How do you find your spiritual fulcrum and start over after a divorce? 3

Listen to Rene Liu's: A lifetime of loneliness, maybe it fits your mood very well. No one can really help you with anything, only you can help yourself.

Whether it's joy or pain, enjoy it, these are good memories in the end. What can a person do in a lifetime? In the end, what you can get is a lifetime of memories, good, bad, gone, and nostalgic.

You are luckier than some people because you have loved, gained, strived and lost deeply. There will be joys and pains, but these are experiences. Don't deliberately force yourself to do what not to do, think about her when you think about her, and work hard when you work.

Time will tell. When one day you suddenly find that your heart no longer hurts so much when you think of her, you may miss this time.

7 years have passed, don't always think about each other's shortcomings, think more about each other's advantages. There is another sentence that my friend used to say to me, and I think it is very real: if this person has more advantages than disadvantages, then this person is still worth being together.

Trust me, you can still be together. Don't be impulsive and cause a lifetime of regret, humble each other in very small things, two people live by each other, you listen to this with your girlfriend, I believe that sensible women will listen, and you are the same.

Hey, I really can't think of anything that can make a seven-year relationship break up and break up, I think you should go on a trip, go out for a walk, come back and change jobs, put yourself unemployed, so that your attention is on finding a job, even if you find a new job, because it's a new job, you have to be nervous and do a good job, I think there will be less time to think about it, if it's still uncomfortable, you can learn something that interests you, like dancing, playing ball, etc., and join a club, I hope you can get rid of it sooner.

If you really don't love it, then it's good to get used to being alone, and find something else to distract yourself.

If you still love, then learn to be tolerant.

It takes 7 years to find out that it doesn't get along, then you need to forget it for the rest of your life.

There is no right or wrong in emotional matters, there is only a difference between deep and shallow. Great love can encompass everything, true love can melt everything, fraternity can give up everything...

People say that to love someone is to love all of him (her), "but your love can't contain everything about him, so don't force it." Because there will be no happiness at all, life is for two people. If one person is suffering, it is doomed that neither of them will be happy.

I think it's good that you were able to separate sooner, since the two of you can't merge. Why force it, maybe giving up is the way out for two people. You may have some regrets, but don't be nostalgic.

Life is like walking through a labyrinth, and you won't know that the path is the right one. Only try. Walk wrong and come back and walk again.

The previous road is just a memory and proof that this is a dead end. Then you will understand that the new path may be the right one.

So the best thing you can do now is to take the next path because you have proven the original path wrong. Find someone who suits you, someone you love, start afresh Work and life can never replace love. Carnival is the loneliness of a group of people.

I'm looking for answers, but I'm three years, and like you, it's like a marriage without a marriage license. The reason for the breakup was because I was constantly vexatious, and she didn't believe I could fix it.

Pull your attention away from the sadness of the breakup and focus on your career.

Not. Do. law , people always have to treat themselves .

heng 。a little bit . you just have to figure it out , you can't think about it anymore .

Yes. use , no matter how much you think she won't come back , then it's nothing. Good.

Think. of.

I have a friend who was also very sad when he broke up with his girlfriend. I listened to him with great sorrow and mantras , and talked for a while in the afternoon , and he got better . after two years , they have completely come out of the shadow .

You can also find someone to talk to and express your anguish in your heart . Time wears off.

It is recommended to have a pet... It may distract you from being too sad.

Brother Xinchun is fine.

Be full, do what you have to do, read a book when you're not busy, or just have fun, and don't give yourself time to think about it. After so many years of relationship, it is not said that you can forget it, but time will solve the problem.

Take your time, that's how life is, don't think about those things!!

Of course, you can start over, and a woman's happiness must be fought for by herself! 22 years old is very young, think about how many girls have not found a boyfriend, you have had a failed marriage, then you will definitely see clearly in the future, eat a trench to grow wise.

In today's society, divorce and marriage are not uncommon, divorced women with self-esteem and self-respect are much better than other women who are proud of selling themselves, and happiness is everywhere, as long as there is a lover.

Absolutely. Everyone has the right to love and be loved, and no one can take it away. Happiness depends on oneself to earn it. You don't have to be afraid of how people will look at you, you're not wrong. Believe in yourself and have faith in life and in the future. Bless you!

Support you. Of course, the farther away the gambler is, the better.

Of course, you should learn to give up, first of all you have to be confident, you have to be confident in your future, and everything will start all over again. Of course, if he shows repentance, he should still be given a chance, and it is better not to divorce, after all, it is not easy to form families.

Leave, or you'll suffer in the future! I have a friend who just found a gambler, but the family took everything and owed it, and the long pain is better than the short pain!

It will definitely not work with the original one, and it will definitely be possible with others, support you!

It's good to leave, and the days to come will be long.

You're still young, and you have plenty of opportunities!

Absolutely. The days to come will be long.

Why do you bother? People don't respect you, so why do you still ask for them? I even want to die, friend, you are only 22 years old, are you worth it for a man like this?

It's not worth it at all, since you insisted on leaving because of this at the beginning, then break it off, don't get along with yourself, this breath doesn't have to be in your heart. That woman can also act, and she will cry, if you don't scold people, people won't necessarily tell your ex-husband that you didn't scold her, you hit this ** by mistake. If you encounter this again in the future, it is recommended that you don't cry, don't make trouble, and don't call a third party, you just live your life calmly and treat your husband well, and if you don't usually do a good job, how can your husband find someone else in a year?

Or maybe they don't have that at all, and you're making a fuss. Don't let impulsiveness break through your own reason, if you really want to be with him, I suggest you regain your strength, live happily every day, don't hit him, don't cry in front of him, beg for this and that, let yourself show your brightest side in front of him, let him know that he regrets. Face him with the mentality of a friend.

Let him know how worthless it is for you to lose.

I advise you to leave, the word "leave" cannot be easily spoken. I'm in the same situation as you, my husband and I have been married for 7 years, it's a "seven-year itch", I'm still holding on to it, but I'm almost overwhelmed. One day I will surrender, the day I can't afford anymore.

I'm afraid that you will end up with a long pain now than a short pain, I now have a three-week-old son, I wouldn't have put up with this if I didn't have children, but in the end, I have no choice, I have to take this step! It's okay, you have to believe in yourself, without him, live a wonderful life!!

If you really love him so much, you won't insist on divorcing him, there is no one in this world who can't live without him, look forward, there will be a man who loves you as much as you love him waiting for you, won't disgust you, won't hurt you, and believe that living is a happy life.

22. What a good age Of course, he begs you, maybe he still has a little conscience and doesn't want to separate. When you really leave him, he feels good and free. No matter how you beg him, he probably won't look back.

Let's look for it again, really go out for a walk, relax, and make more friends. Years later, you will know that whoever is away can live. ~

Such a man should forget about him. Select Start over.

If it were me, I would definitely start over with him and do everything I could to make him love me alone.

Men's hearts are hard-hearted It's useless for you to do anything Do you have children If you don't have children, I advise you to let go of all your life here now, go out and have fun I broke up But I've never been sad for them Because that's what they want to see You have to live happily Make them uncomfortable You know don't beg him again Be ambitious Men have it all there.

If you care, you have to appear not to care, otherwise it will be really useless People are like this, and they don't want to say that word.

Choose Century Jiayuan or Baihe.com, these two ** are real-name systems, and the reputation is also very good. It is also well-known in China. There is also a large success rate.

Landlord,Adopt me.。。

Choose the big ** A lot of them are fooling people cautiously.

Don't be in a hurry to find a partner first, do the job first, and then look for it slowly.

Divorce is a helpless choice, and since you have chosen, you must move forward without hesitation. Everyone has the right to start a new life.

1.After experiencing a failed marriage, you should be more mature and rational.

2.Before meeting the next partner, you should continue to enrich yourself and pursue the life you want.

3.Don't be overly free, indulgent, self-defeating, a painful and difficult relationship is over, you need to have new confidence and courage to fight for a better life.

4.If you meet someone who is destined, you should cherish it, not be emotional again, and think carefully about it and then pay sincerely.

5.Be sure to take care of your own family, who are also more or less worried about being emaciated and even hurt because of our marriage. Cheer up, don't let them worry anymore, don't let them down again.

Why do you talk about divorce at every turn? If you have a child who is separated from the child, it is good to create evil, if your husband is still trying to redeem it without hesitation?

I left my wife, I was in pain, I did something wrong, so I blamed myself, it's only been half a year, I'm still so persistent, still so painful, and it hasn't weakened at all.

Be yourself and be a confident woman.

Divorce is not the end of the world, time will slowly talk about everything.

Learn something and find a job that suits you.

The environment in Yantai is good, and the people are full of kindness and enthusiasm.

If you work, to be honest, the salary level here in Yantai is average, and it is not easy to find a good job. The real estate property company recruits a lot of people, requires a little work experience, and the treatment is not easy to say, and a good unit is generally between 1200-1800. If the position is better, you can have more.

As for spending, it is not considered high consumption if you use dim sum, and you can find a good house for about 400, (of course, it is not luxurious, but there is no problem with life needs).

I haven't been in Yantai for a long time, but I like it here, hehe.

There is no pie-in-the-sky thing in any city, and if you put your mind to it, you will always find a job that suits you.

Yantai city has developed rapidly in the past 97 years, and now it may not be possible to recognize it again! Hehe: Really, but then again, which city in China is not a big construction site now.

The price level is okay, a little lower than Qingdao, and it may be similar to Jinan in Shandong. Hehe: It's just a little bit of my personal feeling. If you want to rent a house, there are hundreds of dollars a month, but the conditions are generally not very good, and there are better!

At this stage, the wages in the development zone of Yantai can be relatively high, Zhifu District is mainly commercial, and the real estate and surrounding industries in Fushan seem to be very developed, and I have not been there for a long time. Laishan's light industry, education industry or something is very developed, Mu Ping hehe, I don't know very well, there is a Jisi furniture.

The counties and cities under Yantai are also very potential, and the ** hot springs in Zhaoyuan.

Longkou's Nanshan Group, Laiyang's Longda, Luhua, Qixia's apples.

The power of the ocean, the fishing industry of Long Island, the tourism of Penglai, and so on.

If you live here, it's best to familiarize yourself with the situation here, develop a few more local friends, and they will tell you which things are affordable and which things are convenient

good luck！