When I was in high school, I was very introverted and didn t have many friends

Me too, I don't like to talk to people, and I'm so nervous that I can't say it when I talk to people. Always recognize people by their first sense, and only those who feel that they are pleasing to the eye will speak, and those who are not pleasing to the eye will not speak. But I'm used to being alone.

You'll be understandably sad. Try to say hello to everyone you know, starting with your classmates and teachers, and then help others if they have any problems. Only if you smile at others first, they will smile at you, and only if you remember their names first and show that you have remembered them can they remember your name and thus remember you as a person.

You need to show your strengths to others and show an amiable attitude to have friends, who wants to approach an iceberg? If you are academically oriented, there is no need to force it, and interpersonal relationships do not need to take too much time, after all, learning is the most important thing.

I suggest that you participate in more campus activities, join some clubs and associations, in which you can cooperate with others, meet more friends, and show your abilities and exercise yourself. During college, you must participate in more social activities and communicate with others, otherwise you will go to college in vain.

Well, well,,I can't think of anything... The upstairs ones can too

Because the pressure of studying in college is not so great, the psychological tolerance has become greater, and the university is full of classmates from all over the world, and there are almost no people around me, and the new environment image may change personality.

It's because they feel a lot of pressure to study in high school, so it makes people feel that they are very introverted, but after college, this pressure is gone, so the whole person's personality will become cheerful.

You want to transfer, but will transferring solve these problems?

After all, you are not very old, and everyone has pros and cons in personality. Your problem is not that you are timid, but that you are acting in your heart. You consider yourself a person who lacks self-confidence, and I think you grew up with a self-worth that you rarely experienced.

Maybe you are always criticized by your parents, so that you always feel that you are worthless, you can't do anything well, you are always worried that you are not good enough in social interactions, and others will come to despise you and criticize you, so you protect yourself. You always feel like people don't care about you.

But wasn't there a little bit of your upbringing that allowed you to do something successful? Don't you have the slightest merit in yourself? I don't think necessarily, first of all, you are introverted and sensitive, then you must project a lot of energy on yourself, you will pay attention to your own feelings, you are good at paying attention to the feelings of others.

You may seem a little timid when you do things, but sometimes you are able to think more holistically without the undesirable consequences of impulsiveness.

To change all this, it is necessary to find out a little bit of your own strengths and abilities, even if these abilities seem so insignificant to others, but to complete them one by one, you can continue to feel self-worth and improve self-confidence.

Secondly, and most importantly, when you're doing something, be sure to stick with it, regardless of whether or not it will meet your expectations.

Thirdly, I think that now you always feel a little embarrassed to greet others, so you might as well use a smile instead, the effect is still outstanding.

You should always say good morning, good afternoon, and good night to yourself in the mirror! Slowly get used to talking to the mirror like this, and you've already achieved a step in success. I usually go out with my good friends, hook their hands, you talk and chat happily, and you won't let you have anything to think about.

You're probably too comfortable and have too much time to think about it! Participate in more activities organized by friends, start by playing with friends, gradually get used to it, and talk to others more naturally in the future. Relatively speaking, girls will be shy and dare not face up to others, which is normal.

If there is a desire for change and the ability to act, there is a chance that the personality will change. Here's a way to recommend you.

Clause. 2. Determine what role you would like to play if you were an actor and why you like it.

Clause. 3. Choose any person you worship and list the traits and qualities in him that make you worship.

Clause. 4. Combine the second and third with a personality of your own choosing.

Clause. 5. Change what you don't like in your image, behavior, and personality, and reinforce what you like.

Clause. 6. Express your new personality. I would like to remind you that you should not expect to develop a character that will be successfully transformed anytime soon, but that you must also build on the core of your character.

I'm a little better than you, and I only had one sworn friend in high school. Until now, I still contact Ha from time to time, I have the same personality characteristics as you, as long as you slowly get in touch with the people around you, you will get together, come on.

High school students should learn to be cheerful, and if they are closed, they will not find friends. Take the initiative to communicate with others and make friends with others. A good boy is to be positive, and if you need to, you can talk to me, and I'm also in high school.

Open yourself up first, and others will come uninvited.

The pressure of learning is high, the psychological aspect has become mature, and the work has become rational.

That's when you're stressed inside and need to relax properly.

It's good to find the source of your depression and solve it.

Go see a psychiatrist and talk to the next day.

Well, introverted thing, it doesn't work in this society now, you can try to chase a girl you like, and gradually maybe it can change.

You can try to chat with them, so that they can slowly get used to it, and they will follow them when they go to play, just do it.

You can talk to them a lot, and then you'll be infected by their atmosphere, and you'll start to liven up.

What else do you change when you are in high school, your personality says that you will change, do your best, and the more you force others, the more you think you are contrived.