I shouldn t budge on this matter

On the basis of this matter, you have to listen to his opinion, as a man, if you don't have an opinion, you don't have to live with him, because he can't be your safe haven, and he can't give you a sense of security.

You can take it step by step and tell him what you think.

Don't try to change some of his thoughts, as this will turn him off.

Let him take the initiative to come up with a solution to this matter, and don't always listen to his sisters, if that's the case, then like you said his sister will always interfere in your life.

Two people can't let others command their lives, what has become of this.

So it's not about you, don't make a fuss, give your husband a chance to make a decision.

No matter what the final result is, he will take you the most, and the most important thing is that two people love each other.

You don't have to say it nicely, if your own brother finds a second marriage, can you rest assured that he will take so much money?

If the marriage is really unstable in the future and you are going to divorce, you really don't want anything?

Who knew that you were a hundred times more sincere when you got married for the first time than now, right?

Don't always feel justified, think about others, and keep your heart right.

is talking about equality between men and women, why don't they each give half, didn't everyone come together for feelings, what are you wronged?

If you really want a house like this, it's very simple, do a prenuptial property notarization, am I right, people have to be honest, at least when facing themselves.

It's not how sincere you are, but everyone will believe you with joy and sincerity.

I don't think he loves you very much, if he loves you very much, how can there be such a thing at the juncture of getting married, and there is a man who has no independent thinking is also not to be relied on, he obeys his family, and your status in his family can be easily shaken in the future, I think you should give up, there is more than one man in the world, you are now a second marriage, many things should be clearer than us, finding a person who loves you is the most important, money can be created but happiness can only be found by yourself.

If you don't feel at ease, you can do a prenuptial notarization, which is really !!

Second marriageWhat's wrong??? It's not a human being, I really can't figure it out, why treat a man in a second marriage as a treasure and a woman as a grass?

Discuss it seriously with your husband, if he really loves you and treats you well after marriage, you will be your own master, unless your husband is an unassertive person and has to listen to other people's opinions on everything, which will hit your feelings.

If you want your husband to live with you, you should give in!

Appropriate concessions are a kind of personality charm and a kind of quality cultivation.

Appropriate concessions are a kind of generosity and calmness, and a kind of maturity and stability.

Appropriate concession is not a kind of submission, but a kind of generosity, and appropriate concession may be a temporary grievance, but it can reduce the conflict. Appropriate concessions may not bring you good luck, but they will certainly help you resolve the conflict.

Appropriate concessions, it is not that you are incompetent, it is that you respect him; Appropriate concessions are not because you are cowardly, but because you are cultivated; Appropriate concessions are not that you are afraid, but that you know how to tolerate; Appropriate concessions are not that you are useless, but that you are of good character.

When it is reasonable, let it go, and leave a way for people; When it is unreasonable, let it go, leaving a way out for yourself; In front of friends, let go, and the friendship will be more stable; In front of the family, let it go, and the family will be more harmonious; In front of colleagues, let it go, and the work will be easier.

Don't regard concessions as a loss, and those who can make concessions must be well-educated and highly qualified. We can restrain our emotions, control our temper, and deal with them calmly on any occasion and under any circumstances.

At the right time, we will make concessions, because everyone who really knows how to make concessions is worthy of deep friendship, and we will not care, because the mentality is very wide; We don't intrigue and compete for fame and fortune, because we value the relationship between us.

Every mature sock man knows the right concessions; Therefore, everyone who succeeds is always giving in; After giving in, you may suffer a loss, but what about a little loss? suffered a loss, but you won people's hearts! After giving in, you may feel aggrieved.

But isn't it good to be wronged? Grievances, you are reused by others, and you are looked at differently by others, isn't that good? A person who will give in and give in, then your heart will definitely not be narrow!

When you get along with such people, you will find that you are not so tired, and you will feel relieved and at ease.

In life, at the right time, we make concessions, so that our lives can reduce unnecessary troubles and make our lives more visible. Will let, is the real winner, let, is the real wise!

Don't budge means:

Uncompromising (other people's arrangements, decisions);

In the face of difficulties) do not retreat, do not retreat;

Persist in your own ideas.

Don't give in to others and assert yourself.

Personally, I feel that your boyfriend is not good at giving in to such a problem, because my boyfriend and I are basically in this state now.

First of all, you will all go back to your hometown in the future, he thinks that from now to the future in the county seat, maybe although the money is not much at present, but after a long time, it will definitely go up, and it will be more stable in the county. If he lays the groundwork first, you'll have a lot less resistance when you go back. Anyway, if you want to go back in the end, it's better not to go out, and it doesn't necessarily mean that there is less exercise in a small place, but the scum orange is more abrasive in a small place, and the pressure is less.

Second, he may not be very comfortable, because although he is close to home, you may not know the hardships involved. My partner is also in our small county, but it's not easy to mix, the smaller the place, the more complicated the interpersonal relationship, and the world is too small. Larger places may be fairer, but the relationship between people is relatively simpler, and it is more about their own ability.

The ease we see may not be easy.

Third, but if you want the two of you to be together, it is really hard to be in a long-distance relationship because of the defeat, everything else is secondary, and if you are separated from the two places for a long time, there will be more sullenness in your heart, and the relationship is easy to fall into crisis at this stage. So I suggest that you see how long you can stay outside, and if you think that the time will threaten the relationship between the two of you, you go back to him. During all these times you are outside, let him see you more often, and you should look for him more.

As for concessions, I don't think anyone is very happy to give them, and he actually attaches more importance to the future. But don't let this question affect the relationship for so long. At present, I personally feel that this is still appropriate.

Over, look.