Why can t you control thinking about her? What should I do? 30

The best way is to find a girlfriend somewhere else, although you like her very much, but she has rejected you, it is not yours, it is not yours, don't force it, you will find your own happiness.

That's it, if there is no such thing as being trapped by love, real heroes can't pass this level, just give yourself something to do and get busy.

Scold. The two of us are the same.

Teach you to recruit me now. When you have nothing to do.

Take out**Internet view**.!

Absolutely can't let yourself be idle.

As for what you said about being cheap or not.

I think I was ruthless.

My buddy told me...One sentence to remember.

Of course she didn't give you a chance. The one who regrets it is not you.

The one who regrets it is her !!

You're in the same situation as I am.

Now that I know that there is no hope.

Let's study (student) and work.

Do something that works for you.

Find some sense of accomplishment.

Later you will find true love.

Dude, let's share the ups and downs.

It means that you are still sensible, so why should you? There are many women, and I hope to find a better one than her.

Then think so! and do not break the law.

1.Don't deliberately forget, if you do, you will only remember it better. \2.

Try to keep yourself busy, make your life full, and let yourself have no time to miss. \3.Try to expand your circle of friends and contact as many people as possible, and maybe you have your true destiny inside.

4.When you have to contact him, try to be as normal as an ordinary friend. \5.

Try to discover your hobbies and do something you enjoy to play an empathetic role. \6.Give yourself a big smile every day and tell yourself "tomorrow is another day."

I believe that one day in the future, you will find that when you think of him again, your heart will no longer ache, and it turns out that unconsciously, she has become "that person". "

You can adjust your daily life, do more outdoor activities, don't stay up late, be envious, and actively improve the environment of daily work and life.

Or take some sedative and tranquilizing medicines, such as tranquilizing brain fluid, compound jujube kernel capsules, gamma oryzanol, etc.

Don't watch TV and mobile phones for a long time before sleeping, and relax your mind.

If the mental symptoms are severe, you can try to go to the psychological clinic for counseling and**.

Patients with symptoms of depression or psychosis can take oral olanzapine, sertraline, paroxetine, etc.

The mind is always cranky and uncontrollable, and it is likely to be a symptom of neurasthenia. Neurasthenia is caused by long-term tension and stress, which leads to mental excitability and fatigue. Common symptoms are:

Lack of broad accompaniment and fatigue, difficulty concentrating, insomnia, poor memory, often forgetting things, whether performing physical or mental work, fatigue after a long time. It is advisable to go to the neurology department or psychiatric department of the hospital for examination**, usually with medication** and psychological**.

Summary. 1. Allocate your time reasonably Let yourself have no free time to think about each other, use your free time, learn something interesting, so that you can participate in these entertainment when you are free, and slowly you will make a lot of friends, and you will not miss each other anymore. 2. Divert your attention, you have focused on doing the other person before, so it will be difficult to divert your attention, and you will be a little unaccustomed to it, so you need to adjust your state, find your next goal, and keep moving in this direction.

1. Allocate your time reasonably Let yourself have no free time to think about each other, make use of your free time, learn something interesting, so that you can participate in these entertainment when you are free, and slowly you will make a lot of friends, and you will not miss each other anymore. 2. Divert your attention, you have focused on the other party before, so it will be difficult to divert your attention, and you will be a little unaccustomed to it, so you need to adjust your state, find your next goal, and keep moving in this direction.

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That is, find things to do for yourself and don't let yourself be idle.

Know. Always uncontrollably thinking about what to do alone?

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The solution to always think uncontrollably about a person is as follows:

1. Think about that person's shortcomings.

If you want to keep yourself from missing a person, the measure you can take in this situation is to think about that person's shortcomings, and at the same time keep strengthening this shortcoming in your mind, so that such shortcomings are constantly amplified, so that you will give yourself constant psychological hints.

He's not good, and after a long time, the frequency of missing this person will drop a lot.

If you want to keep yourself from missing someone, the measure you can take in this case is to inject more energy into the work, when you put most of your energy into work, at this time you will keep yourself busy, once the work occupies the brain, then you have no time to think about other things, and there is no extra space to miss someone.

3. Let the miss go through time.

If you want to keep yourself from missing someone, the measure you can take in this case is to let the miss go by over time, in the process, you don't have to care if you miss the person, just take some time and slowly dilute this kind of missing, the longer the time, the lighter this kind of missing will be, and slowly you will become less missful of someone.

4. Find your next love.

If you want to keep yourself from missing someone, in this case, first calm your heart for a while, after calming down, and then slowly try to find the next love, when you find a person you like again, slowly you will put more energy and more thoughts on another person, after a long time, you will no longer miss the previous person.

5. Let your friends help you forget.

If you want to keep yourself from missing someone, the measure you can take in this case is to let your friends help you forget, when you are separated from this person, you can tell your friends about your separation, and then tell your friends by the way, no matter when you don't mention each other, friends will tacitly not mention each other in the process of dating you, and slowly the friends around you don't mention him, which invisibly cuts off your connection with each other, and the frequency of missing will become lower and lower.

It's normal to miss someone uncontrollably, but you have to be honest about the possibility that you might develop into a relationship. After identifying your thoughts, you should have the courage to express your feelings honestly and truthfully, as well as accept any reactions that may arise from the other person. If the person you're following responds well, consider a genuine relationship; If he doesn't want to, you should also respect his choice, don't force his feelings, and the best thing to do is to use time to hone your separation pains in a hurry.

After breaking up, I still miss each other, and I feel uncomfortable.

Many times we are unwilling to collapse, we have paid too much, and we can't accept it all at once.

It's like when I was broken up all over the world, looking for each other, and I was deceived by institutions.

When I was out of love, I tried to drink and get myself drunk, just to be able to fall asleep, but when I woke up, I still couldn't control Hu Yuan and hurt my body.

If you play games, it's just to pass the time, and you can't fundamentally solve the problem of wanting to do the right thing after a breakup.

Later, I found Mimi on the Internet, and wrote to her when I was thinking about her, which can ease my thoughts when I write a letter, and also allow me to reorganize our relationship.

I wrote when I thought about it, and when I said everything I wanted to say, I didn't want to think about it, and I also looked at the relationship between us again, and found that she didn't want it to the end from the beginning.

In the end, I was relieved to accept the fact that I was relieved.