I graduated from college and remembered my high school girlfriend

It shows that you really love her, you have always loved her, you have no confidence in yourself, you have no confidence to give her happiness, and you are afraid to ask her sincerity, you use realistic problems to cover up your timidity, this is nothing, many people will be like this, when their current situation does not reach their ideal state, or when the other party is very different from their own conditions, this kind of timidity will appear, since you dare not express it to her now, then continue your silent blessings, until you are unwilling, you want to be with her, you think you are ready, then you go and express to her your love and infatuation for so many years, but it is estimated that she has already been captured by others at that time. Actually, what does it matter if the conditions are different, do you want her to love you as a person or love your conditions? How do you know if she cares more about material things such as family conditions than feelings?

What if she doesn't care? She still likes you, too? If she cares about her net worth, or she already has someone else she likes, will you still be like this?

What do you need to do? You just need to tell her your sincerity, that's all, no matter what the result will be, tell her, it is really fair to you and her, do you have to pursue a good result? If not, then what are you afraid of?

What is the use of thinking, you dare not face it.

If you want to struggle for a few years, will she wait for you for a few years? Will she appreciate your wishful thinking?

You still don't know if she has a boyfriend now, do you?

You might as well be generous, keep friends with her, and you can also learn about her current situation.

Confess to her when the time is right! At least it's called fighting! No one else will stand still and wait for you.

Years? I'm afraid she's married.

If you feel that you are out of play, then forget about her and save yourself from distress!

The blessing is very good, and we can meet again if we are fated.

Like me, I can't put it thoroughly, I can't forget it, I always want to do something more for her... Actually, I don't want to do it all over again.,I just can't control it and I want to care about her.,Greet her.,See if she's okay.,Happy or not.。。。 What's going on?

Well, your question, I'm done.

First of all, I want to say that you are too macho and your family's influence is very big for you.

Your girlfriend has been spoiled by you as a little princess, so you have to take care of her, and when one day your girlfriend becomes mature, you will feel that you are very boring.

You do have a point in managing money, but you shouldn't just talk about your girlfriend. She gave up her city in order to give up her own city, you said it yourself, she only has you here, and you still talk about her like that.

Let me sum up, I am also a girl, I also came to my boyfriend's city after graduating from college, my boyfriend has already handed over the financial power to me, and he never says anything out loud to me, let alone directly counts my wrong.

Sir, please reflect on yourself.

It's not easy to live apart from each other, if you really love her, you can go to her and go to her city to follow your home, if you don't care about it, it's best to leave well.

First of all, your girlfriend is very immature, has no subjective consciousness of her own, listens to what others say, do you dare to think about it after marriage? Secondly, I don't think she loves you, she just depends on you now, you can satisfy her idea of being a little princess, and then, I want to say that this kind of girl is not suitable for marriage, brother, after marriage, it will also bring you negative emotions, and it will definitely not be happy, of course, this is just my personal opinion, and finally, you can actually talk to her to calm down and talk If she is still so stubborn, it is that she is really not suitable for you, let it go as soon as possible.

The only way to do this is to choose one.

Everyone's path is different, and it is naturally difficult to have a deep conversation, just be an ordinary friend.

Whether or not to wait depends on several factors:

First: What do you know about this girl, you have been dating her for so long, you should know her as a person, as long as she is not a money worshipper who sees things differently, it is worth waiting.

Second, the attitude of her family, in general, is that if you fall in love with her, her parents are against it, because ah, love that is not blessed by her parents will not go far after all.

Third, do you know anything about the school she attended, and do you know anything about her roommates? Let's take the two independent colleges of finance and economics that I originally studied. The school style is not strong, the girls look forward to this rich second generation, live a good life, are very keen on cosmetics, high-end luxury jewelry, a good girl, in such a school, may be affected.

Those who are not affected will be isolated, and these money worshippers will try their best to stumble and make you bad. How many students have been harmed by such a school!

Here are some of my thoughts based on personal experience for your reference.

Love stays on the top of the mountain, on the valley of reason. Love is the sublimation of life, the pinnacle of life, and it is rare to appear. The sprout of love is the end of wisdom, how many times and how many times, memories draw life in a circle, and we turn in the same place countless times, unable to get rid of it.

I always want to return to the place where I first met, and if I can choose again, I think I can love more purely. Wasting time waiting for answers here, it's better to ask questions and examine your questions so that there is a chance to improve.

What are you going to do in three years to get married.

You shouldn't be chasing your own happiness.