Tell me what gives you the most sense of security.

I remember that when I was studying and interning outside, I met a training teacher in the company, and I called him Mr. Ai. At that time, I was very confused, and I asked Mr. Ai how I could find a stable job. He told me that no job is stable, and you can lose your job, only if you are stable, then you can be stable.

So I've always remembered and struggled. Let yourself be enriched, make yourself more excellent, make yourself strong, and be stable. When you are stable, you will have a sense of security, and this sense of security is given by yourself, which is the most lasting.

The most secure time of the month is when my salary arrives, and I have the salary to pay all kinds of arrears or buy new things.

Home is the person who can give me a sense of security in the world, only at home can I feel warm, caring, and have the love of my parents, rather than deceit, intrigue.

I feel that it is still my parents who are by my side to bring me the safest feeling.

Self-confidence is created through their own experience, brave, adventurous, and practical people are usually very confident, fearful, cowardly, and timid people are usually very inferior and do not believe in their own abilities, so from a young age, we must exercise to be a brave, dare to practice people, exercise it into a habit of life, and when you grow up, you will have strong self-confidence and do not have to rely on others. What should I do when I grow up and find out that I am very inferior and cowardly? It is also necessary to strengthen exercise, strengthen practical ability, find ways to break through the original fears, overcome the difficulties in the process of practice, only by doing and practicing can we change the original state, re-establish self-confidence step by step in the process of practice, and strengthen our own inner belief system.

A sense of security is not set in stone. That's something that I find interesting. For example, after birth, we begin to deal with the world, and we choose to trust or doubt the world.

After that, we start to experience what it's like to survive in this safe or unsafe world. Maybe some things in our childhood didn't bring enough security, but there are still many opportunities for us to trust the world again. If you ask "what brings the most sense of security", maybe it would be better to divide it into stages and scenarios.

Personally, I think that the sense of security is given to oneself, not some old chicken soup, when a person is accustomed to relying on objective things and people to help to obtain a sense of security, it will make people feel a real sense of security. What others say is the most important thing is health, money, family affection, stable job, savings, filial children, happy marriage, etc., these objective things will change over time, and they will not last long or will be weak. We can only rely on our own strong belief system and our own positive and cheerful mentality, both come and be safe, as long as we do our best, we can only go with the flow, not forced, and the mentality can be balanced.

I'm also curious about the "sense of security". I saw some people, nothing, no friends or family around, but he didn't seem to be worried about anything. Some people are in a safe place, but they are always worried about what will hurt them.

Sometimes I think that "security" is a rather vague concept, but in the end it is just a feeling.

I think there will always be something, someone who can bring a sense of security. A stable and reliable object can bring a sense of security. Whether the other person is a family member, a friend, or a classmate or colleague, if you can be accommodated like a good container, it can bring a sense of security.

Another example is money, or abundant material things. It is also a sense of security if you can feel that you have the ability to earn money or the strength to live a life that satisfies you. So I think that if a person or thing or relationship has the characteristics of stability, reliability, acceptance, abundance, then my feelings are - it's safe.

Try to be open-minded and tolerant. Although many men now demand fairness in everything because they were originally at home, but after all, women need to be coaxed, so please don't be too rash, if it is not involving principles, give in first, only let your contradictions calm down, the two can calm down and seek a solution.

My sense of security is: trust in my wife, obedient and filial piety of my children without illness, and my parents are healthy and eat normally. With these, as for any factors from the outside world, it is not a problem.

A sense of security is a Chinese word, pinyin is ān quán gǎn. Literally the feeling of being safe and secure. It is the psychological need for stability and security.

It belongs to the inner spiritual needs of the individual. A sense of security is a premonition of possible physical or psychological danger or risk, as well as an individual's sense of powerlessness in coping with things, which is mainly manifested as a sense of certainty and control. [1] Chinese name: sense of security, foreign name: sense of security, cause, possible danger or risk attributes, a premonition, a sense of certainty and controllability.

1. The sense of security is given by yourself, so try to concentrate on one person or one thing.

2. Manage your own mood and emotions, and the sense of security is given by yourself, and others have no obligations.

3. When you decide to do something and find it a little difficult, you will find that it is really just you. So, the sense of security is given by yourself, and it is best to rely on yourself.

4. Life is more important than everything, and hard work will bring dignity and security to yourself. This sense of security is given by oneself, and the most important thing is to work hard to live a better life.

5. The sense of security is given by yourself, don't rely too much on one person, and don't crave a sense of security from others.

6. The sense of security obtained through others, even if it is reluctantly obtained, but the heart cannot be satisfied, and the fear of loss becomes more and more uneasy. Only then did I find that the sense of security was given by myself, and the harder I worked, the more satisfied I became.

7. The sense of security is given by oneself, and the best love is also given to oneself.

8. The peace and security in your heart is given by yourself, and no one else can give you spiritual food.

What do you think can give you enough security in the relationship between the sexes? This topic has always been concerned by people, and today I will come to ** with you, and interested friends will quickly discuss it.

1. His maintenance of me.

If there is a conflict, he can't understand my feelings, but instead looks very disgusted with me. Then such a person is certainly not worthy of entrusting us for life, because he actually does not like and value us so much, and when there is a disagreement, the other party's heart has clearly expressed his disdain for us. Of course, if in the process of quarreling, the other party has been ****'s emotional changes, he is also willing to give us the steps down, so that our quarrel does not continue.

Then it is easier for such a person to give people a sense of security, because he is at least willing to defend us.

Second, he himself is very motivated.

If his character is unreliable and he himself is not self-motivated, then even if this person gets married in the future, it will be difficult for him to become the pillar of the family. Because he has not been able to stimulate his self-motivation in the past 20 or even 30 years, why do you expect him to be motivated for this family in his future married life? Therefore, it is difficult for people who are not self-motivated to give people a sense of security.

3. He is filial to his parents.

If he can be filial to his parents and be very good to your parents when dealing with you, such a person is worth trying to be together. Because the other party at least takes care of the family very much, attaches great importance to the family, and the other party is also a very filial person, so that when we marry each other in the future, at least there is no need to worry about taking care of our parents. Because when our parents are old, we always hope that our children can take care of them, but if the person we are looking for is not filial to their parents at all, then the family will easily become chickens and dogs, and this ending must be something that everyone does not want to see.

Money, this can really bring people a sense of security, because money is needed in all aspects of life nowadays.

Because everyone's thoughts are different, for me, having a responsible husband can give me enough security.

I think love can give me enough security, love is my safe haven, and I think love is very important to me.