How should children show love for their parents?

For many children, it can't be said that they don't know how to be grateful, because for many children are rarely willing to take the initiative to express their love to their parents, such behavior is slowly becoming more and more ignorant as they grow older, sometimes they want to care about their parents, but they will also become unable to express it well, which is actually some of the problems encountered by many children now, we as children, How should I express my love to my parents? Here are some ways to do it.

First, parents' holidays and birthdays are actually the most suitable time to express their love, and when we express these loves, we should be humble and have our own grateful hearts.

To thank their parents, do these things now, so that we to increase the relationship with our parents is actually very helpful, we should need to pay attention to these skills, we had better master these skills, we must know how to express, even if they have a deeper love for their parents in their hearts, do not express it, their parents will not feel it.

Second, we often don't want our parents to do everything at home, occasionally clean up our own room or living room, we are shopping for groceries with our parents, and it is okay for our parents to do housework, of course, sometimes our parents will ask us to do some housework, at this time it is best not to show their impatient expression, what we need to do most is to help our parents share some of the best things.

Third, for parents, how can their children not let them worry about it, the most important thing is to do things by themselves, don't be too careless, let parents rest assured, when we do a lot of things, we can also discuss with parents, such things also need to be paid attention to, such things are actually what we need to do. Not worrying about your parents is also a sign of filial piety.

Fourth, we usually care more about the life of our parents, don't just ignore the things of our parents, this is really bad, our parents have paid so much for us, we should know how to be grateful, at this time we need to often give our parents some gifts and surprises are the best, and being more obedient in ordinary times is also a way to express their love for their parents.

Many of us overlook the emotions of our parents, in fact, we really need to be grateful to our parents slowly, and we can accompany our parents more, these are the obligations that we should fulfill as children, don't complain when we do our duty, and love from the heart can be expressed.

I always felt that I was doing a bad job of expressing my love for my parents.

My family is a very ordinary rural family, parents are the kind of type who can only do and never say I love you, and I have always been very envious of some family relationships that are very good at expressing love for their children or their love for their parents.

I am 24 years old this year, and my love for my parents is to let them worry less and try to report good news and not bad news. But I think children should be more direct about their love for their parents, and parents are the same.

Let's take an example from a friend close to you.

Let's call her a p. (Because she's cute, kind, and willful).

The relationship between Xiao P and her parents is very good, such as when she arrives at school or has a holiday, Xiao P prepares intimate gifts in advance, and sends them to her parents on the day of the festival or the day before and after, and then her parents send **or** come over to chat with Xiao P.

The conversation between Xiao P and his parents is probably like this:

Little P's parents: "Baby, what you buy for your parents, your parents like it very much, have you eaten well, don't save".

Xiao P: "Hehe, it's good if you like it, I miss you, when I go back during the summer vacation, I want to eat delicious food with you, I want to eat my father's treasure fish, and my mother's muscovy duck soup."

P: "Dad! Happy birthday! I love you, oh, Momo."

Little P's dad "Oops, thank you baby, dad is so happy".

Xiao P: "Mom, my stomach is a little uncomfortable with menstruation today, I still like you to cover my stomach when I am at home, my mother's hand is simply the warmest hand in the world".

Little P's mother: "Haha, how can you say that you are so powerful, but baby, do you have a warm water bag attached to your lower abdomen".

Xiao P is a child who is very good at expressing her love for her parents, and she does many things that we have been embarrassed to do or say, she does very naturally.

In fact, she said, parents know that their children also love themselves.

But expressing it will make both parties more sure that my daughter loves me so much.

Moreover, even the most reticent parents will be very happy to hear the love of their children directly.

As for the parents, after all, they are from the older generation, and they may not be good at talking about these things in that era.

But we're not, we are the post-90s, the generation that is best at expression, we are so good at saying to friends, to lovers, how can we not know how to say it to our parents?

Those hypocritical words, don't just leave them to good friends, parents are also very needed.

Finally, to sum up, big children like me, don't be shy anymore and express your love for your parents generously.

At the end of the article, let me confess:

Daddy, I love you.

Mom, I love you.

Unlike Westerners, who generously express "I love you" to their parents, Chinese express their love for their parents more restrainedly. A teacher once told us students that the most regretful thing in his life was not being able to say it out loud when his father was alive

I love you. He thinks he has done his duty to his father as a son, but he thinks that it would be better to say some things, such as his love for his parents.

1) In action. When we were children, our parents taught us how to hold spoons, use chopsticks, and write. So now we might as well teach our parents to learn to use the Internet, and when parents ask about things on the Internet, we might as well teach them patiently and solve their doubts.

In addition, he took the initiative to help his parents with things, his mother with housework, and his father with chores.

2) In expression. Go back to accompany your parents or give your parents a ** during the New Year's holidays. I once heard others say that I have a friend who calls his parents at eight o'clock in the evening every day, no matter how busy he is at work.

If you can really develop this habit, you will never regret it at some point in the future. The word "I love you" is not only a love word between lovers, but also between family members, at the beginning there will be a little embarrassing, and parents feel unaccustomed, but after a long time, such plots have become reasonable.

3) Spiritually. After the meal, you might as well prepare the consequences of the meal, pour a cup of tea and chat with your parents, talk about the world, talk about the past, and talk about the future. Share your life with your parents, "the happiness of your children is the greatest happiness of your parents", talk to your parents about the current situation, and tell them that you are fine.

The most affectionate confession is companionship, and the best communication is the communication of the heart. Spend more time with your parents, communicate with them more, and keep them away from loneliness is the best love for your parents.

<>Filial piety first", the first thing that should be done is to be filial to my parents, at my age, I feel that I should be filial to my parents, I didn't understand when I was a child, I don't know, now I grow up and understand, I know, I should express it.

I may be a big kid, but I don't know how to show my love for my closest parents. But I know I really love them, Mom and Dad I love you.

Cook a meal for mom and dad.

Maybe you're younger, maybe your parents are usually afraid that the place where you exercise is better will drop you, but I just want to say to your parents who have just worked in the field to cook a meal, and cook a meal for your parents who have just finished work, it may not be as delicious as your mother's cooking, but they will definitely say, "It's delicious, this is the best meal I've ever had!" ”。

Say to your parents, "Mom and Dad have worked hard".

Mom and Dad worked hard, you pulled me up with a handful of and urine, raised me to be a not too bad person, gave me food and clothing, but I thought this was what you should do, you worked hard to make money to support your family, but I spent money indiscriminately, Mom, you never let me eat less than three meals a day, and you never made me hungry, thank you. Mom and Dad worked hard.

Say "thank you" to them

Thank you mom, thank you for not discarding me like someone else because I was a girl, thank you, thank you for educating me to be a human being, for not making me a person who harms others, thank you, thank you for raising me with all your hard work, thank you.

Thank you dad, thank you for working hard every day to support my family and not starve me to death, thank you.

Write a letter to them.

Tell them you love them and that you're just not good at expressing it.

Take a look at the place where you work with them.

Tell them, Dad, I won't bring myself because your work environment is not good, I will be ashamed to admit that you are my Dad, no, I won't, I will be honored, because there will always be someone to do this kind of work.

Wash their feet.

Let them know that you know they work hard.

Buy them a gift.

Tell them, "I bought it, and see if you like it."

In the end, this matter can only be expressed in action, when they are old, please accompany them and do not let them wander the streets.

<> there was a popular saying on the Internet before: You grow up with me, and I grow old with you. But in real life, it is often our parents who grow up with us, but it is difficult for us to grow old with them, which is exactly the old Chinese saying:

The son wants to raise but does not wait. When we grow up, we often can't be with our parents for the sake of study and work. We love our parents, but we don't know how to express them.

Love you in the heart is hard to open. In fact, I think love should be expressed, since we grow up and can't go home often for various reasons, but we can express our love and thoughts to our parents through the media of **, the Internet, and let them know that you love them.

On the one hand, she was reluctant to let me go, afraid that I would be bullied and wronged in the province alone and no one would comfort her, on the other hand, she was afraid that I would find a partner in the province in the future, and I would take root there, and I wouldn't be able to go back to see her many times a year. There is no network cable in my mother's store, so I specially made a card, and there are hundreds of minutes of free ** every month, in order to chat with my mother, I will talk to my mother every day**, ranging from a few minutes to dozens of minutes, in fact, the content of the call every day is almost the same, have you eaten? What to eat?

What's the weather like over there today? Although this is just a simple greeting, in the heart of the meow mother, this is the love of her daughter. So, since you can't go home often, let your greetings warm your parents' hearts.

Different people have different expressions of love, one in the form of sweet words. One is paid in obscurity. You can't say which is better, but whether these loves can be felt or understood. The love that can be understood is mutual, and it needs tacit understanding.

I hope that children have as few regrets as possible for their parents.

Chinese have always been more reserved, although parents give 100% love to their children, but the expression may only be 50%, or even less. And we should learn to show our inner love to our children, which is also good for children, who will know that their parents love them so much, so that they will have a sense of security. When he knows that he is deeply loved, he will be passionate about life.

So how do you show your love for your child?

We must let our children know that Mom and Dad love you very, very much. Of course, what you can say directly is the best.

Love Mom. Then both the child and the mother will be happy. Maybe the child will not understand the meaning of "love" at first, but the parents' dedication to him, he will naturally see it in his eyes and experience it in his heart, and he will slowly understand.

If parents really can't express themselves directly in words, they can also use the form of words to write a note to their children, instruct a few words, and the final payment is: love your mother (dad), this form is suitable for slightly older children, maybe at this stage of direct language to express has made parents and children a little embarrassed, then the way to write is very good.

Another way is to write a letter to your child at a fixed time. For example, every year on a child's birthday, or every year during the holidays. In the letter, write about your blessings to your child, write about the progress you have seen your child make over the past year, give him encouragement and support, and finally tell him:

Dear baby, I love you. This way is more like a ritual that will leave good memories on the child's growth path. When your child is older, you can ask him to write back to you, write about his feelings, and share your thoughts.

If you love your child, tell him. In fact, children are sensitive, maybe we inadvertently say a word they will think: Mom and Dad don't love me anymore, don't want me anymore.

So give your child a sense of security, and always tell them in your way, in a way that they can understand: "Baby, I love you."