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Good evening friend, when I was a child, I paid attention to you, that's because I was a child, this is a must for parents, I grew up, I've arrived, when I talk about marriage, my father will take care of it, it's not so wide, it depends on what kind of woman you marry, as long as you like it, Dad saw it, just a reference, the most important thing is yourself, marriage can't be arranged by your parents, a lifelong event, you can think about it yourself, you can discuss it with your parents appropriately, **, because your parents are from here, take the idea, or yourself? Marriage events can't be wrapped up by others, right???

My father cared about me when I was a child, but when I grew up, he didn't care about my marriage, what woman did I marry?

When you grow up, you have to decide some things for yourself, Dad loved you when you were a child and cared about your growth, and that was because you were young. When you become an adult and become a big man, you should make your own decisions about what kind of woman you should marry in your marriage, and your parents can only give you advice, and you can't participate too much in your marriage.

Doesn't it matter to you now? Don't care about you? Or is it just a matter of ignoring your marriage? In fact, this is right, even if the marriage is often disliked and rebellious by the children, it is better to ignore it, so it is quite right.

When you were young, you paid attention to you and loved you, and when you grew up, marriage only had your own thoughts, and your father should not be able to control it.

Because when you grow up, marriage is your own choice, and others can't interfere with you.

If your dad is financially well-off, he may be helping you with some money in terms of marriage.

You have grown up to think about your own future, after all, it is your wife who will be with you in the future, not him, it is with you, it is important that you like it, what if he sees that you don't like it?

You also said that when you were a child, you really needed someone to care about you when you were young, but now that you have grown up, maybe your father thinks that you also have your own thoughts, and it is not appropriate to manage it, whether it means that he doesn't care about you.

You betrayed your family for love, and Dad still loves you.

If you betray love, your man will want to kill you, and your father loves you at that time, and by the way, you have to thank you for being born in a society with royal law, and that man doesn't dare to really chop you up and feed you to the dog.

If your man betrays your love, your father will support you and rely on you as soon as you turn around.

Family affection or love, which is more important? Think with your head, don't rely on your heart, and don't trust hormones.

Everyone has the right to choose happiness, and your parents don't support you for your own happiness? Or are you and your friends living far from home? Either way, choose happiness first, and then go home often to see them and make them happy.

When the children grow up, they will leave their parents one day, get together often, or often play **, let their parents know that you are doing well, this is the greatest comfort to them, and they will be a lot more down-to-earth.

There is nothing wrong with being desperate for your love and happiness, but the mistake is that there is still family affection in the world, no matter who you choose, one is indispensable, and if you give up the other for the sake of one, the price is too great.

You should talk to your family and not betray them.

You feel like your dad married this person you are, and you don't feel good about seaweed, so you feel like your dad married a stupid person.

I have grown up, and when I go to work, I have to rely on my own efforts to strive for my own happiness. Don't rely on your parents all the time.

It's really unlucky to meet such a mother, your father should have lived a very sad and hard life in this life, I hope you can be good and be able to repay him in the future.

In fact, it is difficult to explain the things of life clearly, especially the things of adults.

You don't need to think about who your dad married, but more about what you should do when you grow up, and then how to get your dad's approval.

In fact, I think that when I grow up, I still have to learn to be independent and rely on myself, so that I can live a happier and more free life.

Hello friends.

After reading your description, I understand your mood very well. You can communicate with your mom well. Say what you think and let mom analyze it.

Let's talk about it. Only by talking to each other, spreading the topic on the table, and solving it together, will everyone come up with a good solution.

After all, the other party is your biological father, and that is also your brother's biological father, everyone must work together to solve problems for the family, so that the family will be happy.

Why do you say that about your dad? Is your mom bad? Then your dad likes your mom, and no matter how bad your mom is, it's also a mom, you can't say that.

This is also a matter of no choice, communicate well and cherish it.

Yes, the older I get, the more my husband will definitely think about his personal problems. How could he not want to hear the burden and pressure?

What kind of person your dad married, this is your dad's own decision, you don't care so much, your dad will definitely know what life he wants.

I don't think you should say that about your mom, so you should talk to your dad anyway.

How to say it, so when you grow up, you have to understand, no matter what, you have to understand your parents' hearts.

The more I grow up, the more I think your dad married something, this is actually an adult business, and we had better not care about it ourselves, because we can't manage it at all.

When I grew up, the more I felt that my dad had taken something, because you are a child, your father and mother must discipline you a lot, so you feel that your mother's status in your heart is not as good as before. Actually, mom loves you.

This is your mother, so I can only say that there is no way.

I think it's up to you to make your own choices anyway, so you don't interfere too much.

The more I grew up, the more I thought what my dad was doing, what do you mean by that, do you think your mother is not good?

That's when your mother should also learn to respect her, cherish her, and not denigrate her behind her back.

When you grow up, you will feel that what kind of woman you marry means that you have a bad relationship with your mother, and your personality is not good.

It's all poverty that is to blame!!

If your family's income was three or five times that of now, maybe your mother wouldn't be so stingy. But no matter what, she's your mother after all.

Of course, there may be another reason, this is that your father is seriously ill and admitted to the hospital, and your mother is still stubborn, and this is a matter of morality.

You can talk to your father more, which can be regarded as comfort and filial piety. The feelings of your parents are so ruthless, could it be that your father has the handle to be caught? If your father really needs help, then you can help him get a lawyer!!

As for not buying a motorcycle, you should understand. It is said that previous generations of motorcyclists were almost glorious, mainly because it was too dangerous. You can buy an electric car with average speed as a means of transportation.

Hehe, what are you talking about, you must have been very unbehaved when you were a child, so your father would reprimand or beat you, so how could you be said that you don't love you, the old people are looking forward to their sons and daughters becoming phoenixes, you are happy to be better than himself, now that you have grown up, this understanding of the mind of adults, and not as disobedient as when you were a child, so you have experienced your father's love, this is very normal, love can be seen from the inconspicuous small details, I believe that your father must have loved you when you were a child, It's just that you won't understand it, cherish this love.

When you were a child, you loved your mother, and your mother loved you; When you grow up, you love you, you love your mother.

Because you've grown up and become sensible, so is my dad.

Of course, there is no reason, I can say frankly, I myself grew up in a single-parent family, my parents divorced when I was six or seven years old, I grew up with my grandfather, the formation of a person's personality has many influencing factors, it is true that some children of single-parent families will have psychological defects due to the divorce of their parents, but it cannot be generalized, everyone may form psychological defects under different environmental experiences, and many children from single-parent families have come out of the shadows, and the specific ones still have to be divided according to people.

First of all, I think that parents' vision may be wrong, but there must be some truth. Family misfortunes experienced in childhood may cause certain negative effects, and when they grow up, they may show behaviors such as not being easily contacted, impulsive, and extreme thoughts. This image may gradually decrease after high school compared to childhood, so the earlier this happens, the more likely it is to affect the child's psychological development.

At least I've been in contact with, whether it's a boy or a girl, it's a little different, but in a different way.

However, the statement that "there must be psychological defects" is too one-sided. People will change, after all, you have to stay with her for the rest of your life, not your parents. But the haze in the depths of the soul is not something that can be felt after a day or two of contact, or even a few years of dating, everyone will pretend to be a disguise, and once they get married, all kinds of phenomena that were not there before marriage will explode.

Yes, it makes sense, but it's only a truth. Love is a matter of two people, and marriage is even more so. So if you are willing to work hard and pay for it, you must also bear the consequences that may occur.

Placed in the psychological flaw, I believe that the dark side of the heart will slowly fade away in the long road of life.

Don't marry a child who grew up in a single-parent family, this is a bit excessive, and I don't think Xun Tong. You can't give a single-parent child a definition that will never turn over. Why?

Because there are many reasons for single-parent children, such as: parents' emotional disagreement and divorce, the ten evil extremes are sentenced to death, death from disease, natural disasters and man-made disasters, etc. are the main culprits of single-parent families. Personally, according to the policy of party spirit:

Don't spare a bad person, and don't wronged a good person". In the face of these complex backgrounds, we should make rational judgments.

Every parent feels sorry for their children, with a younger brother, the younger brother is still young, the parents will take care of more, and the parents' energy is also limited, you may feel that they don't care about you so much, but you should know in your own heart that you should not let them worry more, but study hard and help take care of your younger brother more, so that your parents will also think that you are very sensible and proud of you.

This is the gap in your heart, Dad also loved you very much when you were as old as your brother, you also have to learn to empathize, Mom and Dad love their children, don't think too much, if you have always had such thoughts, you are too ignorant, you know? Come on, lad!

Actually, this problem is very common, maybe it is your own psychological effect, you can take the initiative to communicate with your dad, this is the key.

Slaves of the old society! Patriarchal.

Don't cry, friend, you might not be cheerful enough, right? Therefore, if your circle of friends is not wide enough, there will be fewer opportunities to meet men. But you can't marry casually because you are anxious, my friend didn't marry until she was in her thirties, because she had to find a suitable one to marry, and now she is very happy!

I haven't really understood your family environment, so I don't make many comments, and patriarchy is indeed a common custom. You probably don't have an only child, you probably have a brother. If you can't find a male ticket, it's either ugly or weird-tempered, and there is another kind of high vision, if you account for the above items, then just change it.

Especially understand you, everyone's fate is different. So in such a situation, you must remember to cheer yourself up. Don't keep thinking about things like this. The most important thing is to be good to yourself.

Everyone has everyone's chance, don't be too closed, there will be the right person for you.

Regardless of what has happened before, what matters is what you want to experience in the future.

People always place illusory things in the real society when they are unsatisfactory, vulgar! To be honest, I didn't want to reply to you, but I remembered that I had a similar confusion, so I said more. Raising children knows the kindness of their parents, and when they get married and have children, they will deeply understand their parents, young is not a reason to be ignorant, don't do excessive things easily, after a few years, you have more experience, you have enough experience, looking back on the past, you will understand.

When you grow up, your parents think that you can be independent, so they won't take care of you like a child, so learn to be independent, happiness is created by yourself, no one can help you!

Why do you feel like your parents don't care about you anymore?

Your parents don't believe in Buddhism, and you always talk about Buddhism, and you don't have a common language, right?

The special experience you had as a child had a huge negative impact on you.

It can even affect your sexual orientation. You have lacked fatherly love since you were a child, although you have a father, but it is a patriarchal father, and he has never given you any fatherly love. This gives you an instinctive dislike and resistance to men.

So, when you talk about your boyfriend and don't call at all, you have a lot of feelings for girls. I think you should see a psychiatrist.

You need to find a psychiatrist to intervene! There are mild symptoms of homosexuality.

You may be gay, so it's best to consult a psychiatrist.

I don't know exactly what your problem is, but you can ask a friend around you.