Tell me about whether you really like co worker gatherings?

I don't like it, because a lot of it is a scene and a scene, and I can't let it go, and I can't say what I shouldn't say and never do!

As long as you enter the workplace, the usual colleague gatherings and departmental gatherings are indispensable, you can hide a few times, but you can't not go every time. So when you go to a colleague's party, if you're a man and you don't want to drink, don't talk nonsense, or you'll be annoying.

I don't like it, most of them are those who are better mixed up** talking about it.

I like it occasionally, I don't like it occasionally, I like it because I like to get together with my colleagues and I'm happy, I don't like it because I'm always unhappy because of all kinds of things.

When colleagues get together, if you don't want to drink, it's best to eat more and talk less, and leave after eating, so that a qualified non-drinker can do things correctly. I don't know if everyone has made mistakes, so let's talk about it.

Of course, if you don't know how to drink and don't want to drink at all, then you'd better talk carefully on it, so that you can protect yourself, otherwise everyone will force you to drink.

Saying that others drink less is not as good as others drinking more. Although many people don't drink themselves, they like to destroy others to drink in order to create an atmosphere, just say that you look at how much others drink, are you embarrassed to drink so much? To be honest, this will make others annoyed, and others don't want to drink too much, and when you say that, people will have to drink again.

And you don't drink alcohol yourself, ** qualified to say that others drink less. So if you don't want to drink, don't talk nonsense, just eat honestly.

If you are a leader, there is no problem at all, but you just have a mouthful of lips and don't want to drink more at all, so it is recommended that you do not say this sentence and just say it casually, so that everyone will not suffer, and colleagues will not be embarrassed, so as to anger you.

Forcing someone to drink. This situation is the worst kind of manifestation, you don't like to drink and you don't drink it, but don't force others to drink. Say anything, if I can drink, I must drink several bottles, this kind of cow really can't be blown, and blowing too much will cause public outrage.

At that time, all your colleagues will directly come to embarrass you, so that you have to drink, at this time you will be sad when you drink, and if you don't drink, you will not give face to your colleagues, it is really self-inflicted.

Wanting someone else to drink more than you. If you don't want to drink, it doesn't mean that you can't drink at all, and when you get to the table, you have to pour a glass of wine and talk to the leader or colleagues, otherwise others will say that you don't give any face. But don't talk nonsense when you toast, some people just say that I did it at will, which is forcing others to drink more.

No, people are not the same people they used to be.

I don't like all kinds of parties. But I had no choice but to reluctantly participate.

I don't like it, it's boring to be frequent, it's disgusting.

Class reunions, eat more and drink less.

Because it is too annoying to be in front of the women at home for a long time, I sometimes prefer to get together with friends or colleagues.

It can only be said that she is a person who likes to be lively, he thinks that this kind of occasion can make some friends, have a good relationship with colleagues, and it is also very helpful at work, first of all, you can unite with each other at work, communicate with each other, and be able to work in a pleasant working environment with a pleasant atmosphere and environment, which is a very happy thing, improve your ability to work at work, make yourself more interested in work, and improve work efficiency.

Colleagues always like to have dinner, I think it is more about relaxing, after work, everyone is happy together, but also in order to be able to point out to each other what problems they encounter in the future work.

This is also an active pursuit. In the exchange of dinner parties, you can get a lot of information that you don't usually get. You can also meet more people through dinner, whether you can become friends or not, and you can promote mutual understanding and communication in the future.

Some people don't go to co-worker gatherings for positive purposes. They don't want to get anything valuable out of the dinner, they just want to pass the time through the meal. It's not that such people aren't busy at work, they just don't know what to do outside of work.

Then, a lot of the time is still to drink, so I participate in the dinner party to organize a dinner, everyone drinks and brags, sends some feelings, and then goes home to sleep satisfied.

Some people are usually very busy at work and have a lot of work pressure, and then they want to release their stress and relax themselves by having dinner after work. For them, it doesn't matter what they get information or what they network, what matters is eating good food and drinking to a good time. During the dinner, everyone fully relaxed.

After eating, you can also go to sing together and relax your body and mind.

Hope the above information is helpful to you and also recommend you:Everyone has their own way of life, and if you don't want to be lively together, do something you like to do, so that there is a lot less tangled and trouble.

Many people are keen on delicious food, many people like to drink, and some people can't afford to eat their own alcoholic food. This is the simplest form of society, and if you don't understand it, it's hard to integrate into it.

Dinner parties can relax, reduce stress, increase mutual affection, and taste food, what a good thing!

Dinner parties can communicate feelings, release stress, and some like to eat food and like that atmosphere.

Colleague dinners can promote friendship and affection for each other.

Small barriers can be melted away at a potluck. That's why we often have dinners.

There is an unspoken rule in the workplace, if you participate in a dinner between colleagues, your speech at the dinner will become a rumor; If you don't attend, your rumors will turn into speeches at dinners. The implication is not to take a colleague party lightly, and if most of your colleagues attend a dinner, then you should also attend. If you don't have anything to do, try to participate, because your colleagues are the people you face every day in your professional life, and having a good relationship with them is related to whether you can work with peace of mind.

Of course, if there is something special to deal with, you can push off this kind of small-scale dinner, and everything is on the premise of not delaying things.

If you are not popular, you should attend more parties, so as not to think that your colleagues are different. There is a simple way to worry about embarrassment: find a single colleague to chat, the time is not long, the key is to have a wide range, that is, the more people you talk to, the better, which can virtually improve the impression of others on your previous unsociable and withdrawn feelings.

If you don't go, you really don't have a chance. It's not as hard as you think.

Generally, colleagues in the company can talk together, and the colleagues who call you to party together are all friends, and it is normal to get together together. When the author asked, he said that private gatherings refer to informal gatherings, and the initiators are not company leaders, but colleagues who have discussed them, so I feel that you should go. It is conducive to communication and cooperation between colleagues.

However, it can take up employees' personal time and cause financial pressure, and for employees who don't like team activities, such gatherings are undoubtedly physical and mental torture.

Colleagues gather to get to know each other, communicate and cooperate. There are many things that cannot be explained clearly in official affairs, so it is feasible to understand them through private meetings. Joining a company means joining a team, and the team's gathering should be attended according to the situation, and you can't stay out of it all the time, and don't participate in private gatherings casually.

Before the meeting, it is important to find out the purpose of the meeting or the members of the meeting, and it is not too late to participate depending on the situation.

I think this is necessary, because if you want to get along with people further, you must communicate more between the two sides, and dinner is an effective way, and dinner parties between ordinary colleagues can effectively promote the communication between both parties, which is more beneficial to the development of future work.

I feel that this is necessary, because although the relationship between ordinary colleagues is relatively ordinary, frequent meals can also be an extra help in daily life.

I think it's very necessary. Because the dinner party between ordinary colleagues can better shorten the distance between colleagues and eliminate the estrangement between colleagues.

From my personal point of view, I was invited to a colleague dinner, and if I got along well with my former colleagues, I would personally go there. There are several reasons for this:

1. True friendship is not affected by the relationship of resignation.

In the workplace, it is very rare and precious to be able to gain a friendship. Because there are many mutual uses of interests in the workplace, it is difficult to gain a sincere and pure friendship. Therefore, once you get along well with your former colleagues and treat each other sincerely, it means that the relationship between you is sincere and precious, and you need to cherish it with your heart.

Leaving the job does not mean the end of a friendship, but everyone has different life plans and employment directions, and they can't work together in the same company, and everyone is still friends in private. You can have dinner together, drink together, discuss new projects, and participate in various social activities. So if I'm getting along with my former colleagues and they invite me to dinner, I'll still go there.

Second, it is conducive to maintaining one's own social circle.

Once we enter the workplace, our connections are even more important. There are some things that you can't do on your own, and you may be able to use your connections to help you figure them out. So this means that we usually have to maintain our social circle in the workplace, and colleagues are an important part of this social circle.

Once you have a good relationship with your ex-colleague, even if you quit your job, your ex-colleague will still be an important part of your network. Former colleagues also have their own friends and circles, and after slowly getting acquainted, your workplace social circle will be further expanded, and you may be able to help you in your future work, and virtually increase your workplace competitiveness Sun Jian also accumulated a part of potential customer resources.

Summary. When my colleagues invite me to dinner, I will still attend. As long as we got along well before, we really treated each other as friends. So in order to maintain our friendship and maintain my hard-won professional social circle, then I will participate.

When you receive such an invitation, you may feel entangled and confused because you may not want to go, but at the same time, you don't want to lose the friendship between your colleagues or cause any unnecessary trouble. Here are some suggestions:

First of all, consider your own situation. If you have a good relationship with your colleagues and the dinner won't affect your severance plans or schedule, then you might want to consider attending. If you have any plans, such as a holiday with your family or other things already planned, you can politely decline the invitation.

If you don't want to attend the potluck, consider saying no, for example, "Thank you for having me, but I already have other plans." Or:

I'm busy and probably won't be able to go. This way you avoid declining the invitation outright and don't hurt anyone's feelings.

If you're not sure how to respond, consider politely asking about your colleagues' plans and the number of seniors. If the dinner is outside of work hours or at an inconvenient time and place, you can try proposing to change the time or location of the dinner.

If you've decided to attend a dinner party, remember to politely thank your colleagues for the invitation and confirm the time and place in advance. Try to be polite and humble during the dinner party, and avoid talking about leave-related topics, especially negative ones. If a colleague asks you why you're leaving, you can simply:

I need to look for new opportunities and challenges. ”

Finally, whether you are attending a dinner party or not, maintain a good attitude and polite manners. After all, your relationship with your colleagues may play a role later in your career.

Summary. It's fine to go once in a while, don't go too often.

It's fine to go once in a while, don't go too often.

It's better to keep a little distance between colleagues.

In fact, to put it bluntly, the relationship between colleagues is. Some strangers just get together to work.

Their three views, many of their ideas, in fact, you don't know very well.

At this time, it would be better to keep a distance from the Tong point. And if you go out to dinner often, you actually have the illusion that you're already good friends. But in fact, to be honest, you may just eat and drink together, and you may not be true friends to friends.

I don't know if your company will have it, because there are many large companies where there is no shortage of intrigue between colleagues.

And if you always go out to dinner, it will be easy to expose some of your heart's words, some small secrets or weaknesses, so for such Mu Wan Xun's words, I feel that I will put myself in a passive state.

Because many companies that are relatively large in Li Dong will have this kind of behind you, so I think it is better to keep a distance between colleagues, and you can often go out to dinner with your friends.