How to find your interests and strengths

First, we must first build confidence that everyone has their own strengths.

In this world, there are no useless things, such as sediment, earth, and even garbage, which can be made into fertilizer for planting. How much more is it to be human?

The first thing that may be asked this question may be a lack of self-confidence, which requires a boost of confidence.

2. Comprehensively analyze and evaluate yourself.

Provide the following ideas:

1. Reminiscing about the past, what are the strengths or things that have been praised?

2. Reminisce about the past and have any strengths or things that you are satisfied with.

3. What awards have you received before?

4. What characteristics do you have that others do not have, including those that are rejected by some people.

5. Do you have any knowledge or skills that others around you do not have.

6. What interests and desires do you have that others do not have?

7. Ask your family, relatives, friends, teachers, and even those who usually reject you to give yourself a suggestion about this.

8. From the aspect of moral cultivation, see what advantages you have, such as honesty, punctuality, do not steal or take advantage of others, do not drink, do not smoke, love small animals, do not easily believe in other people's lies, do not easily be hit by others, and are good at learning others' strengths without caring about others' shortcomings.

9. What are the advantages of yourself from the perspective of ability elements, such as concentration and distraction, perseverance, hard work, and strong self-learning ability.

Use paper to calculate these things, don't let go of the details, and extract the moral, ability and other elements contained in the matter from the matter.

3. Discover your strengths.

On the basis of the above work, it is easy to discover your own strengths. It should be reminded that some characteristics that are not even favored or rejected by others may not be disadvantages but advantages, and the standard should be based on the scriptures of the sages. And not the preferences and prejudices of others.

For example, if others say that you are stubborn, but in fact, it may be that you have identified the right goal and do not change it easily, which is not a disadvantage but an advantage; For example, you don't want to please others, you won't have many friends, but this may be the advantage that you can maintain your personality and not be kitsch, you don't need to give up your own advantages, you just need to be obedient to others and not embarrass others.

In addition, even if you have a weakness, you must learn to turn it into a strength. For example, if you are temporarily obsessed with games, but you play the game well, it means that you have a strong ability to concentrate, you just need to reduce the time you spend playing games and use this ability to focus on learning, which turns your disadvantages into your strengths.

Fourth, we should make use of the advantages of discovery, concretize it, and use study and practice to develop it into our own strengths.

For example, if you have a strong ability to concentrate and prefer to adhere to principles, you can learn more professional skills with strong confidentiality and principled requirements, such as financial risk control, financial accounting, etc. If we regard merit as a kind of ability element, then we need to use this ability element in study, life and work, and become a strong explicit specialty, so that we can benefit from it and benefit ourselves and others. Of course, most of the time, insisting on merit may have to pay more than ordinary people, and you must have a certain psychological preparation so as not to give up halfway.

Finding what you're good at is like digging a gold mine.

Summary. It can be found from the following aspects:1

A little luck in life: For example, the ** you shoot is often liked by friends, commenting that the shooting is good, and you are also very happy to be praised like this, you can pay attention to it as an interest; For example, if you often make your own drinks, honey lemon tea, mint peaches, etc., your roommates also like to drink them, and you can also use them as a hobby. There are things that are small, too small to notice, but they can give people enough warmth and strength that not only do you need, but others need them.

It can be found from the following aspects:1A little blessing in life:

For example, your ** is often liked by friends, commenting that the shooting is good, and you are also very happy to be praised like this, you can pay attention to it as an interest; For example, if you often make your own drinks, honey lemon tea, mint peaches, etc., your roommates also like to drink them, and you can also use them as a hobby. There are things that are small, too small to notice, but they can give people enough warmth and strength that not only do you need, but others need them.

2.New attempts: Attempts that have never been made before in your previous life have given you a new experience.

For example, I participated in a dance performance at the annual meeting, and was pulled by a friend to buy a **, etc., which makes you want to continue to try, and it can also be used as an interest. If you fail in the process of continuing to try, then it is a reminder that you do not understand this knowledge, accept failure, and make up for it; If you succeed, you can be regarded as finding an advantage for yourself, a hobby that can be developed for a long time. This method of running in small steps can be used to discover the potential of the future.

3.Travel and socialize: Communicate with the outside world often, open your heart and mind, and you will find a lot of fun that you can't find in your own time, and these pleasures will be recorded and may become your interests in the future, such as I like to research.

Even travel and socializing itself can be insisted on as hobbies. 4.Life Problems Sorted:

There are tangible and intangible. Tangible organization is more space-related, and can be directly observed, such as organizing the wardrobe and liking storage. Intangible sorting refers to the sorting out of life issues, such as not being strong enough, wanting to go to a bad childhood, and understanding things in terms of body, mind and spirit.

Intangible tidying up requires being good at discovering your inner thoughts and contradictions and recording them. To put it bluntly, sorting out life problems is to discover interests according to your own needs.

5.The power of role models: In addition to work relationships, look at the types of idols and KOLs you usually follow, for example, if you usually pay attention to food, food can become a hobby.

Similarly, in addition to work reference books, which type of books are usually read, this kind of book can be developed into an interest. 7.Movie:

Find out what interests and stimulates your heart from other people's lifestyles. 8.Be in good health:

Some people are interested in muscle lines and study fitness methods on their own. Although it is possible to make posture mistakes when researching fitness methods on your own, if you are interested in this, you may wish to go to the gym to find a trainer first. As long as you pay attention to your usual behaviors and thoughts, you will find out how many interests there are, and this process will greatly increase the interest of life

1. Discover. We are interested in certain things for a reason. Life is inherently inherently tied to your interests.

A person's love for painting may stem from a sense of attraction and curiosity, but it is more likely that the reason is a little bit related to the environment and love of nature. Painting itself is capable of expressing the inner emotions of interest and pursuit in this aspect. When we find certain interests that we like, it must be interesting for us to live and work.

2. Go and learn. When we find ourselves interested in something, you can try to learn and understand. If we don't try, you won't appreciate the appeal and beauty of this interest.

Whether it's painting, language, or literature, it's all the same. Of course, human talents still need to be discovered and found by themselves, and this is especially true in human childhood.

3. Think. When you find that you have this interest, you can try to think and understand. Of course, we know early on that interests and courses are different, but being able to develop your inner potential can better help you in your studies and work.

Once we have an interest, we can try to think and understand, perhaps inspired by some inspiration. Thinking and understanding can better help us to deepen this interest.

4. Go to practice. When we find that we have this interest, we should often participate in some practical activities, in the case of painting, people with this interest need to observe and learn extensively, such as the color of leaves, the shape of flowers, which need to learn from things in the natural world. At a certain point, you will find that your progress is still relatively large.

5. Go to communication. When we have this kind of interest, we will often learn and practice, and over time, you will find it more interesting. We can use this interest to participate in various interest activities, so that we can consciously mobilize your enthusiasm and interactivity, and communicate all aspects of this interest.

Of course, looking for your own hobbies is to cultivate your own healthy mentality and sentiments, which is a good thing for others and yourself. Hobbies can be cultivated, not deliberately found.

There are many partners who say, how did you find your hobbies, what if I can't find them?

I heard a saying before: if you don't know what you're interested in, you go read 100 books and you'll know when you're done.

At that time, I really believed this sentence. I started reading a lot. At first, I would buy books.

After that, I went to the library every weekend to borrow books, because the library can borrow at least five books at a time, and I basically read five books every two weeks. When I saw it for half a year, it was almost 50 copies. I kind of know what I like.

Because there are a large number of books of various types in the library, in fact, I choose books that are not very framed, just random choices. But when I chose and chosen, I think my favorite books are psychology and psychosomatic healing. That's what I found in my hobby.

In fact, I especially recommend everyone to go to the library habitually, especially parents with children at home, you can go to the library once or twice a month, which is also a very good way to cultivate the study habits of our adults and children.

Some friends may say, I'm too busy with work to read 50 books, what should I do?

1. Empty your brain and focus on your body.

For example, some people have super energy in their bodies, and they want to be a 10-billion-level company, and they will feel uncomfortable if they don't do it, and at the same time, they can also withstand the pressure of being a 10-billion-level company. It's not your brain that tells you this, it's your body that tells you.

2. Where do you keep your concentration?

Of course, this concentration does not include the concentration of watching TV series.

One of my favorite books is called "Flow", and we have a course taught by positive psychologist Peng Kaiping, and I also like this course very much.

In this lesson, the flow of the heart is translated as the flow of blessings. It's about being able to concentrate on one thing and be tireless. And you can have fun.

For example, when I write, or write professional courseware, I can enter this state of bliss.

Some people may be doing handicrafts, while others may be cooking ......

This needs to be explored a lot.

If you can identify where your blessings are, most likely, that thing is your interest.

3. Meditation FM.

What if you say that I really can't find the state of the blessed stream, and I can't concentrate at all?

Well, what I would like to recommend to you is to meditate, adjust your frequency. In fact, many entrepreneurs, including Steve Jobs, including the author of the principle of Bridgewater** CEO Dario, have the habit of meditation.

I recommend that you have at least ten minutes a day to be completely yours, to do a meditation, to connect with your body, to talk to your body, and to find what you really want in your heart.

Guys, what are your hobbies?

First of all, have your own interests. Interest is the best teacher, and everyone has a lot to do in life. As we grow older and are pressured by reality, we may give up our interests and pursue high-paying jobs.

This is actually very incorrect, and if you give up something you are interested in and do a well-paid job, you will probably get bored and not be very happy. If you do your dream job, you may not have some jobs that pay well, but it is easier to do it yourself and you can show your value more. Interests will become ideals when they develop slowly, and ideals will become dreams when they develop slowly.

For example, when I was a child, I really liked to study mathematics and did very well in mathematics, so I really wanted to be a scientist and do some interesting scientific work. This ideal motivates me to study hard and never give up, even if I encounter great difficulties. Later, I was successfully admitted to university, and I hope to be able to engage in scientific research after graduating from university, which is getting closer and closer to my dream.

Secondly, study and work diligently. There is a diligent path in the book mountain, and there is no end to the hard work of learning the sea. Having ideals is the foundation of a person's success, and the next step is to put in the effort.

It's a painstaking process and you can experience many failures. In the Chinese textbook, we have studied the article "Hurt Zhongyong", Zhongyong has had outstanding talent since he was a child, and he can recite many articles of sages, which has been praised by many people. If he can study hard and make good use of his talents, he will definitely become an excellent person.

The result is very regrettable, he did not study hard and ended up becoming an ordinary person. This article tells us that we must be diligent and studious and make good use of our talents. As the saying goes, success is equal to one percent talent plus ninety-nine percent effort.

It is not advisable to just say that you will not do it, and you will only achieve nothing in the end.