Why has it been half a year since we broke up, but every day it feels like it s still the second day

Updated on healthy 2024-06-10
48 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Sometimes people are self-hypnotic and unwilling to admit certain realities. It's not that you don't want to face the reality of the breakup, but maybe you don't love him at all, but deep down you don't want to admit it. Your so-called liberation is not liberation at all, it is just an escape, how sad will your family be after you are "liberated"?

    How sad will all the people who care about you be? You can calmly think about whether you really love him, and if he still loves him, he wishes him happiness, and if he doesn't love him, he will hurry up to find his own happiness. There is much more to this world than just love.

    Besides, let go of the past, maybe you will find a love that is more worth cherishing.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    After you're gone, your family won't be able to do as well as they do now. By doing so, you can only turn your own unhappiness into everyone's unhappiness. Really irresponsible.

    The one who makes you miserable. and your family. Which is more important.

    Measure it yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There is no grass at the end of the world....Don't hang yourself from a tree, it's not worth it! Grab the contact with other people, participate in more activities, and it will be fine.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Death can't solve the problem, I'm more miserable than you, I've never thought of dying, you like this, except for others to look down on you, I believe that I will also look down on myself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm telling you, don't take your life like this!! I'm just like you!! Now I've found a better !! I also want to thank the person who gave up on me in the first place. It's true...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't, I'm really similar to you, and I've been holding on to hope until now, so I must persevere

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you don't have fate, why can't you let it go, smile, the sun is still shining.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Summary. When I first fell in love, I liked to only look at each other's strengths and magnify each other's strengths, so I felt that the other party was perfect.

    Why did we break up and then reconcile that night + why didn't I feel like I had it anymore.

    A breakup means that there is a disagreement, and both parties only look at each other's shortcomings and ignore the other's strengths.

    reconciled, or because I thought of each other's shortcomings and felt that the other party was not perfect.

    When I first fell in love, I liked to only look at each other's strengths and magnify each other's strengths, so I felt that the other party was perfect.

    Breaking up and reconciling, this is the real other party, there are both advantages and disadvantages, this is a real relationship.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In fact, you already have the idea of breaking up in your heart, and you will think about breaking up.

    Since you are asking this question, it proves that you are very entangled now, and I think you must be a little reluctant.

    In fact, it is very simple, let's analyze the difference between breaking up and not breaking up.

    Breakup: Long pain is better than short pain, in fact, after that period of time, it's basically fine, or a new opposite sex appears, although occasionally I think about it. But it's not too sad already.

    Don't break up: Every day I am entangled in whether to break up, watching her (his) every move, I will be impatient from time to time, and my heart is very irritable. Or I want to quarrel all day long, or I feel that my feelings have been exhausted, or I don't have any novelty at all.

    In fact, you just follow your heart's choice, and happiness is the most important thing.

    If you are not happy together, sooner or later you will have to separate.

    It's like buying something, you will buy it if you like it, and you won't take it out after you buy it, and you may throw it away after a while.

    The most important thing in your heart is whether you really want to break up or a small conflict.

    After being together for a long time, both people will definitely change, a good relationship will make each other better and better, and together they will become the driving force for each other's efforts, rather than two people consuming each other and becoming each other's stumbling blocks. If you don't feel very happy and happy in this relationship, or even feel more sad, disappointed and sad, and let yourself fall into a trough, immersed in suspicion and sadness every day, then it's time for this relationship to end.

    If you're just having a little quarrel, that's normal, and there's no need to really break up. Calm down and think about it, do you still like your significant other? If you don't like him or her, then why did you choose to be together in the first place?

    After being together for a long time, I found out that he (she) has such a bad temper, and he usually likes to play games so much, why don't you take the initiative to find me and not accompany me ......There are many, many shortcomings, but this is all part of him, love is mutual, once you choose, you must accept it, you must be the one who can change each other the most.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you want to break up, then break up.

    You can't go on with this relationship anymore, so stop as soon as possible so that both parties are better. Feelings are an effort to pay, and if you keep withdrawing, it will lead to leaving a way back for yourself, and others will work harder.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you're so entangled, think about it before you do it. After all, if you break up, it will be very hurtful to say it, even if you are just unintentional, but others will not accept it after hearing it, and they may never see you again in the future. So it's better to wait until you're calming down before you think about what to do.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you want to break up every two days and often feel that each other is not suitable, then maybe you really don't fit in, and sooner or later you will definitely break up.

    It's better to sit down and talk about it and see if the way two people get along in love is wrong.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    On average, you want to break up every two days, then it means that you are very dissatisfied with the relationship, then you should choose to break up, don't drag it out any longer, you are in this relationship, more often than not, you are unhappy, so don't hesitate, don't hesitate.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't think you should have such thoughts easily, otherwise it will definitely affect the relationship between you, and it is better to treat each other well, so as to help the communication of two people's feelings.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think that if you have such a breakup idea in three days, you must not break up, you must insist on it well, and change it well, so that the two people can be better together, and you must give yourself some persistence.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It seems that the idea of breaking up always comes to mind in your mind, this situation is very bad for your relationship, maybe you no longer love each other now, since it is also your helpless ending to get together and disperse.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then you really should break up, since you have such frequent thoughts of breaking up, it means that you are indeed tired in this relationship, and you can't feel the warmth and happiness of love, then you and the other party squeeze out and break up peacefully.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You are really desperate to break up, then divide it, what are you so hesitant about this kind of thing, love is together, if you don't love, you will be separated, what is entangled, the right to choose love is in your own hands, don't be afraid that he will be unhappy, afraid that he will be sad and sad, afraid that he will have no one to take care of, but have you considered for yourself, don't wronged yourself.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I like this relationship very much, it must make you particularly disappointed, so you will always have the idea of breaking up, since you always have the idea of breaking up, then break up with the other party directly, don't have any hesitation.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Don't think about it, you have to die or live every day because of emotional gains and losses, you go to do something else to enrich yourself, don't always have these thoughts of breaking up or not breaking up, after a while, let yourself calm down, think about it and then make a decision.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If this relationship makes you feel insecure, then I won't get the satisfaction I want. And if you keep the breakup in your heart every day, it means that you really don't care about this relationship, so it is actually meaningless to continue to flow.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Are you taking feelings as child's play? Have you ever really been in love, or have you really spent your mind on getting along with each other, if you are really in love, then you can get along with each other, if not, please leave each other's life.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    First of all, you need to analyze the reason why you want to break up, if this reason makes you difficult to accept, then you can try to break up, but if you can communicate with him to solve this reason, then you should not break up.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    On average, I want to break up every two days, and today I want to break up, you should be very difficult to maintain this relationship, if you don't want to be together, it's better to let go! Love is a beautiful thing, and it shouldn't be so forced. Let's break up!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Then you should be breaking up, because you are always thinking about breaking up, which means that you are not doing well in this relationship, so you will think about breaking up. Of course, you should also analyze why you have this idea.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think you should break up, which means that you don't have deep feelings for him, so you often want to break up, so you will be tired yourself. It will affect the relationship between you, and it is better to find some breakups.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Your frequency is too high, maybe you really don't have the other party in your heart, so it is recommended to break up early, otherwise you can't find happiness in this relationship, and you can end it as soon as possible.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    At this time, you should break up, because you have this idea of breaking up every day, which means that he is not suitable for you, and the two of you should separate and find happiness that belongs to each other.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you want to break up every two days on average, and you have thoughts again today, then I think you should break up early, otherwise it will be too painful, and such an uncertain relationship will be torture for both parties.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Then you break up quickly Don't harm your object There are thoughts of breaking up at every turn So what are you doing together You won't be happy together like this You are destined to break up It's better to break up as soon as possible.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Break up, since you want to break up every two days, it means that your relationship is already very unstable, and you don't really want to continue in your heart, so it's better to end it than to fight each other.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you already have this thought in your mind, then let it go, since you can no longer concentrate on one thing, then break up.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I don't think you should say break up easily. Because it's not easy for two people to be together. You can have a good talk with him and solve the problem.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I think we should break up, since both of you are no longer emotional, even if you are together, there will be no benefit.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    First of all, you must know why you have such thoughts, if it is really because you don't love it, then you can choose to break up directly.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You already have the idea of breaking up in your heart, and you will think about breaking up. Since you're asking this question, it's proof that you're struggling right now.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Many people feel that they have only been together for a few days, and they should not be too sad to break up, after all, the relationship has not yet been established, and it is relatively less harmful to themselves to end it as soon as possible. Actually, it's not like that, I think it's more painful to lose the feeling just after getting it than to lose it after having it for a while, because the curiosity about the other person still exists, the novelty has just begun, and it is not even enough to know the other person, and it is undoubtedly a blow to break up suddenly.

    Breaking up after being together for a period of time can be self-regulated and controlled, because the breakup must have such and such reasons, and I also understand that the problem of two people is **, so I have to accept this fact. And after just a few days together, nothing has been sent yet, and there is still infinite imagination in my heart that a better future has not been realized, and more I am still unwilling to be unbalanced in my heart.

    I had a short relationship before, and I broke up after a week without talking about it, because I liked him very much, I pursued him for three months, I'm a girl, and sure enough, a girl who is too active will not end well. Maybe it was because I was too proactive, he thought I was an indecent girl, and within a few days he made that kind of request, and I refused and offered to break up. I know he's not a peaceful person, but the days of falling out of love are really painful, I didn't expect the guy I liked so much to treat me so frivolously, and I just got what he did when he didn't have time to fall in love with him and separated.

    The short-lived happiness was enough for me to reminisce for a long time, and I even regretted breaking up with him, as long as I was with him. I didn't eat for two days, and my heart was full of remorse and self-blame, and it took me months to recover.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I don't think the other person is with me because I like me.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I don't feel anything, I just feel that this is not suitable for me, and the suitable one is waiting for me in front.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It's particularly sloppy, and it feels like I'm not seriously in love, or simply playing, and treating feelings as child's play.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It feels like it's a playful attitude to engage in objects, which is very bad. Very disgusted with this kind of behavior.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I don't feel anything, it doesn't hurt or itch, after all, after being together for a few days, I definitely don't have any feelings.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I feel that the woman is deceiving herself, she is not taking this relationship seriously, she is just playing.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    I broke up without any feelings, and I couldn't cultivate any feelings after being together for a few days, and I wouldn't be sad and sad.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    If you really like it, you will definitely be very sad, after all, we all love each other.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    There is no wave in my heart, and I even want to laugh a little, I feel that I am very ridiculous, how can I treat feelings so sloppily?

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Bless him, I hope he finds his beloved self who can tolerate and accept, and I don't care about breaking up because it's not suitable, so we're all right.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    What hasn't been experienced yet, it's already over, maybe it's still not suitable!

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