Would you be willing to buy it for your girlfriend? 10

Maybe she just wants you to have an attitude, she won't really want it, and if you decide to buy it for her, maybe she's happy, but she definitely won't really want you to buy it, even though she likes it. If she really wants you to buy it, then she doesn't love you.

If she doesn't force it, just show that she likes it, you can explain it to her, after all, she is not married, and you have to think about the future.

Do you say yes?

Unwilling. Such a girl does not think about her boyfriend's financial strength at all.

It's a girlfriend or a wife, the wife will buy it, the girlfriend should forget it, five years, boss, whether she will be with you in five years is not certain.

How much money do you earn a month to save for five years...

I guess you've saved it. Your girlfriend can't wait that long...

Let's buy it separately. Can she not know your financial means...

5 years? I don't think I know how to. What's the practical use of that thing? Love should not be associated with money, otherwise, the probability of spoilage will increase.

See if the girl is worth it.

What the hell is it. It's better to buy such an expensive thing after getting married.

Dump him directly, something!

If I can't afford it, then I will refuse her.

In a relationship, giving is a matter for two people, and if one person is infinitely tolerant and the other person is infinitely taking, then the position of these two people is obviously unbalanced. Over time, the accommodating party will feel exhausted, the demanding party will only want more and more, and the breakdown of the relationship between the two people is only a matter of time.

Choosing to refuse when you can't bear it is not a sign of ungenerosity, nor is it a sign of reluctance, but a genuine desire to develop the relationship between two people in a positive, healthy and equal direction.

I can tell her directly that my income is not enough to support her by buying her things so often, and that my income is not only used for my own life and the lives of the two of us, but also for the future, and I need to save some savings to make the future life better for the two of us. But if it is something that is really needed, I will definitely buy it for her, and some holiday gifts will also be prepared for her carefully, so you don't mean that you are unwilling to spend money on her.

I believe that if you have an effective communication and make your girlfriend understand that you are not unwilling to spend money on her, but that you need to take on some other things in mind, and prove your love for her with practical actions, things will be solved. The girl always feels about your dedication, and when she realizes that this matter will cause you pressure, she will take the initiative to change.

Don't measure your feelings with money, don't force yourself to meet all your girlfriend's wishes, if you can't meet your ability, you will easily fall into a "loan dilemma" and be difficult to afford. Therefore, in order to make the relationship between the two parties more long-term and deeper, we must solve such problems in a timely manner, as long as she expresses her understanding after you express it well, and still chooses to be with herself, such a love can last for a long time, at least not only to be blessed and shared, but also to send charcoal in the snow, and you can also enter the palace of marriage.

If my ability is limited, I will definitely refuse the other party, because the other party's high consumption will make me feel very stressed, and I will also make it clear to the other party.

No, I'll buy her things as much as I can, it's normal.

I would refuse her, after all, my financial conditions are not particularly good, and if I often buy things for my girlfriend, I may not be able to afford it.

Summary. She buys you things, but you don't show that she's happy, and she thinks that girls buy very little things for boys, and you don't accept it, and she's not happy.

Are you surprised that your girlfriend said such a thing, and are you surprised that your girlfriend said such a thing? Right. Right.

Maybe it's that her friends don't buy anything for her boyfriend.

No. He said you're right here with me, and now there's a woman who buys something for her boyfriend.

He said you're right here with me, and now there's a woman who buys something for her boyfriend.

Eun: Then you hope that your girlfriend can buy you things and gifts, and you will feel more comfortable, right?

No. No.

So what do you think, what do you expect?

He bought me clothes for me to pick out, and then I didn't have that much pleasure.

Oh oh understood.

And then he said, "I'll buy you clothes."

She buys you things, but you don't show that she's happy, and she thinks that girls buy very little things for boys, and you don't accept it, and she's not happy.

It's just that the way I talk is that now, it's basically boys buying for girls, and I'm not actively buying it for you.

Hello If your girlfriend asks you not to buy her any more things, it is most likely to express her dissatisfaction with your financial resources or the way you interact with each other. It may need to be analyzed from the following aspects. On the one hand, whether the financial resources you give are considered excessive and put pressure on her, sometimes people will not keep asking the other person to stop doing this, which will indirectly prompt; If you buy gifts frequently just out of a desire to make your girlfriend happy, it can make your girlfriend feel upset and emotionally burdensome.

On the other hand, there is something wrong with the way you interact with each other, such as losing the original interest and fun. If everyone gets along too much on "benefits", then the way to get any value added to the reputation will make people feel lonely and tired, because the real will and emotions between you have been lost, and he is revealing her true thoughts to you, hoping that you will establish a deeper communication with him. Therefore, it is recommended that you stop buying too many gifts for your girlfriend who is missing a paragraph or have a comparison mentality, and instead communicate with her to understand the other person's expectations of each other and try to meet the needs of the other person.

It is recommended that you start with "companionship" and "understanding", and find the joy of life together, maybe in this way you can go further.

We will find such a phenomenon, that is, girls generally like to buy things, whether it is our mother or girlfriend, they are basically they who are shopping, and they never have to worry about what is lacking in the house.

Many boys will have such a trouble, their girlfriend likes to buy things, whether I want to be with her or not, whether such a girl is suitable for marriage.

In fact, everyone has their own troubles, everyone will have their own doubts, your girlfriend likes to buy things, at this time, you shouldn't think about disliking your girlfriend, your girlfriend doesn't buy everything you envy will buy by herself, and your girlfriend didn't ask you for money when she bought things, if you dislike your girlfriend because of these things, it means that you don't love your girlfriend, you are a selfish existence.

No matter what kind of women they are, they all like to buy things, and the things they buy are basically prepared at home, some are prepared for each other, at this time, you don't blindly blame your girlfriend, and the two of you are not married to you, so much cares, then after marriage, your girlfriend must not have any autonomy, at this time your girlfriend should consider whether to be with you, not whether you are still thinking about disliking your girlfriend.

Boys should know how to tolerate their girlfriends, your girlfriends have no other shortcomings except for liking to buy things, if you dislike your girlfriend because of such a shortcoming, then your love will not last long in the future.

Therefore, boys must stay sensible, don't have too many requirements for each other, if you ask too much, it will affect the relationship between the two parties, and when you say break up, your girlfriend will take the initiative to leave you, and you have no way back at that time.

Therefore, whether it is a man or a woman, when you have a love, you must know how to cherish it, only in this way will the love become long-lasting.

Girls like to shop, every girl is like that, you can't dislike her just because she likes to buy things. You're her boyfriend, maybe he sometimes asks you to buy her things, you can buy her things occasionally, but you can't buy things for her every day, it's unbearable.

No, it won't. My girlfriend is willing to buy things, and that says he has a penchant for shopping. And he doesn't necessarily cost you more money to buy things.

It's not very normal to spend your own money and regret it. Why do you dislike your girlfriend for buying things? Instead of disliking your girlfriend's willingness to buy things, it is better to earn more money yourself to make your girlfriend happier.

I don't dislike my girlfriend, because since I like my girlfriend, then I will accept her good points, including her disadvantages. Besides, liking to buy things is a characteristic of most women. So I'm not going to dislike my girlfriend. Staring brother.

I won't dislike it because of this, what's the situation with this point renting a stool? If it's that kind of shopaholic, I might be disgusted, if I just like to buy something, and I want to buy something small when I see it, I don't think I'll be disgusted with the old traveler.

In this case, I will not dislike my female friend Huihui. Because I think it's a personal hobby, there's no need to interfere with my girlfriend, so there's no need to interfere with my girlfriend.

I won't dislike it, because it's normal for a girlfriend to have a hobby of self-respect, which woman doesn't spend some money or anything, and the girlfriend who doesn't spend money doesn't know how to dress up, and the girlfriend who loves to dress up is the beautiful and slow self-confidence.

I won't, and I think she's a very good person, and if the other party has a strong ability to spend money, she will communicate with the other party, and then let the other party do what she can.

I don't dislike my girlfriend, mainly because she likes to buy things, and it's her only hobby, so I'll definitely support it.

No, girls like to buy things, and if she doesn't buy them, it means that she has lost the joy of life.