Will kindness eventually be bullied? If a person is good and is bullied, should he still be kind?

Kindness will eventually be bullied. Because some people will choose these kind people to bully him, thinking that this kind person will be very good at talking, even if you bully her, she will not blame you or anything, even if he has any dissatisfaction in his heart, she will not speak out.

I don't think kindness will be bullied, as long as you are kind and confident, I don't think you will be bullied by others, kindness and weakness are not the same concept.

Kindness is not necessarily necessarily bullied, but kindness must have limits. Otherwise. All the people will come. Bullying you, or always coming to trouble you will be in your life. It's going to get very stressful and you're going to regret what you're doing.

I think kind people will be bullied, but there will be very few, because when others see your true side and are very kind, I think he should not bear to bully you.

There is an old saying that people are good and are bullied. So this ancient saying has been passed down to the present, there must be her truth, and there is an old saying, bully the soft and fear the hard. It has the effect of echoing the old words in front of it. Some people just think that you are a bully because you are kind.

Kindness will always be bullied. Because you are so kind, others will treat you as a fool, so they will bully you and think that it is okay to bully you.

I think kindness will eventually be bullied, because if you are too kind, you will let those who are more hateful take the lead, and you will let them do some more hateful things, and you will let yourself be bullied.

First of all, I think it's a fact, it's true that people are good and are bullied:

Why "good"?

Biological explanations should be considered a kind of stress. In order to survive, if you can't change the environment, you have to adapt to it. If you face an opponent who is stronger than you, you may lose your life if you resist, so you can only obey.

If you say that the confrontation is not good for you, so you can simply choose to tolerate it!

A personality disorder in psychology called "avoidant personality". This personality trait is that it is more than anything but afraid of conflict and is willing to avoid any form of conflict in a way that is self-avoidant and harmful. ）

Why deceive? This is caused by the law of the jungle, where people are members of society, and everyone defines their place in society. When defining this position, people will have such calculations: this person is very powerful, tough, and does not dare to provoke; This man is very difficult to pester, and it is not easy to mess with; This person is vindictive and will have worries.

Therefore, people who are not powerful, not difficult, and do not retaliate are the ones who work with them and will not let themselves suffer the most, that is, they are the best to bully.

But the "deceived goodness" here is not the real goodness, but a sheep-like obedience and weakness, a "goodness" that is incapable and forced to be helpless. The purpose is to show weakness in exchange for the strong to let go, so as to protect their own interests. There is scruples, fears, and selfishness in this goodness.

A truly kind person should give people a feeling of "amiable, respectable, and terrible", and "the great arhats in the world are very afraid of gods and ghosts", and this kind of "terrible" is not evil, but a kind of deterrent, and it is a warning that can prevent others from doing evil and that the wicked are about to make mistakes.

Still need to be kind?

It is not that people are good and are bullied, but that people are weak and are bullied, and kindness and weakness cannot be equated.

The famous movie star Liu Mintao said in an interview with Jin Xing: "People must be kind, and only kind people will not do anything out of the ordinary." ”

It is said that people are good and are deceived by others, if this is an unbreakable truth, then people should get rid of good and do a lot of evil.

But in reality, kindness can still be seen everywhere, and examples of good results are also everywhere, and if people do evil anytime and anywhere, most people will resist, which shows from one side that kindness is also in the hearts of most people.

Why is there a saying that people are good and are deceived by others?

There may be two points, the first is the excuse for those who want to be evildoers, I once saw such a person who likes to bully others, when someone advised him to be kind to others, he said: People are good and are bullied by others, I cannot be bullied by others.

Second, just like Dou Mien, bear the hatred of rice, people's kindness has become an excuse for others to take it infinitely, so in the eyes of others, it has become the best example of people's kindness and being bullied.

People are good and are not deceived, those who deceive others are deceived, the way of heaven is good reincarnation, good and evil have their own retribution, life in the world should still have good thoughts, good people are really good.

As for the question of "if good people are not treated well, is it necessary to be kind?" my view is that kindness still has its place.

First of all, kindness is a kind of moral cultivation, and it is about our own inner self. Whether a person is kind or not depends on his thoughts and temperament, rather than whether the outside world treats him well or not. If our goodness is based only on the expectation of external rewards, then it can hardly be called true goodness.

A truly kind person, even in the face of malice, will not lose his true heart.

Secondly, although the good deeds of kind people may not necessarily be exchanged for good retribution, they will certainly bring positive energy to the society. Even if you and I have not personally been helped by a kind person, this person's good deeds must have invisibly made the world a little better. This is the meaning of the existence of good people.

Therefore, the need for good people in society will not be diminished by the unkindness of individuals.

Moreover, kindness is not without reason. Human nature is inherently good, and this is human nature. Although in this society where interests are paramount, good people do not always get the benefits they deserve, but this does not change the essence of human kindness.

It remains the responsibility of each of us as members of society to uphold this good nature. It would be a betrayal of humanity to give up kindness because of misdeeds.

Finally, the power of good examples should not be underestimated. The first step in any social change is to start with the individual. A good example who insists on being a good person will have an immeasurable impact, which may not be immediate, but it will gradually permeate and change the world over time.

This is also where kindness is necessary.

To sum up, I think that even if good people are not treated well, kindness is just as necessary. Kindness comes from within, and it is about character and nature. Kindness makes the world a better place, and society needs kind people more.

Human nature is inherently good, and it is the responsibility of each of us to maintain goodness. The power of good examples can also gradually change the world. Therefore, no matter what the environment is, kindness is still worth upholding and carrying forward.

This is the true meaning of goodness.

No matter how kind you are, you're not a fool

I believe that each of us wants to get along with others better, because each of us will have all kinds of people around us, and we also know that only when we get along with others can we get along with everyone more harmoniously, and we will make everyone better together.

So we see that a lot of people are very kind, and they will be kind to the people around them, but even though we see that there are many people who are very kind, and they can treat the people around them well, we still see a lot of people. They are not treated by others, so some people wonder if they need to be kind if they are not treated well.

Indeed, we see a small number of people who find that even though there are many people who are very kind, we are even better able to care for and love each other. But even if we take others seriously, there are some people who don't treat us well, and even they will do things that hurt us, so it will make many people feel that it will take a long time. There is no need to be kind to others anymore.

But we're seeing that for more people, they know. If we are not able to be kind to others, then it is obvious that it may be difficult for others to be kind to us and we believe that when we are able to care for and love others better, this will take a long time. The other party can also be very good with us and get along.

I believe that when we work hard and care and love well, others will eventually be able to make me and others get along more harmoniously.

So we do see that there are people around us who are able to treat others with kindness, but they don't get kindness from others. So some people wonder if it is necessary to be kind?

Maybe for a small number of people, they think that since we are kind to others, but others are not kind to us, so we don't need to be kind to others, but we see that for most people. They know. If we can always care for and care for others, then our kind actions will eventually affect them.

In this way, the two can get along better together.

I believe that when each of us can be kind to the people around us, eventually the people around us will also be kind to us, so that everyone can get along better together, and ultimately let everyone get along more harmoniously and friendly.

Personally, I think that when kindness is not welcomed, there is no need to continue in kindness.

Because, you have paid a lot of affection to be kind to others, but others don't appreciate it, what does it mean?

It can only show that the kindness you pay is enjoyed by others in vain, but you can't get the respect that Lu Cong has.

If you pay kindness, it may be that your kindness has violated others, and it is not others who are wrong, but yourself.

So stop in time, adjust quickly, and take back your so-called goodness.

In a person's life, whether it is good or not is not the most important, the most important thing is to be a correct person.

To be the right person is to be the right person.

A right person will make himself comfortable, and he will also make the people around him feel comfortable, which is a kind of kindness in itself, a kind of kindness that makes himself and others feel like a spring breeze.

Be the right person, this is a lifelong lesson, there are some things in life that you should take care of, you should pay, Zhao Xipei has some things that you should not manage, you should not pay, if you manage and pay, you will be disliked by others, and you will be quite wronged.

Not all poured oil bottles need to be lifted up, maybe it's a test.

A right person's character will not be bad, and a kind person is not necessarily a right person.

A person who is right is priceless, and a person who only knows goodness will not be respected by others.

Life is short, do it and cherish it!

Dear, what do you think?