The man I had a crush on for seven years became my boyfriend, but we weren t sweet, not like love.

In you, I see the characteristics that every woman has, that is, when you are far away, you keep adding points to each other, the perfect person you have a crush on, but you forget that everyone has shortcomings, when you are not by his side, his goodness has been magnified and a little repeated, so that you have a different kind of expectation and attention for him, but after being together, you find some of his unknown shortcomings.

It's like that, if you take him too seriously, then you're going to drop the price, and he's going to pay less and less attention to you, just like the jewelry you get your hands on is not as attractive as the one on the counter.

And you care so much about him.

I suggest you talk to him about it, and make it clear that you used to like him, but you forgot that no one is perfect.

But you still like him, but his attitude wears down your feelings, and it's time for you to separate, or to freeze the relationship for a while, and then make plans.

Finally, I hope you meet a man who loves you more than you love him!

Listening to you say that, he is not a good man at all, or a man who has no sense of responsibility.

Feelings are such a thing, it's best not to drag the mud and water, and break it when it's time to break it.

You've had a crush on him for so long, and you've been together for over a month now.

See who he is.

You're not the kind of girl you don't chase, are you?

He did this to you, if only I did.

Break up with him in a chic manner, and then find the one that suits me, and say hello generously next time we meet.

Don't reach out to him.

Take a look at your Q space for any traces of his visit.

Let him have the feeling that he is always about to lose you.

It is often only after loss that we know how to cherish it.

Of course. If you don't love him, just break up.

After all, love is not the same as worship.

Hope it helps. Good luck.

Maybe it's like this, when you have a crush, you think of him as the most perfect person.

In fact, everyone has shortcomings. It's just that when you love him, he's perfect, and the flaws are also the strengths.

Like yesterday, the person I liked asked me what his shortcomings were, and I really couldn't say it.

If he really doesn't care about you, don't be too proactive.

Oh, yes? Reality is often different from what is imagined.

Be brave and look for a happiness that belongs to you.

I think sweetness, love, is created with love, not with whom you will have it.

Bless you.

I once had a crush on a boy for 5 years As a result, we were admitted to the same university He began to chase me during military training It's very similar to your experience It's a pity that we broke up after a year and a half of dating Now it's a stranger... Thinking about your current situation I think you should be reserved I really regret not being reserved at the beginning See whether he loves me or not If you really like him so much You can not take the initiative to contact him But often appear in his haunted places Occasionally say hello A sweet smile Leave him a chic back If he continues to contact you, you will be more than half successful But you must not promise him You must also be like him if you leave to satisfy his appetite You must know that boys will not cherish things that are easy to get their hands on

If you think you don't like him anymore, then give up, college love is not for you to talk about marriage, it's just to learn the skills of love, teach you how to read people's hearts, think about other people who pursue you, watch and hang yourself from a tree.

This is the legendary distance that produces beauty, and once there is no distance, beauty disappears, and mystery disappears.

Well, personally, I don't think there's any need for you to tell him what you really think. Because judging from your description, it seems that he has not caused any interference in your study and life. Let it be, just don't take the initiative to contact him anymore.

It is really uncomfortable to find that the person you have admired for seven years is actually not perfect. However, there is always a better scenery waiting for you. Forget about the past and start a new page.

Hehe. I wish you to find your true love soon.

You have to be able to please your boyfriend, be sweet Sweetness often creates a beautiful realm.

Let's go. Leave him silently, that he, maybe he doesn't love you. 7 years, is it worth it? Maybe you can be bold and confess. If you fall in love with him, you may be immersed in this relationship forever. You can choose to leave him boldly.

It depends on how he usually treats you, you can try him, but don't let him notice. For example, you can pretend that you don't intend to mention what you like in front of him, and if he buys it for you after a few days, it proves that he likes you very much; But you mentioned it many times in front of him, and he was still indifferent, then you want that.

Since you can't bear to dump him, then let him dump you, just use a little means.

In fact, you don't have to jump to conclusions so quickly, you can also snub him for a while, first, you have to sort out your feelings about him, and second, to see if he really doesn't care about you.

He doesn't like you, it's not that he chases after him, he doesn't cherish it!

First of all, maybe you imagined him too perfectly. After really getting along with each other, I found that there was a slight gap with your ideals.

Then, is your affection for him worship or love? You have to figure out the relationship first. It's love to try to change yourself and change him for the future of the two, it's worship to separate early, and you can leave some room for missing after separation.

I'm wondering if you're sorry for your seven years or sorry for a man.

Speak straight to the point. If it doesn't work, it will be cut in two. Neat. If you think you're good-looking, it's good for you.,Forget it.,Such a boy is unreliable.。。。

Love should be sweet If you love hard, then you will lose that beauty Be brave and break up with him Where is the grass in the cliff But ask for sincerity.

Does it have anything to do with the horoscope, love is love, sometimes what you need is a hazy beauty, maybe you can try it in this direction.

Emotional things can't be delayed, they should be divided, and respect their hearts! It's been delayed for a long time, hurting others and hurting yourself!

Only when you are together do you know that you really love him or not, and if you don't love him, you will leave, which is good for everyone.

Pick up your own rules when you're figuring it out!

Relax, dear, even if you see ** in a bad mood, it doesn't mean that you don't love your boyfriend, and it doesn't mean that it will affect your life; Who has not had a person who makes it difficult for him to forget, girls and boys are psychologically different, girls are naturally sensitive, boys are naturally physiological, not to mention that it is a boy you have had a crush on for so long, after all, you have liked it, but memories are always memories, and they can't change everything about you; Now that you have a boyfriend who loves you, you have to cherish it, and those so-called unrests will slowly dissipate with your current sweet love, no big deal.

What you can't get is always in turmoil, cherish the people in front of you, don't regret losing it, although these words are often heard, but how many people have done it.

Since you have low self-esteem, you are not worthy, cherish your current feelings, and wish you happiness.

Either have a good time with your boyfriend or confess to your crush after a breakup.

Forget about the past and live a good life in the present.

If someone else has a girlfriend, don't be cheap.

Cherish the present. Memories are always good.

Decisively threw away the phone and deleted all his data.

This man has obviously changed his mind, even if he turns back. You've accepted him this time! Then I will abandon you next time. What are you going to do? There is no bad, only better. Women should be kind to themselves.

The longer you are in a relationship, the more likely you are to break up! 7 years doesn't mean anything, and the current ending can only say that you are no longer suitable, at least you have found a problem between you, and there are irreconcilable contradictions, so he split his legs so that you have a better choice. It doesn't matter if it's right or wrong, it's not realistic to find a home and resume your own life, instead of blindly begging the other person to come back or waiting for the other person to come back to you.

I believe that every woman encounters such a situation, and she is stalking and asking questions.

In fact, as a boy, relatively speaking, when it comes to that time, if you don't bird him, he will come over to ask you. If you ask him, you will be more determined in his beliefs.

All, don't just love someone you just love.

Big sister, ......I'll call you Sister ......You really are ......Isn't it interesting to ask the same question dozens of times, every day? You ask him to solve the problem, right? You don't care about all the people who answer you, it's just a person who keeps asking ......Such useless ......

It's just that he works to make money and wants to be Chen Shimei.

People who are not sure whether they love it or not, don't give up.

The 100 dollars that fell in the urinal, do you pick it up or not?

It may be that he is too good (or too good in your heart), or it may be that you have too few good boys.

Try to be happy, many people are some good boys (it's best not to just look at appearances, because appearances often deceive people) to make friends with your heart, maybe you will find that there are actually a lot of good boys Of course, if the object of the crush, you still have a chance, you can give it a try, come on.

Love should be said out loud, no matter what the result is, after hard work, there will be no regrets

Should you look for it or find it, a crush is a crush, and you can't confess it.

Confess as soon as possible, if you don't say it, how will he know, time can't be delayed, seven years is not short.

You try to confess, if you don't take the first step, you will never have a chance.

Confess to him, if he refuses, you give up, but don't be sad that maybe you'll find a better one.

Confess to the person you have a crush on.

You're still young, aren't you? I used to have children just like you, the same result!

I think love becomes family affection is the king, just imagine how many people can keep the original romance and freshness? That kind of habit and dependence, being able to get used to and rely on, this is happiness! What can really last for a long time is a bland relationship, those vigorous ones often suffer too much pain, but it is not good, and the long-term love is true!

The seven-year itch has changed from love to habit, and it definitely doesn't feel like that back then.

Seven years of affection, girl, the price for you is too great. A change of heart is a change of heart, and no flashy excuse can hide your boyfriend's behavior, how many seven years are there in life? You don't have to wait for him to turn back, hurry up and find someone who really makes you love and who you can wait for for seven years.

In my opinion, feelings are not the same as understanding. Feelings, feelings are difficult to communicate. Understand, understand, small bridges flowing.

People's feelings and cognitions are biased, no one can match your understanding of his seven years, the problem is that his emotions are out of control, and the choice of the two of you.

Break up, ......Cut through the mess with a quick knife.

The longer the relationship is talked, the more tired it becomes. Therefore, it is the best choice to talk about getting married in one year. If you want to love in the dry sea, go to the romance ** to find it, don't gamble by yourself, because you can't afford to lose.

Seafarers passing by. My friend has been talking for ten years, and what I started talking about in junior high school is not also divided into ......Do you know the real reason for the breakup? If you knew, you wouldn't be sad.

You're glad you're not married! It's true!

He's not going back, and you can't ask for it

Girl, it's really not easy for the two of them to go for 7 years, but he has gone farther and farther, why are you still staying where you are? Feelings are actually the most stumbling things in the world, any entanglement is because of feelings, he now chooses to leave, chooses to give up this relationship, you don't want to entangle, it will only make the scene more ugly, our girl's family is open-minded, chic, there are so many good men, do you love him or just reluctant to give up this 7 years? I couldn't survive the first 7 years, and he returned to you in time, and the years after that will still repeat the mistakes of the past, listen to me, let him go, and give yourself a chance to live again, good luck.

Some feelings and some people, let it go away, many things have a time of accommodation, but these answers are in your heart, if you really change your mind and really care about you, you will also have the answer, in short, feelings are just other people's suggestions, and the final answer comes from you, because things happen to you, and others just give advice based on their own experiences.

No matter how good this is, there is always a better one in the world, he is sincere to others, he is sincere to you, and he is also sincere to her, and the newcomer always has a feeling better than the old one.

Wake up, you can't go to the garbage heap and pick up a new one, you think he loves you?

After all, you haven't survived the seven-year itch, give up, you can't continue to hang yourself from a tree, you still have a forest behind you.

You'll meet someone better than him in the future!

Love has a seven-year itch, and you didn't hold on.

Go on with your life, love yourself a little more, no matter if he will come back in the future, the most important thing for you is the next life, what you can't get to the end is not the most important, try to let go, don't torture yourself too much.

The pain is not to face the reality, don't have any thoughts, it will hurt deeper, forget that a person needs time, let the wound heal slowly, there will always be a suitable person for you.