20 points bounty for the question of girlfriend, let s take a look at it closely

You hit ** She ignores you, it's obvious that she doesn't care about you at all. If she cared about you, she wouldn't always make you anxious like this. If you like someone, it also depends on fate.

Like this, the other party doesn't care about you, it's just that you try your best to make her happy. One day you'll get tired too. Have fun.

Apparently if he cared, would you let you look for him for three whole months?

Give up, forget about her, and start a new life!!

Hang your appetite, my girlfriend used to be like this, you get along longer and be nice to her, and after ML in the future, you will be awesome, and she can't do without you.

It's a bit dangerous, and there's really nothing you can do. It is recommended that you talk to her and make the problem between you clear. Whether it is divided or combined depends on your fate, don't force yourself together.

I'd say she probably doesn't like you, so give up! You didn't say what you used to be!

It doesn't seem to be of much interest to you, but you can still slowly impress her, there are two kinds of girls in the world, one is to catch up with you, and the other is to catch up after chasing for a long time, and there is no one who can't catch up Good luck.

You are lucky, but you lose your life.

There are things that should be given up. It's not that it's possible, it's really not worth it anymore.

Call her with a different number every day (of course, it's a public **), and after a long time, she should be moved. . . Of course, you have to make sure that she has changed her mind! Look for a chance to have a little romance.

Some people are a little bit less appreciative of what they are good for, and you can try to be distant from them occasionally, and care about them very much occasionally, and don't cling to someone, which is easy to get bored.

Surprise ......Touched ......Sincerely......Design your own pyrotechnics? Fresh flowers? Gift? Brother, there are many ways, insist, even if she ignores you, insist on caring for her.

If you like it very much, go for it, and send a message if you don't answer. Sent every day. Gradually, it became a habit of her life. I can't do without you.

Forget everything you should forget, and treat it as a memory......

It is estimated that she is deliberately avoiding you, so you can let it go for a while before watching the development.

Do what you like. Look at your understanding.

I've read what you've written.

First of all, you've been dating for 10 months, which isn't a long time.

Think about it, what are the fond memories of your 10 months?

But to assume one condition, the memory must not be based on money, i.e., the memory is the most natural. I do not reject happiness built on money, but to examine the nature of happiness we must strip away the cloak of money.

Furthermore, she has nothing you admire, ignoring the figure and beauty. The longevity of a marriage or love is based on recognition and mutual attraction. Of course, I don't reject beautiful women, but the test of the solidity of a love marriage must put aside beauty.

Third, I feel that this woman is a money worshipper, and she is narrow-minded, even if you have a lot of money, whenever you give someone a little benefit, even if you show your feelings to your relatives with gifts, she has to complain. If you don't accept your father's business from scratch in order to prove yourself, will she follow you? The answer is yes, no!

So, when facing a breakup, the idea needs to be taken by yourself, but you can ask yourself again, is the relationship between us innocent, or does it smell like copper coins, can I accept her shortcomings? Is this shortcoming forgivable? 10 years later, when she recedes from her beauty, she still has the current shortcomings, and even worsens, can you still accept it?

Decisions come from within, and I hope to lead you to discover the essence of the problem.

Finally, I wish you happiness, it can be seen that you are a rich but sensible man. I hope you have all the best in life.

Didn't you say anything about the breakup caused by the problem? Is there no emotion, or is it really unbearable? When two people are together, they must learn to manage love, don't quarrel over some trivial things in life, solve problems when they encounter them, and don't make them look like enemies!

It's best to talk about why you broke up, or analyze it specifically, I hope it can help you!

You find the reason yourself, why did you break up, find the reason, just solve it, bless you.

After seeing what you said, I still don't bless you, such a woman forget it.

She gets angry when you buy something for your mother.

Don't let such people go.

Otherwise, you will be even more uncomfortable in the future.

Turn pressure into motivation, if you like her, it's good to have a little pressure; After all, you also said that her appearance and her own conditions are very good, it is normal for such a girl to want to find a rich person, and you must have enough capital to like her.

Her ideas are not outrageous. You have to work your own and carve out your own business so that you can get what you want.

Well, this mainly depends on your own thoughts.

There are many other things to consider before making this decision.

1。Can you go on, and how far can you go if you can continue2. For now, there is a gap in your ideas and concepts, how to deal with the gap in the future3.

You guys are still young and your life is really long, have you thought about the future path? If your family runs out of money, is it possible to develop in the future?

4。If you think about these things, I think it's almost the same ps: I personally think that this is really not a matter of one person, and the two of you should think about it calmly first.

Boy, don't care so much about women, there are many women in the world. It seems that you are a more filial and sensible child, a man looking for a wife, the first condition is not to be beautiful, but to be filial, women should be gentle and virtuous, considerate, although you are a beautiful woman now, but I feel that she doesn't want you to be good to your family, I don't want you to be good to your friends, only thinking about yourself, only thinking about money, the best money in the world is money, but she has no feelings at all. Hehehe....Find another one!

This woman can only be a lover, not a wife.

This kind of woman, don't do it. Not worthy of you, really. Dude, don't belittle yourself! Divide it. You can see that you are a good person (I don't know how to express it, hehe). She's really unworthy, and if you fancy her looks, I have nothing to say.

i Let's end it. Didn't you notice that girl is very selfish about money Does it care about your money I just graduated from college with a salary of less than 1,000 Do it, and she is in the midst of happiness and doesn't know what she likes is money Even if you don't break up now, one day you will divide it You can't see through her heart.

There are too many girls with good appearance conditions and their own conditions, and there must be many girls who know how to appreciate you, obviously she is not.

It's still not good to say nothing, we have to let us know something.

Now the main thing is to solve the reason for the breakup first, there is always a reason for things, if you don't want to break up, no matter whose fault it is, you take the fault on yourself, and then buy something and admit your mistake!! Say something touching, say that I really can't live without you, I might as well die without you, and then mention to her the romantic things you have experienced before, people's hearts are flesh, and women need to be coaxed. Engage in romantic points.

Good luck with LZ.

The trick is to ask for a breakup first.

She will come back and beg you. Hehe, if you don't believe it, just try.

I don't know what you think, such a girl is still nostalgic. Now the girl's conditions are much better in all aspects, and she does have feelings for ten months of love, but it is still relatively short, in such a short period of time, she wants this and that, and restricts you from spending money to communicate, to put it mildly, it is too materialistic. I found a beautiful, virtuous and motivated girl from a poor bastard, and I was very satisfied.

That girl told you to find a rich man, maybe she was rushing for money, and the material girl would be a loser, so I persuaded you to break up.

If you buy something for your mother, family.

She's going to get angry, so you need to think about it.

Chen Ken's last retention, review yourself, but still ignore your words, then it's good to get together and disperse, there is nothing to be nostalgic about.

Do you want to divide or not, if you want to divide, you can divide, if you don't want to divide, you can work hard.

The majority of netizens will top you, and you will be on it, and it will be good to post it successfully after you are done, and if it is not successful, the majority of netizens will also support you with your efforts! Life Procedure....Success is no different!

Are you doing something wrong? Be honest and admit your mistakes!

The key is to solve the problem of "what she wants, is to know that there can be a future with you?" "It's a very real problem. Otherwise, no one wants to be a "wandering girl".

1. Your family is in Beijing, you should stay in Beijing, this is your family's opinion, and as a girlfriend, you will agree.

2. Can you get a job and help your girlfriend get a job at the same time? If you can get married, your girlfriend will agree to get married and settle down in Beijing in the future.

3. Just because the second question is uncertain, your girlfriend will have the idea of "wanting to go back to her own home", which is normal and reasonable.

Fourth, love is romantic when you are studying, but when you are about to graduate, it is very realistic, and romance without a realistic foundation will not last long. Romance is temporary, reality is long-lasting. Dancing in the sky, romance will eventually fall on the land of reality.

Fifth, the long pain is not as good as the short pain, the unrealistic romance for two people, the sooner the end of the better, now it seems that in the market economy society, "love" is not detached from reality, but also conditional, this is probably called the material is the first nature, "material first, spiritual second" materialism.

Without further ado, there are three suggestions:

First, the marriage of the son, this method is generally the most effective, the raw rice is cooked into rice, generally no one will object, even if the parents oppose will not let you separate, after the fact of marriage, you two should have a good talk with the parents of both sides, to know the reason, to move the emotion, to threaten the interests.

2. Get the certificate first, and the method is the same as above.

3. Negotiating, you are a man, you should take the initiative to talk to your future father-in-law and mother-in-law about this matter, but the probability is not too great, it depends on your eloquence.

They all say persuasion and don't persuade separation, but for the feelings on campus, when you enter the society, you will find how fragile it is, not to mention a long-distance relationship, let it go, if you can't be in a city, or put this innocent love in your heart, maybe it will be very sweet to think about it after many years, the above is more practical, for your reference!

If you can't accept this answer, then as a man, I think that if you think that your ability can meet the requirements of working in a different place, and your family environment allows, it is recommended that you can go back to her home with her, find a job from there, and share ups and downs together, if your girlfriend can really accompany you through the most difficult journey, then it proves that your current choice is not wrong!

In fact, many things depend on how much you love her and how much you are willing to pay for her, but remember, your own responsibilities and feelings at home must also be taken into account!

You can only maintain a relationship in this situation, you don't take the initiative to break up, she proposes to break up and only passively recognizes, but you can also take the initiative to contact, if after a lukewarm period of time, the two of you are still inseparable, and the two parties have not made another friend of the opposite sex, it means that you are really an unbreakable pair, and she will naturally stay in Beijing at this time. If you want to leave Beijing and go to work in other places with her, I'm afraid it's not good, don't say that your parents don't agree, even if I think it's not advisable as an outsider, in this way, it depends on the fate of the two of you. If you passively approve of the breakup, you really slowly separate, then it can only be so, long-distance marriage in today's society is not advisable, is it that you are young and your conditions may not be bad, do you have to fall and die on a tree?

Not really! Let's follow the above countermeasures, see the development of the situation, and adjust your mentality and countermeasures in a timely manner! Treat and deal with this issue objectively and realistically.

Love can be arbitrary, it is a matter of two people, marriage is not, it is a matter of two families, remember nine words, objective reality, need and possibility.

Tell her: stay in Beijing. You'll raise her!

She is more conflicted in her heart. She has feelings for you, but she feels that Beijing is too stressful. Don't want to work too hard.

If you tell him that you can fight the problems of life. Give her a peace of mind pill. I don't think she's going to be gone. And she will still go to work.

Even if a long-distance relationship is still in contact after graduation, it is still a couple, and after all, with the passage of time, the relationship between the two people will become weaker and colder, and in the end, if there is still the opposite sex around, they may be separated. Even if there is no third party, it will end because the relationship between the two people has weakened. You are from Beijing, your family should be quite traditional, and you will definitely want to hold your grandson or granddaughter, and you will not be allowed to have no children.

If you are separated after graduation, will you marry and be widowed with each other? Even if you have a child, but the child only has the love of one party, just like a single-parent family, this is unrealistic. The most sensitive issue of a long-distance relationship is your current problem, that is, one party must give up and be willing to go to another place, otherwise the two will break up even if they get married.

If neither of you can do this, I suggest you just cherish the present.