Do you have a strong desire for your child to be better than you in the future?

There will be no strong hope, because then he will have more pressure than happiness.

I won't. This is the child's own life, he has to control it himself, I just hope he is healthy.

As a parent, if you really have the hope of making your child an extraordinary person, or at least hope that he can live happily and happily, then don't abandon the basics, or return to the source, and teach the child how to achieve happiness in the ordinary.

I feel that my child is healthy and healthy, and I feel very content to have a person who loves him.

Of course, who is not the same as their own children are great, and it is the most basic to be motivated.

Everyone is different, and you have to find your own interests and reach your potential to be the "best version of yourself". Helping them find the right one will be far better than me in the future.

It's definitely better than me. Now I'm a white-collar worker, and I have no future. My child will be prosperous in the future, let me live a good life.

No, although I really want him to have a better life, I still hope that he can live the way he wants, and only then can he be happy.

Yes, the long wind and the waves push the front waves, and the generation is stronger than the generation, of course I hope that my descendants can be stronger than me and can glorify the ancestors.

Every parent should want their children to be better than themselves! I hope that my children can have a good job and a good family, which is the life that we all hope our children have. I hope that my child will be able to live as he likes in the future.

When parents want to be respected by their sons and daughters, children are good parents, and as long as their children understand filial piety in the future, they will make money, which is better than anything else.

We see that the future of children is full of brightness, they are receiving new education, we can imagine that their future is also a new side, and his future is destined to be better than mine.

He doesn't need to be better than me, he just needs to pursue his ideal life, rely on his hobbies, and do what he wants to do.

From the moment you become a parent, your life is filled with endless worries. Still, I just want my baby to be healthy and carefree, and I won't force him to repay me when he grows up. Because children do not owe their parents, parents will go through a period of cultivation as their children grow.

The simplest thing is to get married when it's time to get married, have a baby when it's time to have a baby, and don't waste time when it's time to fight. Experience the ups and downs of every stage of life, and feel the joys and sorrows of life.

A child's future is to live for himself, not for his parents. Instead of racking my brain to think about what my child's future will be, I want to see what my child wants in the future. Muggles.

It's definitely not sweet, and it's not sweet for children. You can't force her to do something. Children are actually independent creatures from us, they have their own choices, they are not our appendages.

From the moment each child is born, they bring their dreams into the world. They are different from any other being, they are who they are, they are unique beings. Children should live for themselves, not for us, and not for others.

Human life is inherently painful. We have already experienced the experience of living for others, and we have also experienced how many unwilling lives. Why should we let our children go our old ways!

Interest guidance is not about parents imposing their interests on their children and telling them that they must do it, but according to the child's nature, let it become some kind of force in his life. Once he encounters this thing, he will have a sense of accomplishment and presence. Parents, don't say that this child is inferior to others, that is, inferior to others.

Everyone has a lot of things that are inferior to others, but instead of reinforcing it, help your child build self-confidence in some areas. This self-confidence does not necessarily mean how well he needs to learn the subject, but rather a deep belief in the child that he is actually accepted by others, no matter what position he is in.

No matter how old you are, you will feel beautiful when you see beautiful things, warm when you see touching things, grateful when you are cared for, and full of curiosity when you see new things. People are always small in front of nature, and many troubles go to see the sea, and climbing the mountain will disappear. Observe so many weak but tenacious creatures in nature and open your heart.

I hope that the child will be healthy, able to have a sunny and cheerful personality, and be carefree and disease-free in his life;

I hope that my children can succeed in their studies, do not have to endure hardships like themselves, and can make money in an easier way and live a wonderful life.

I want my children to have a skill, a job that they love, a good salary, and not to run around for a living.

A happy and stable future. I hope that my children can choose the job they love, find someone they love, and live a dull and happy life together.

Everyone wants their children to be successful and works hard to nurture them. Different parents have different answers to the question of what kind of goals they have for raising their children. ......For me, Qingyu, the ultimate goal of cultivating children includes three aspects: making children become self-reliant, making children become successful people in their careers, and enabling children to pursue a happy life.

1. My primary goal in raising a child is to make him a self-reliant person.

My primary goal in nurturing my child is to enable him to become a self-reliant person. ......This goal may seem simple, but fundamentally it is the basis of everything. ......Only when my child becomes a person who can face and solve the various problems he faces with his own ability and can support himself, can his career and life be guaranteed, and I can rest assured of him.

2. My ultimate goal in raising children is to enable them to become successful people in their careers.

Everyone wants to succeed in their careers, and that's what my ultimate goal is to raise children. ......I hope that my children will be able to make achievements and achieve certain achievements after entering the workplace, and become a respected person and a successful person. In this way, his life will be meaningful, and he will be pleased with what he has achieved.

3. My realistic goal in raising children is to enable them to pursue a happy life.

My realistic goal for raising my child is to enable him to pursue a happy life. ......The reason why I set such a goal is because life is the basic chain of a person, and only when you have a happy life will everything become meaningful. ......Because of this, I take this as a realistic goal to cultivate my child, guide and educate him, help him improve his ability to live independently, so as to pursue a happy life through his own efforts, so as to make his life happier and more perfect.

2022 will soon be far away from us, we are about to usher in a new 2023, looking back on the past year, there are many moments that make me feel beautiful and happy, especially the following annual moments impress me the most.

That year was when I took my daughter Lu Luo'er to the elementary school to enroll, which meant that my daughter had become a primary school student and officially started her life as a student. The reason why this moment of the year makes me remember the most is because when my daughter entered primary school, I thought of when I was a child, my father took me to primary school to sign up for study, and now looking back, more than 30 years have passed, and that moment seems to be right in front of me, that time is my special nostalgia and nostalgia.

Now I take my daughter to primary school to enroll, I don't know what kind of impression will be left on her memory in the future, but as far as I am concerned, I, like most parents, hope that my daughter will study hard enough after going to primary school, be able to really learn something, and when she grows up in the future, she will be able to find her own development direction through knowledge, find a job that is really suitable for herself, and make herself a useful person to society. I hope that my daughter can feel the joy of learning and the joy of being with her teachers and classmates during her time at school.

My daughter's exam results are out, and to be precise, the time has come to judge my family's learning and education. The moment I knew the results, I was a little blindfolded, and I bit my lip and I took a deep breath hard, because the report card told me fiercely to reflect on it! My tears were almost falling, and I felt like all my exertion had been wasted without a trace.

At that moment, I guess my face must have been ugly. I couldn't hold back my roar, but my stomach was already bulging, and I couldn't even hold my meal. Read the texts of celebrities to soothe me who was feeling anxious.

The English poet Gibran once wrote, "Your children are not your children." They are the children born of life's desire for itself. They came into the world through you, but they did not come because of you, they are beside you, but they do not belong to you.

To my child (excerpt).

You're not my hope, no.

You are your own hope.

My dreams that didn't come true are still mine.

If they don't have anything to do with you, let them not have anything to do with you.

Why don't you have a new dream?

In that dream, there is no need for me.

I'm an aging thing.

but I am not ready to dedicate my life to you.

It's my stubbornness.

Yet I love you, my child.

I love you, that's all.

You are not my wealth, no.

If you must be wealthy.

Then you are the wealth of time and the wealth of the future.

You are so precious, how can I take it for myself.

All along, I didn't want to admit it.

In fact, in the sense of life, we are all miracles.

Just like in the future, rolling will not be more important than it is now.

You and I can only be a part of each other's lives.

Yet I love you, my child.

I love you, that's all.

You're not even my child, I mean.

When the gods pass on a breath of anger to you through me.

I wonder how I wish I could be your protector for the rest of your life.

Someday, I will be a useless thing.

I watched you look at you, but couldn't do anything.

Yet I love you, my child.

I love you, that's all.

But I love you more.

I know that my father loves me more.

It's a big deal, and it's all about it.

1. Learning: As a parent, I am most concerned about my child's learning, so I hope teachers can pay more attention to their children's learning.

2. Life: Children spend most of their time in school after school, and parents cannot always be by their children's side, so I hope that teachers will pay more attention to their children in life.

3 Interpersonally: The child is in school. In addition to learning, interpersonal communication is also very important, and teachers can play a role as a lubricant in it, so I hope that teachers can pay more attention to children in interpersonal communication.

In fact, I don't have much expectations, as long as he is healthy, as long as he is happy, he can live his own life what kind of life he likes, so that's it, there is no need to impose a burden on the child.

This is a "good habit" that has been passed down through the ages, not to mention anything else, all parents think that their next generation is a little stronger than themselves, and hope that their lives are a little better than their own lives, because children are a continuation of their life, just like they have left this world, and life continues. Expecting better and better is a subjective idea, at least not many people think that they are getting worse and worse, only thinking about the good side, and as a child, he should have his own early sleepy life, but some people want to change them from some subjective thoughts, to try to change the happiness that he came to this world, should enjoy, and become the "tool" of the accomplished person who has always existed in their hearts, so the expectations are getting higher and higher, and all kinds of training, tutoring, etc., are fully arranged. I have never asked my children how they feel, but I think deeply about whether children are the only ones who can make a difference, and whether it is appropriate to impose expectations on others, is something that we as parents should think deeply about.