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Introduction: If the child is very angry with his parents, the parents must enlighten the child.
If a child has a lot of resentment towards his parents, the parents should see what is happening to the child and must help the child. If parents see that their children have hatred for themselves, they must resolve this hatred in time, do not let their children carry these problems, and there must be no overnight feud between parents and children, and they must not let their children be harmed. If the child is very resentful, parents must first understand the reason, see if some of their usual behavior has misled the child, must let the child correct the shortcomings of the body, slowly help the child, so that the child will not seem very nervous, parents must not treat the child in the wrong way, do not have more and more contradictions with the child, must have their own understanding and awareness, so that the child can become very happy.
If the child is resentful of himself because of the elders, you must consider why you gave the child to the elders in the first place.
Children resented their parents, parents teach children a transition time, so that children can make appropriate adjustments, so that children can be full of satisfaction, and children can not be allowed to have this kind of resentment, which will also have a bad impact on children. Parents always hope that their children can understand their own thoughts, so at this time you can take into account some of the child's situation, give guidance to the child, and make sure the child understands that in fact, the child is very okay. If a child often resents his parents, then parents must take a look at why the child is like this, see what kind of situation has occurred, and then do a local analysis for the child.
Many children often talk back to their parents, so at this time, parents have to look at you, why there are more and more contradictions between two people, we must learn to resolve them, and give our children a complete family.
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Parents should enlighten their children, in fact, they should also change their children's ideas, and at the same time, they should also let their children have a new view of their parents, and they should also tell their children some truths, and don't put too much pressure on their children, so that they can better resolve it, and parents can get along better with their children, and the parent-child relationship will be more intimate.
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Parents should accompany their children more, and secondly, they should also explain more truth to their children, and they should also think about problems from the perspective of their children, and they should also understand their children's hearts, so that they can better resolve problems and make the parent-child relationship better.
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Parents should help their children to resolve it, and they should also reason with their children, tell them how to solve such things in their lives, and also help them to relieve their mood.
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Many children hope that their parents can treat them fairly and get along with them well when they are young. But after having younger siblings, we will feel some subtle changes in our parents, and these subtle changes will also make us feel very uncomfortable. When we feel very angry because our parents treat our children unfairly, we must also ease this feeling of personality.
In fact, as a child, sometimes you have to be considerate of your parents, and sometimes it is really difficult for your parents. Because parents don't know how to treat their children, and in the minds of parents, they may give their children the same. But in the minds of children, you will find some small differences between parents, so children may be angry, sometimes we must also be considerate of parents, parents in addition to work also need to take care of children, need to take care of a family, parents are also very hard.
Sometimes if a child feels that his parents' actions are unfair, he can actually say it, but there is no need to hate his parents very much.
We can talk to our parents, and if our parents respect us, it proves that our parents have us in their hearts. Therefore, I hope that everyone can have a good talk with their parents, so that they can know what we think in our hearts. In this way, parents will understand what we are thinking and they will make certain changes.
In a family, the most taboo thing is to have a certain quarrel, but not to say this quarrel, and hate each other in their hearts. We need to know that our parents have given us life, and our parents have not done anything to be sorry for us, and sometimes we feel uncomfortable in our hearts, so we can talk to our parents carefully, and this can also solve this problem. I also hope that everyone can think about their parents and sometimes their own children.
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I think you can slowly alleviate this feeling by telling your friends, in fact, if you want to open some yourself, you feel that these things are nothing.
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Hello friends, parental eccentricity is a very normal phenomenon, as long as there are two children at home, it is impossible to face this situation with a bowl of water, resentment is actually very normal, but you also need to correct your mentality, otherwise it will be uncomfortable at that time, but also remind all parents, if there is no way to have a bowl of water, don't give birth to so much, don't hurt another child because of one child.
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You should look at it with a correct eye, and if you can't think about it, you can communicate with your parents, negotiate with your parents, and ease the distraction of your attention.
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You should think about something else, forget about this bad emotion, and think about some of the benefits that parents can do to their children.
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You should adjust your emotions, and at the same time, you should think in a different way, you should be considerate of your parents, and you should understand the difficulties of your parents.
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Don't think too much, trust your parents at this time, because your parents love you. You have to work hard to be very good so that you can get the attention of your parents.
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You can do sports, or shout loudly into the distance to vent your grievances, and have a stable mind to communicate with parents.
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How to solve the problem because I feel that the way my parents treat my children is unfair?
Parents are the people who give us life, and parents' love for their children is also the most selfless, and now more and more people want a second child, and it is easy to ignore the eldest in order to take care of the youngest child. So if you feel that your parents are treating your children in an unfair way and are resentful, how can you solve it?
The first point is to divert your attention. Turn emotions into strength and strive to face them independently. If you can't change the status quo, you can only divert your attention.
If you have the ability and have your own ideas and practices, for the sake of your parents, just be filial. Try not to get involved in family affairs so as not to get caught up in a constant state of division and chaos. Make yourself sad.
The second point is self-reflection. Parents can start by reflecting on their attitudes or behaviors towards their children and whether they react differently. For example, when buying toys and distributing snacks, do you do it differently for different young children?
If you find that you are treating different children differently in the same matter, parents need to adjust. No matter which child you treat, you should take an equal approach and respect their differences.
The third point is to have your own opinion. As a child who is not loved by his parents, he has done nothing but work. A child who is not loved by his parents can only get some praise from his parents if everything is subordinated to him.
But if you are treated unfairly, you must learn to resist, otherwise, over time, calling out those children who do not love you will become a habit that parents cannot change.
Fourth, communicate with your parents. We should communicate well with our parents. Parents are not only your elders, but also your friends in life.
Therefore, we should have a sense of reverence for our parents, because our life originates from our parents, and we will be grateful from the bottom of our hearts and live in harmony with our parents. Therefore, when there is a conflict between parents, it is necessary to communicate well with parents and solve problems.
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In such a situation, you should communicate with your parents, you must say what you do, don't be angry with yourself, you must make yourself more peaceful, and you must make yourself better, don't be too extreme.
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Hello friends, parental eccentricity is a very normal phenomenon, as long as there are two children at home, it is impossible to face this situation with a bowl of water, resentment is actually very normal, but you also need to correct your mentality, otherwise it will be uncomfortable at that time, but also remind all parents, if there is no way to have a bowl of water, don't give birth to so much, don't hurt another child because of one child.
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It should be solved correctly, and such things should be faced with a rational mindset. Tell parents not to be biased, as this can have some psychological effects on the child.
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Be sure to adjust your mentality, you can discuss this matter with your parents, and tell your parents that treating your child like this will make your child feel very inferior.
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1.Communicate with your child to understand why your child hates their parents, and then take measures to address the symptoms. 2.Learn to listen patiently to your child and let him express his thoughts. 3.Learn to respect and trust your child, and give him encouragement and support.
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We should communicate more with our children, we must consider problems from the perspective of children, we must accompany our children more, and we must respect our children's ideas, so that we can eliminate children's resentment.
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Parents should calm down with their children to communicate face-to-face, understand their children's psychology, and be able to understand, respect, and guide their children correctly in their later lives.
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Have you found that the parents of children with depression and suicide are all uneducated people, it is because they themselves have not been educated that they will communicate with their children in the wrong way, my parents are such people, they don't know about mental illness at all, and they will only blame their children for this and that.
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First of all, do parents make mistakes in raising their children? Definitely.
People are not sages, who can do no wrong", in the long process of raising children for more than ten or twenty years, I don't think any parents can say categorically that they have not made any mistakes. If so, then it just shows that he has serious psychological problems.
In the same way, no parent should be confident in their own character and words and deeds. Since everyone agrees that they are not perfect and that they will make mistakes, and the main way for parents to educate their children is to "teach by word and deed", then everyone must also agree with the following second fact: the mistakes made by parents and their own personality problems will definitely have an impact on their children.
Is this a decisive influence? Is it the sole responsibility of the parents? Such a question cannot be said in one word.
But what we need to do is not just to pursue this answer, but to realize that our most fundamental goal is growth.
If a person wants to grow, he must first see how he has come to where he is today. After fully experiencing the emotions in your heart, focus your attention on yourself and strive to make changes and improvements.
In other words, in the process of "seeing" and "experiencing", it can be said that it is inevitable that an individual will feel sadness, resentment, or even hatred in his heart, and pour out bad emotions towards his parents.
When we understand this fact, parents should try to understand and accept their children's dissatisfaction and catharsis, and believe that this will not be a fixed thing.
When we accept the complaints and tears of our children, it is equivalent to confronting the mistakes we have made. This kind of confronting is very powerful, both for others and for oneself.
And as a child, after catharsis, you should also realize that blindly staying in the past and thinking about right and wrong and responsibility is not conducive to growth.
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First of all: understand the basic situation, understand your current troubles, follow the current troubles, go back to the past, see what you experienced at that time, and hold you and warm you in the process of telling your experience.
Secondly, emotional counseling helps you vent your anger and resentment towards your parents, and helps you express your grievances and sadness.
Finally, reconstruct the inner image, connect with yourself, connect with your parents, let the frozen emotions flow, and let the inner power rise.
In short, use the strength of his personality of continuous self-exploration and growth, in a profound way of human care and warm empathy, or use classical psychoanalysis, or use autologous psychology, or use existential humanism, or use cognitive behavior, or use imagery dialogue, or use hypnosis. Help you understand yourself, understand yourself, empathize with yourself, and integrate yourself. Let the inner world be sunny and sunny, and let the outer world be sunny.
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Leave the family as soon as possible, achieve financial independence and self-independence, keep a distance, cut off contacts, in order to avoid further accumulation of damage, only by not adding new injuries, old wounds can slowly scab and heal, ten or twenty years later, when you have established a world in your new life, established your own achievements and self-confidence, the impact of your childhood shadow will be less and less.
Find an opportunity to hang out with your parents, tell them something interesting about you, or watch some family TV shows together.
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