People who are good are always deceived by others, and people who are good are deceived by others?

Kindness is a virtue, and on the surface it seems that it suffered a little loss at the time, but whether it is a good thing or a bad thing, it must be put down after it has passed.

A story goes like this: The old monk and the little monk went down the mountain to turn into a fate, and when they passed a river, they saw a young woman who couldn't cross the river, and the old monk didn't say a word, and carried the woman across the river.

After walking for more than 20 miles, he finally couldn't hold back and asked the master, and the old monk said: I put her down after carrying her across the river, but you haven't put it down after carrying her for more than 20 miles.

Don't chew on the hurt you've suffered over and over again in your heart, and with each repetition, you get hurt again. Just remember that kindness is a virtue recognized by all people (including those who are not kind), and you don't have to be depressed even if you suffer a little loss.

It's to eat a trench to grow a wisdom, you can rat, as long as you don't eat a trench, you are eating a trench

People just grow up in setbacks, and some people are born with brains and calculations, so it seems that they will not be scolded by others, but once others say it once, his loss is definitely unbearable!

Honest people who sum up experience in failure and look for mistakes in setbacks will slowly mature! Personally, I think it's better to be kind to others

The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change. The most important thing is to be yourself, or the old saying, go your own way and let others say it.

I think I used to be a person like you, so I tried my best to transform myself, but now I'm not like me before, and I don't even know what kind of person I am, I really regret it

In the first half of your life, you have to know two words, don't be afraid.

In the second half of your life, you have to know two words, no regrets.

Experience always comes from setbacks, where can experience come without setbacks?

Don't believe that pie will fall from the sky, and besides, you can learn from the experience of others so that you don't suffer

If you lack experience, you will be bullied. The relationship between people is not as simple as you think. The heart of defense is indispensable.

You can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to defend people.

;You're still young.

That's it.

It will be later.

That's what my mom said about me.

I feel like I've grown up a lot now.

Hey.

Suffering is a blessing, and I always suffer.

It's okay to suffer a little loss now

We can't bully anyone, and we can't be bullied by anyone.

Kindness must have a ruler, and forbearance must be measured.

As the saying goes, people are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden. If a person is always kind without a bottom line, he will naturally be pinched around as a "soft persimmon".

People live, don't always believe that patience is calm for a while, endure the calm in the end, unscrupulous but come, we can be roses, but we can't be without thorns.

The writer Sanmao once told his story in the book.

When Sanmao was young, her family instilled in her the idea of being kind. Under the influence of her parents' education, she has always believed that kind people are not deceived by heaven, and people are not bullied.

If it weren't for the fact that Sanmao had always felt that his thoughts were right, all people would be worthy of love and warmth, and everyone would be worth forbearance.

Under the influence of this kind of thinking, Sanmao is kind to others everywhere, she helps her roommates fetch water, make beds, and clean up in the dormitory, and she thinks that her kindness will get the same feedback from others.

I never thought that my roommate would take her help for granted, or even treat her as a nanny who could be called at any time, not only that, but her roommates would use her things casually, without considering her feelings at all.

Finally, Sanmao couldn't help it, and in a dispute with her roommate, Jingshou Nuclear completely broke out, and her actions surprised her roommate, and she also made herself respected. Bright digging.

Sanmao wrote in "West Wind Doesn't Know Faces":

If kindness is just blindly giving, then this kindness, I'd rather not. ”

The world is too hot and cold, and people's hearts are as ruthless as wolves. In this world, if you are kind without a bottom line, the world will gnaw you to the ground.

Living in this world, our biggest stupidity is to believe in the goodness of human nature without a bottom line, if our kindness and forbearance, in exchange for worsening the harm, it is the coolest to turn our faces directly.

To be a man, turn your face when you should turn your face.

I have seen such a sentence on the Internet: "Not showing mercy to the wicked is also a kind of cultivation." ”

Couldn't agree more! We can be kind, but we must bring a little edge, otherwise kindness will lose its meaning, and it will encourage the arrogance of the wicked.