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It's up to you, maybe it's insecure, maybe it's because you don't have self-confidence, or maybe it's just your temper. If he loves you very much, he is used to you like this. Then there is no need to change.
You can try to tell him if he will be angry if he has a temper like yourself. To love someone is to love all that is to him. I think he should know
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My ex-girlfriend is the same, she will tell me these thoughts of hers, so that I will also care a lot and understand her...
It is recommended that you also communicate with him more, it is good that you yourself are aware of these problems, in fact, do not have a burden in your heart, this is not a disadvantage, change slowly, and at the same time tell him more that you are doing this because you love him....
If he is really in a hurry, he must restrain himself, don't bother him, and then settle accounts with him afterwards, a moderate quarrel will make the relationship more exciting
Don't feel burdened and wish you happiness.
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I'm the same as you, love to lose my temper, in fact, a lot of times I don't want to, and then I will reflect on guilt, but unfortunately things have happened, you always feel that you are left out, because you love him too much, there is no sense of security, if he is busy, be more considerate of him, he will thank you for your understanding, or you can participate in his affairs, so that you can think about problems together! I won't feel left out either!
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You are idle, find something you like to do, divert your attention, and it will be much better. In turn, it also proves that you love him, you see how reasonable you are, you should be a good wife. Try to manage your relationship yourself. Bless you all!
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It's normal, and I'm like that -- I know what he's doing, but I still want to do something to get his attention.
Prove that you love him very much Actually, what you said can already help you get rid of it You know all the truth, every time you want to be a little angry, just think about what you said He was doing the right thing, he loved me very much, and he didn't ignore me. These three sentences are sufficient.
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Personality problems. I guess you're a Virgo.
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The truth of life is just hidden in the plain and tasteless.
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Why do girls keep apologizing and coaxing boys? It can only be said that he is used to you.
There is really no way for boys to have small hearts, and generally boys with small hearts will have a lot of problems whether they are in love, study, work, or interpersonal communication, in other words, they have no interest and can't do big things.
In your interactions, you blindly tolerate and tolerate him, and he should enjoy this model as a matter of course, and then give you advice, because you are big, and the one who changes it must be you.
Such people are generally not responsible.
A mature boy will be more tolerant and better to his family, be polite to others, yell at his family (referring to you), and point fingers, I can only hehe.
It's a bit ugly to say, but really, you should go find a more suitable one, don't stay in a tree that isn't very good.
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It's used to you, you deserve it, you can't have the reason that you are older than him to tolerate him and coax him. Who doesn't like to be held, besides, who stipulates that the older ones should let the younger ones go, it's to fall in love, not brothers and sisters at home, otherwise what's the point of falling in love by yourself, isn't looking for a boyfriend just to find someone who coaxes you, since you think you have to let the older ones, you might as well find someone older than you.
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I don't agree with what I said above, I speak more straight, even if it's not a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, it's more difficult to accept, (of course, it's not that you can't be straight at any time, just say, consider other people's feelings when you speak) So it should be you change it first, at least change it slightly, and if he is still more likely to get angry after changing it, you try to ignore him, and he knows that he is not used to him every time.
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Immature performance, and anger is not a matter of being petty or not, it should be a problem of his personality, in fact, next time you can deliberately make him angry once, and then tell him that you think you are not wrong to talk like this. You are such a character, don't apologize and coax him, see how he reacts. It is estimated that it is either used to at home, or it is the extreme personality.
When 2 people are together, they have to accommodate each other The man who loves you will teach you how to speak, how to deal with what to do after saying the wrong thing, instead of playing a temper and being childish.
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You can't get used to him, you have to let him know that there are some things that there is no need to be angry at all, and let him know that you also have a limit to patience. If he doesn't understand yet, don't coax him next time you get angry.
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This kind of person, it's not easy to change, there is a way, it's very risky, quarrel again, ignore him, see how he reacts, to be honest, you are a typical female man.
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Treat him coldly first, as long as he talks to you, you can talk to him well, and talk about it, otherwise you will never be able to solve the problem and will habitually challenge the limit of your patience.
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Ignore him and let him reflect on himself.
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I wonder how it is now, is this issue solved.
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Summary. Hello dear, the reason why you always like to lose your temper with your boyfriend is that we have learned to deal with problems through tantrums, and perhaps when we were children, we saw parents often deal with conflicts, contradictions, and discord between them in this way of losing their temper at the slightest disagreement. So, we learned this way and thought that there was no good way to resolve the disagreement between two people other than this way.
Possibility two, we are releasing the once pent-up anger: perhaps in our childhood, whenever we get angry, our family members will harshly reprimand us and say, "Don't do this!"
Shut up! Or: Don't hit, don't swear, don't point fingers, don't stare at me.
Hello teacher. Hello dear, why do you always like to lose your temper with your boyfriend The reason for the quarrel is Possibility one, we have learned to deal with problems by throwing tantrums, perhaps when we were children, we saw parents often deal with conflicts, contradictions and discord between them in this way of losing their temper when they disagree. So, we learned this way and thought that there was no good way to resolve the disagreement between two people other than this way.
Possibility 2 is that we are releasing the once pent-up anger: perhaps in our childhood, whenever we were angry, our family members would harshly reprimand us and say, "Don't open your eyes like this!"
Shut up! Or: Don't hit, don't swear, don't point fingers, don't stare at me.
It may also be insecure.
Then I got angry with him.
It's normal to kiss, you asked him to accompany you but he didn't accompany you, is he good to you?
My dear. He was very nice to me.
We are a village.
Fall in love in March this year.
Hello dear, once in a while is understandable.
You can also accompany him to play billiards, kiss, so that you can accompany him, and then you are also happy, and this is also his hobby, hhhh
You should cherish it, my dear.
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If you love to lose your temper, you can regulate your liver. The most important thing to maintain a mentality is not to compare and judge people and things outside too much, when you have a different point of view from others, you will change your mind, anger is very expensive, why am I angry. It can only prove that these people have no quality at all, they can't even control their emotions, no matter who they are, they can lose their temper, and if you meet such a person, you treat him as a dog, so that you won't get angry.
It should be that she has a boyfriend but she doesn't know how to tell you because of the situation, for fear that you will be sad, and you gave her such an expensive gift, she feels that she doesn't know what to do, so I suggest that you make it clear first or stop looking for her. That's good for both of you.