What to do if a child resists going to kindergarten

There are many reasons why babies don't like to go to kindergarten.

1. Parents sometimes scare the baby, saying that if the baby is sent to kindergarten no matter what, they should tell the baby about the benefits of going to kindergarten;

2. The baby is not used to getting up early;

3. The baby is not used to the lifestyle in the kindergarten;

4 Afraid of teachers.

5 I feel that my parents don't want him anymore.

No matter what the reason is, parents should communicate more with the baby and the teacher, and it is best not to use too tough attitude towards the baby, but to encourage the baby more.

Is it the first time to go? If so, then you're going to have to send her over with a snack.

If not, it's not in kindergarten, there is a problem, accompany her for a day.

It's actually a very common thing for babies not to want to go to kindergarten. He has been there for you since he was a child. All of a sudden, he will feel insecure in an unfamiliar environment, where he does not know anyone.

The way he uses to express his emotions is to cry, and if he's the kind of person who is very reasonable, you can tell him that when he grows up, he should go to kindergarten.

I have a few ways to resist going to kindergarten for children.

1.With the help of kindergarten picture books in advance, children's interest and yearning for kindergarten life are stimulated.

2.Let the person who is the least sticky of the child go to the kindergarten when sending it to the kindergarten.

3.In the afternoon, when picking up the child, let the child be the most sticky, hug and say love to the child, and be sure to give the child full emotional satisfaction.

4..After receiving it, if the child does not take the initiative to talk about the kindergarten, don't chase and ask, if there is anything to ask the teacher directly. Because of your problem, it may cause more stress for the child.

5.If the child tells you, you promise me that it is okay, I will not go to the kindergarten, you should not persuade the child how good the kindergarten is, and do not deceive the child and say yes, we will not go, but to recognize the child's current feelings, which will make the child feel that you understand him and you understand him.

6.On the way home, play as many games as possible with your child, or talk about what you want to eat at night, such as topics that can relax your child.

7.As long as the child is not sick, insist on sending it to kindergarten If you are distressed, the child is crying, three days of fishing and two days of drying nets, and the adaptation time will be longer.

Secondly, you should reason with your child and tell her what she should do now that she has grown up.

Thirdly, when the child is in this situation, you can communicate with the child and ask the child what is the reason why the child is unhappy; Or talk to your child about something you are happy about, such as if your child has done well in something, praise him appropriately or agree to some of his requests, so as to encourage him to persevere.

1. Do ideological work in advance.

Before the baby goes to kindergarten, parents should do a good job of ideological work in advance. Tell your baby that there are a lot of fun toys in the kindergarten, and you can also play games, draw, and have a lot of cute children.

2. Take your child to read more picture books and animations about kindergarten.

Maybe the mouth says how good the kindergarten is, but the baby has no concept. You can show your baby some picture books and animations of interesting stories in kindergarten. Like Xiong Xiong, Xiong Er doesn't want to go to kindergarten and have fun in the kindergarten, so you can tell the baby that there is a long slide in the kindergarten and you can also hide and seek, so as to attract the baby.

3. Take your baby to visit the kindergarten often.

You can also often take the baby to visit the kindergarten door, now many kindergartens are open railings, you can see the children playing games, making breakfast scenes, take the baby to see, he will feel that the kindergarten is a very fun place.

4. Understand the reasons why your baby resists going to kindergarten.

If your baby still doesn't want to go to kindergarten, you should communicate with your baby to understand the reasons for resistance. Is it because I am too dependent on the family and don't want to be separated from my mother, or because I am afraid of being timid, afraid of an unfamiliar environment, etc. If you don't want to be separated from your mother, you can tell your baby to pick him up as soon as school is over.

If you are afraid of being timid, you can accompany the baby for a day or two to let the baby adapt to the unfamiliar environment of the kindergarten first.

5. Enroll with a good partner.

You can also find a small partner in the same community who usually plays with the baby every day, and choose to go to kindergarten with the same kindergarten, which can also increase the baby's sense of security. In kindergarten, I slowly expanded my circle of friends and integrated into more and more children.

6. Parents should be firm in their position.

In the face of the crying of children who resist going to kindergarten, parents must be firm and not soft-hearted. If your baby succeeds in the form of crying, then he will find it effective, and it will be even more difficult to send him to kindergarten next time. In fact, the baby's attention shifts quickly, and when he cries for a while, he finds that it is useless, and he will find other interesting things.

With the help of hand-painting in advance, children are encouraged to be interested in and yearn for kindergarten life.

When sending it to kindergarten, let the person who is the least sticky of the child send it, and don't engage in a sense of ritual to pull the whole family out. Just treat it like a normal day.

After arriving at the kindergarten, as long as the teacher takes over, no matter how the child cries, you just need to tell him to come and pick him up in the afternoon, and then say goodbye with a smile, turn around and leave, don't be reluctant, otherwise the child will cry harder.

When picking up the kindergarten in the afternoon, let the child be the most sticky person to pick up, and pick up the child monkey and kiss and hug the child, so as to give the child the fullest emotional satisfaction.

After receiving the child, patiently ask the child about what happened in the kindergarten, if the child is unwilling to say, do not chase and ask.

On the way home, try to play some games with your child, encourage your child, or have some interesting topics to relax your child and avoid anxiety.