When you were 20 years old, how did you see yourself in the rest of your life?

I guess many people are confused, and so am I, I don't know what I will do in the future.

I think the future is bright. At that time, I just came out of the internship, and my mystery swelled. I think I can get ahead if I work hard, but now I am not an office worker with a small salary.

Life has just begun, and I want to meet all kinds of challenges, seize all kinds of opportunities, and give myself a good future.

I feel that my life is confused, there is no direction, I can't do anything well, and I am a waste person in society.

At that time, I had been in the society for three years, and I also understood some truths: planning is in people, and most of us can't know the destiny of heaven, and doing our best is the only thing we have to do.

At that time, I thought that I could continue to love my girlfriend like this, get married after graduation, and find a decent job to live a dull life.

I feel that I don't have any direction in life, I just want to finish the past few years and find a stable job.

That year was the year I came out for an internship, and I felt that everything was really difficult, but I also believed that I would definitely be strong in the future.

Categories: Annoyance >> Emotional Emotions.

Problem description: How should I spend my twentieth year, or do I do nothing? Everyone help me come up with an idea, I'm almost twenty, and I feel that all kinds of things are far away from me, and my ideal is like a girlfriend. The more setbacks I received, the farther I felt I was from this ideal, as if the word girlfriend itself had nothing to do with me.

I tried to shift my passion to other ideals, like my future, my career, but they were as far away as girlfriends. Therefore, my ideal is on the other side, and this shore is a life of inaction, and 20 years of inaction.

Analysis: In fact, many people are like you when they are young, such as me, I always feel that I was like this when I was twenty years old. The boyfriend I wanted was always too far away from me. The ideal is even too far away. But that's how I got over anyway.

At that time, I was very confused and loved a boy, but he had a lot of girlfriends, and he changed one after another, but he just didn't like me. What can I do, he said he didn't deserve me, and I feel the same now, because he is useless.

As for learning, it's even more difficult. I just went to secondary school, I didn't learn anything, and I always felt that my life was like this.

Five years have passed in the blink of an eye, I am now married, I have a family, I am ready to have another child, and then open a small shop...

You are still very young at the age of 20, and there is still a long life waiting for you, and I believe that you will have the same happiness as everyone in the future. There is a family, a career, a future, and an ideal that only accompanies the bridge.

Take your time, little brother!!