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In this way, let yourself hate uncomfortable people, or less contact, don't make yourself depressed and sick, people respect each other, to put it simply, such a mother-in-law loves face, but treats you as an outsider, she has her own children, you are better to your own parents, because you have parents who need to be honored, she doesn't treat you as a family, why should you be angry for such an outsider, like I said to my husband, the child was born by me, you are my husband, your parents are yours, They have no kindness to me, if they treat me well, I will treat them well, and I will not retaliate against me if they treat me badly, just treat them as outsiders, if you are my husband, treat me better, if you are not my husband, go back to your parents' arms, my child is mine!
Because respect is mutual, a person who deserves respect must know how to respect the people around her, if she doesn't understand, then she doesn't deserve to be respected! It's just because it's not the old man who has become bad, it's just that the bad guy has become old!
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As a daughter-in-law, no matter what the mother-in-law and father-in-law do not do well, don't give them a more truthful attitude, it is not good for them, your husband is not happy, the old man may not have enough money, and he will pass, a little bit of a small buckle on the door, I want the children to be true, they are all intergenerational relatives, children have grown up with them since childhood, they may be closer in their hearts, and they are willing to buy things, not they brought up, and the position in the heart is not very heavy, Even so, you should often go back to visit the elderly, but also educate children to respect the elderly, teach by example, and imitate adults when children are older. The family is in harmony, and everything is prosperous.
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In fact, there is no need to deliberately educate, parents are role models for children, and if they are filial to their parents, their children will be taught by words and deeds.
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The relationship between a grandmother and a child is called a grandparent relationship.
祖孙, pinyin zǔsūn, means a kinship. Generally separated by one generation. For example, the relationship between a grandfather or grandmother and a grandson or granddaughter or, a maternal grandfather and a granddaughter.
The relationship between grandparents and grandchildren is a kind of kinship relationship, which is a social relationship formed based on marriage, blood relationship and legal fiction. The kinship relations regulated by Chinese law include husband and wife, parents, children, siblings, grandparents and maternal grandparents, grandchildren and grandchildren, daughters-in-law and in-laws, sons-in-law and parents-in-law, and other collateral blood relatives within three generations, such as uncles, uncles, aunts, uncles, aunts, nieces, nieces, cousins, cousins, etc.
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Introduction: I don't know why grandparents are very pampered when they take care of their grandchildren, and they are not strict at all, because when educating their children, they are not smiling, which is really a little incomprehensible. So how should grandparents, as next-generation parents, educate their children correctly?
Let's find out today.
As the grandparents of the next generation, if you want to educate your children correctly, you must not spoil him, pampered to a degree, I don't know why, they can't control their feelings for their grandchildren, you must know that such words will make the children very arrogant, and unreasonable, do not want their grandchildren to become like this, it is recommended that parents must be pampered. You must know that only the right love is conducive to the healthy growth of children, and we must also create opportunities for children to stay with their parents more and dredge up their feelings, only in this way can we make children's education more and more correct, so that children can grow up healthily. As a parent, you should also spend more time with your children, no matter how busy you are at work, it is relatively easy to find time to play for a while.
In addition, the grandparents of the next generation must do a good job of educational unity with their parents, if the concept between you is different, then there must be certain defects in educating children, which may cause children to have a two-faced personality, and may cause children to dare not admit mistakes, so your two generations must communicate more, learn from each other's strengths, and then educate children on this basis. As an elder, we must constantly accept new ideas and new knowledge, and use a modern scientific knowledge to raise and educate children. In this case, the children who are educated are healthier and more scientific, and they will not have a bunch of problems on their bodies.
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How do the grandparents of the next generation need to educate their children correctly, one is not to spoil, the second is to have the idea of refusal, some unreasonable requirements, must be refused, and the third is to make a plan, don't think of what is what.
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When the child makes a mistake, the grandparents must not be tolerated, and they must reason with the child immediately in real time, even if they need to be punished, the grandparents cannot be soft-hearted.
Grandparents can do this, and they can educate their children properly. As long as you understand that the health and happiness of children's growth is the greatest wish of grandparents, you can do this.
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You can't use your old ideas to educate your children, you can use normal. Moral, intellectual, physical, aesthetic, and labor these learning methods to educate their grandchildren.
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Be sure to tell grandparents the correct way to educate their children, don't spoil their children excessively, be sure to cultivate their creativity, and be sure to criticize their children when they make mistakes.
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Establish a correct three views, don't spoil your children, don't always obey your children, and educate your children correctly when they do something wrong.
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Although the grandparents of the next generation have a certain influence on the spoiling of the child, as long as it does not affect the son's learning and habits, don't blame them too much.
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We should keep up with the pace of the times, and when educating children, we should not be too spoiled, and we should carry out reasonable education according to the real situation of things, so that children can grow up better.
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Children should be educated in the right way, and children should be educated in some particularly good ways, and they should not feel that they should educate their children in their own way, otherwise they will harm the children and should not be spoiled.
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At this time, the child should be taught to respect his grandparents, and he should also be told that his parents love him very much.
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As a brother of Columbia, which district did you give away the method of education? There are great benefits to such a complete future.
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The relationship between a grandmother and a child is a grand-grandchild relationship.
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It is the relationship between grandmother and grandchildren, and if you fill out the form, write about grandchildren.
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I am very sympathetic to you, discuss and communicate with my family more when I have something to do at home, it is best not to hit the child, try to be friends with him!
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