Help me analyze, am I falling in love with the same sex?

Updated on technology 2024-06-05
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I'm sticking with you. In fact, the reason why girls fall in love with boys is because they haven't met that girl yet. You've met.

    I envy you. If you really love each other, I'm sure your parents will understand, after all, every parent wants their children to do well. Be brave It's not something you should be afraid of.

    You don't care what others think about your love. I'm sticking with you. Top you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Landlord. It's hard to determine your orientation alone. What is the age of the landlord?

    Has the landlord ever been in tow with the opposite sex before? Or do you have a male idol that you like very much?

    If not. I guess it's because I haven't liked the opposite sex. and the resulting dependence on the same sex. Believe.

    It has become a bit of a spiritual sustenance. So so. Something that has always belonged to you. Suddenly there was a day.

    Not yours either. It's gone. Contradictions. More or less possessive.

    Girlfriends are usually like this. I used to take a shower with my girlfriend a lot. Sleep together. Inseparable.

    But we didn't do much. It's hard to tell based on that alone. It's just that the landlord has less contact with the opposite sex in his life.

    This is a question that requires a long period of observation. Don't worry too much about the landlord.

    The more you care about some of the problems. Instead, it makes the fake come true. Let's go with the flow.

    You can experiment with the opposite sex. You can start by making a regular friend of the opposite sex.

    Observe it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    In fact, there is nothing wrong with liking the same sex I am the same as you Since two people like each other and want to be together, the most important thing is whether they can withstand the pressure they will have to bear in the future That's why my one broke up with me.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You should like her as a friend, but liking is not love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    As for your family of origin, your parents, you can choose to reconcile or not, forgive or not, and solve the original trauma, so that you can have more confidence to establish an intimate relationship.

    Secondly, to look at the emotional problem calmly and rationally, in the process of pursuing love, you should have a little bit of your own opinions, don't like it because of the scum others are good to you, you like it, this kind of love is not necessarily love, and don't easily take gratitude as a sedan to know the excitement of love, such feelings often can't go to the end, the best thing to do is to understand your own deep feelings, and have a correct attitude towards feelings, so that you can really have the love you want!

    Third, the lack of love when I was a child will indeed form a kind of dependence psychology, and it is normal to like a person who depends on it, just like your admiration for girls, but it is impossible to achieve love for a one-way like for one person to another, it must be a manifestation of love for each other, there is no difference between liking the same sex and the opposite sex, it depends on whether you like that person or not, will you want to have further intimate contact with closed socks? If you have both, of course, it can't just be a friend.

    Fourth, you have resistance to intimate contact with the opposite sex, largely because you don't know or understand intimacy, and instinctively have fear or resistance to such unknowns, on the one hand, you don't like it enough, on the other hand, you don't know enough, if you meet your own heart and make yourself feel at ease, it may be much better, these things that only you can be sure of.

    Finally, study psychology appropriately, read more books on this subject, learn to deal with all kinds of psychological distress, try to get yourself out of mental internal friction, and the first step in establishing intimate relationships with others is to establish correct cognition, and at the same time have a strong heart, everything must come slowly, come on!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    As for your family of origin, your parents, you can choose to reconcile or not, forgive or not, and solve the original trauma, so that you can have more confidence to establish an intimate relationship.

    Secondly, to look at the emotional problem calmly and rationally, in the process of pursuing love, you should have a little bit of your own opinions, don't like it because of the scum others are good to you, you like it, this kind of love is not necessarily love, and don't easily take gratitude as a sedan to know the excitement of love, such feelings often can't go to the end, the best thing to do is to understand your own deep feelings, and have a correct attitude towards feelings, so that you can really have the love you want!

    Third, the lack of love when I was a child will indeed form a kind of dependence psychology, and it is normal to like a person who depends on it, just like your admiration for girls, but it is impossible to achieve love for a one-way like for one person to another, it must be a manifestation of love for each other, there is no difference between liking the same sex and the opposite sex, it depends on whether you like that person or not, will you want to have further intimate contact with closed socks? If you have both, of course, it can't just be a friend.

    Fourth, you have resistance to intimate contact with the opposite sex, largely because you don't know or understand intimacy, and instinctively have fear or resistance to such unknowns, on the one hand, you don't like it enough, on the other hand, you don't know enough, if you meet your own heart and make yourself feel at ease, it may be much better, these things that only you can be sure of.

    Finally, study psychology appropriately, read more books on this subject, learn to deal with all kinds of psychological distress, try to get yourself out of mental internal friction, and the first step in establishing intimate relationships with others is to establish correct cognition, and at the same time have a strong heart, everything must come slowly, come on!

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