didn't rush to leave, because it was still raining heavily, and we would definitely be drenched in soup when we went out at that time.

    Who knew that this rain would be a night, that night we were "trapped" in the classroom, in fact, we were ready not to leave, and then we hugged each other to keep warm, we chatted all night, she said her yearning for the future, I talked about my life ideals. That night we were together and made an affectionate promise: we would only fall in love once in our lives!

    But then I experienced a summer vacation, that summer I didn't contact her for my own reasons, I didn't contact her for almost a summer vacation, but when school was about to start, she asked my classmate to tell me to break up with me, I didn't know why I broke up with me, I didn't do anything wrong, and my temper is more face-loving, so I asked my classmate to tell her: break up, break up!

    Oh, my first love ended like this, before and after a total of less than half a year, and then I often thought of her, and I also wanted to cry and cry to get back together with her, but I knew that once the first love said the first breakup, even if it was good in the future, it would not be much better, so I endured the pain and gave up her, I couldn't forget it for a year, I used it for two years, and if I didn't do it for two years, I used it for ten years, and now I can finally treat my first love as an ordinary friend! So, it's not that you can't let go of your first love, it's that you haven't given yourself enough time!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    First love, after all, is a very beautiful thing experienced at the age of the first love. If a person has been in love many times, he may forget who is who in the end, but what he will not forget is the first love, the first love is the embryonic stage of his feelings, and it is estimated that what he can remember for many years is the first love.

    And what can make people unforgettable must be special in a certain aspect, or it is particularly good-looking, so that everyone loves it, and the flowers bloom, which is very pleasing to the eye. Otherwise, she is more able to control a person's emotions, and a word can make you laugh, her emotional intelligence is particularly high, and she has endless words to talk about with her. But to be separated is to be separated, and it is useless to think about it.

    If you have the opportunity, you should look for a good person.

    Time is also enough to forget a person, time can dilute everything, nothing, just not enough. In addition, there is no new love, and with a new love, you can forget the old love immediately, even if you still think about it, it is enough to fill the pain. If the new love is not good, that is, the new love does not have the old hobbies, people will always have comparisons, if the new love is more than the old hobbies, it is estimated that they will be able to forget the old love and be happy with the new love.

    If you want to forget a person, you can't stick to the original environment, you must change, and it is much better to change to an environment where she is not there, which is more conducive to forgetting. In fact, forgetting a person is not that you will never think of her, but when you think of her, there is no longer any turmoil in your heart, and you can't provoke your inner reaction, which is the real forgetting. In addition, exercise can also help a person to heal the pain.

    Change yourself, and then find a new love, and you will definitely be able to forget someone.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You have broken up with your first love for two years, and you can't let go of it, he shows that you are sincere to this relationship, so even if you have broken up for two years, you will still remember it, in fact, what I want to say is that since you have broken up, forget it, so that you can start a new relationship.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's been two years since I broke up with my first love, why can't I let him go? This is mainly the first love is the most precious, he is so good to you, and you also feel very good.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Someone who has loved deeply, when loving; I think of the morning and twilight as a long time, and I always think that love will blossom and bear fruit. On a lonely night, the man still faintly faded in and out of my heart; Fade out, fade in, can't take away, can't erase.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Since it's been two years since we've broken up, let's let it go, maybe the other party has also had a new relationship, and you can also let go of the previous relationship and start a new one!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    First love is the white moonlight in my heart, how can it be so easy to let go? After all, he is the first person he has ever loved, so his name and appearance will be deeply imprinted in his heart, so he can't give up.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's normal to break up with your first love for two years and still can't let go, after all, you have paid your true feelings.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    First love is often unforgettable, it is normal to not let go, from her ** We understand the beauty of love, the purity of love, the kind of ignorance and cleanness, we may still think of it for a long time in the future, but the past has passed, we have to look forward, do not remember the past and cherish the present.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It may be that she has taken root in your heart and can't forget to start the next relationship.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Everyone is like this, you can never let go, what you can do is not want to, and it will fade into oblivion over time, so don't worry.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    That's because you like to think cranky when you're fine. , just think of him, that's why you can't let go.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's been two years since my first love broke up, why can't I let go of him? That's because you still think of him and love him.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Because you have a lot of good memories in the process of falling in love, you can't let him go.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you can't let go of her, you're sure you still have feelings for her, and if you don't have feelings, you won't be able to let go, so you have to control your emotions.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Live yourself, don't be too humble in love, the last thing to hurt is yourself, the person who loves you will eventually love you, and the person who doesn't love is meaningless.

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