The contradiction between hegemony and convincing people with virtue ?

Hegemony is not just hegemony, but is built on the basis of "strength". For example, if a migrant worker accidentally steps on your foot and smiles at you instead of saying sorry, you may scold him; But what would you do if the county magistrate accidentally stepped on your foot and smiled at you?

Whether it is between countries or between people, it is the most important thing to make "yourself" stronger first.

The United States wants cheap oil from Iraq, so it lies to its own people that Iraq threatens world peace and finds an excuse to fight it. It is true that there is no "morality" in this, but the United States also has a premise, that is, it is strong. Although it has deceived most of the good-natured American people, it has actually brought benefits to the United States.

Huo Yuanjia's last victory, did his virtue play a role or the opponent's virtue played a role? Maybe it all worked, but I think in the arena, it was the opponent's virtue that played a bigger role in his final victory. What do you think?

Therefore, no matter what, making oneself strong is the first thing that a big country and a person with an independent personality should do. We cannot always be expected to encounter morally superior adversaries.

Hegemony must be strong, strong can make others obey, so their common point is strong, the difference is the way of foreign conquest, a kind of deterrence, mainly force, Germany is mainly soft power, such as our approach in ASEAN and Africa, not through the demonstration of force but mutual benefit and win-win to win the hearts and minds of the people, the latter way of the effect is usually better and more durable, but many people do not have this realm, as soon as there is power, there is no one in sight, the latter is the product of a good mentality, but also the way of the king.

The success of the first shot and wtwangjj are well said.

If you ask this question, it already shows that you can't convince people with virtue.

Don't treat your subordinates as subordinates, always look like you're on top, but treat each other as friends.

Be honest with others! Open your mind

Convincing people with virtue is not a trick, but a heart!

Don't go to convince people with virtue for the sake of convincing people with virtue!

But I'm sorry for the misunderstanding.

Actually, I have good intentions towards you, and I know that you are also kind to you.

But maybe the tone of our voices is a little wrong.

I accept your criticism, and I hope you will also humbly accept the suggestions and criticisms of netizens.

Do less immoral deeds and do more good deeds.

Think of yourself as someone else.

Treat others as yourself.

Treat others as if they were others.

Treat yourself as yourself.

If you want to understand it yourself, this should be it!

Let's make sense. Sometimes attitude is important.

You can start from the following aspects:1Generally, boys who don't obey are terrible at reading.

Although reading well is not a panacea, being too poor will also affect the future. You can start talking about the future and find an opportunity to talk about the future. Then if you have low interest in learning, you can talk about other interests, such as starting a business and making money, etc., how old are you students?

If you are in elementary school, you must study, and if you are in junior high school, you must at least graduate from high school to gain a foothold in this society. Because the knowledge of high school is now the basic knowledge, it is easy to suffer in society without a foundation. Then you must learn two basic skills, the ability to do business (the ability to find business opportunities and grasp business opportunities, the ability to calculate, and the ability to build interpersonal relationships), and the ability to withstand pressure and deal with pressure (good temper).

The best solution is to first understand what these students need, and then to satisfy and guide them to the right path.

2.At the very least, it should not affect other students to implement their own study plans. Since you can't excel in academics, you can make some achievements in your career, but it's best to be fully prepared after high school before entering society.

Choose the direction according to each student's own characteristics. For those who have bad intelligence and no intention of business, they can choose to be a soldier with mixed experience, etc., and those who have more ability to think but have no intention of studying can consider preparing to engage in business, but first learn a craft or skill, as an entry point, it is best to choose a sunny point of the industry such as: electronics-related, etc., if you have the opportunity to enter a high-tech enterprise, it is a kind of luck, the business owner must be trying to make you both able to work and not independent, you must be trying your best to learn the whole craft, even if you can't do this line in the future, you can learn part from this line.

The origin of the business is to provide a service, and the first-class business bears the risk; There is a technical nature of the same thing how to do better, superior peers; There is also the nature of confidentiality, how to keep trade secrets and continue to make profits.

3.If you don't study well, you don't have to feel inferior, you don't have to feel sorry for yourself, and most of your life is spent in self-study. Future success is not very much related to academic achievement. Adopt a positive posture and live an active life.

Landlord, your idea is very good, as a leader, you should try to satisfy everyone, you can see that you are a person who pursues perfection, however, there is absolutely no perfect thing in the world.

You can't strive for absolute perfection.

The establishment of New China, but he also had inconsiderate points.

Qin Shi Huang unified the six kingdoms, but also burned books and pit Confucianism.

MacArthur was invincible and finally lost the war in Korea.

The most popular American** also has people who don't know his ticket.

People, it is impossible to satisfy everyone, unless you are not human.

So, why make yourself too tired, it's good to strive for progress and perfection. But don't put too much pressure on yourself, otherwise, you'll be overwhelmed by yourself.

Of course, the reason why those boys don't listen to you may not be you, and you don't have to be too uncomfortable.

First of all, you can only think about his imitation hole, don't think of him as perfect as possible, try to tolerate it, "forgiveness is also a virtue." If you still can't stand it, then don't get along with him. I'm reminding you again, I really can't stand it, so don't get along with him.

I wish you a speedy ride out of your troubles!

Meet positive people: Convince people with the virtue of eliminating the world.

When you meet the opposite person: stay away from him, such a person will only bring you bad luck with wandering limbs, at least a bad mood, stay away from him, you will have no grievances, and it doesn't matter if you are virtuous or not, you are quick to grind.

To convince people with virtue, it is also necessary for the other party to be a person who can speak reason and understand virtue. If you talk to a brute about virtue, isn't it playing the harp to a cow?

Meet moral people: convince people with virtue.

Meet people who have no morals: subdue people with force.

Meet Ethical People: Tell Jokes.

Encounter people who have no morals: talk about evil.

I'm calling you to watch. Usually face it with a heart.

Be yourself and be yourself.

Forgive others.

What heads and tails, directly knock down! How can he be allowed to go wild in China!

Don't think about it, because I have also met such people.

My approach is to treat him with "integrity!!

Hehe. Go see Thunder Tiger.

That year's Christmas, Paul's brother gave him a new car as a Christmas present. The day before Christmas, Paul came out of his office when he saw a boy on the street walking around his shiny new car, touching it with a look of envy on his face.

Paul looked at the little boy with interest, judging from his clothes, it was obvious that his family did not belong to his class, and at this moment, the little boy raised his head and asked, "Sir, is this your car?" ”

yes," said Paul, "my brother gave me a Christmas present." ”

The little boy's eyes widened: "You mean, this is what your brother gave you, roll the count and you don't have to spend a dime?" ”

Paul nodded. The little boy said, "Wow! I hope it's big.

Paul thought he knew what the little boy hoped for, to have such an older brother. But what the little boy said was:

I wish I could be such an older brother. ”

Paul looked at the boy with deep emotion, and then he asked, "Do you want to make my new car and go for a ride?" ”

The little boy was pleasantly surprised and agreed.

After a while, the little boy turned to Paul and said, "Sir, could you please drive the car in front of my house?" ”

Paul smiled slightly, he understood the little boy's thoughts, and it was very exciting to ride home in a big and beautiful car in front of the children. But he was wrong.

Could you please stop at the two steps and wait for me? ”

The little boy jumped out of the car, ran up the stairs in three steps and two steps, and entered the house, and in a short time.

He came out with a little boy who was apparently his younger brother, suffering from polio.

Limp on one foot. He sat down on the steps below, and then pointed to Paul's car and said, "See, it's as beautiful as I told you upstairs, isn't it?"

It was a Christmas present from his brother and he didn't have to spend a dime! One day I'm going to give you a car like this one so you can see the nice Christmas presents in the window that I've been telling you about. ”

Paul's eyes moistened, and he stepped out of the car and carried his little brother to the seat at the front of the car, and his brother's eyes sparkled with joy as he climbed up. So the three of them embarked on an unforgettable holiday trip.

On this Christmas, Paul learns that giving is more joyful than receiving.

Leaders are all convinced by money and power, and if they don't obey, they will deduct money, and if they don't obey, they will be fired!

The simplest is Zhuge Liang's seven captures and seven verticals.

It's okay to make a move when it's time to do it, but when it's time to do things, you still have to take it seriously, you have to grasp this degree, and that's it.

Convince people with virtue, convince people with reason, treat people with courtesy, and treat people with themselves.

Convince people with virtue and repay grievances with virtue.