How to keep yourself from being obsessed with celebrities?

I'm as big as you! I like Li Wei, but I'm not obsessed. I suggest that you don't watch TV or surf the Internet, it's time to start school soon, just endure it for a few days.

Let parents supervise! Do you still have self-control I don't believe that there is anything that our post-90s Xiaoqiang can't overcome! 。

You're the same as me, I also like martial arts, and I can't let him go at all... I'm going to junior high school too.,I watch his games every day.,**Ah,My mom always scolds me.。。。 I think,It seems that I can't let go if I really want to let go...

Just set a password for your computer, preferably one you don't know.

In fact, it's very simple, you can think of it this way, paying attention to martial arts on the Internet is not necessarily every day, after all, the wonderful ** will not be deleted for a while, and when you are free, you can study easily (of course, students in the second year of junior high school are rarely free) and you can go online when you zoom in on vacation. And if you delay learning because of martial arts, this is not a good phenomenon, whether it is for you or for martial arts, others will think that martial arts as an idol but delay others, you definitely don't want this kind of thing to happen.

It is recommended that you work on the following aspects:

First, go back to the roots. Try to put yourself in the child's shoes and have an in-depth understanding of the stars your child admires, so that you have the "capital" to communicate with your child. Then, through equal communication, figure out why the child worships him and what the reason for worship is, so as to prepare for the next step of guiding the child.

Second, reasonable guidance. There are many positive and positive factors in celebrities, find these "shining points" and make them role models for children to learn. In this way, the so-called "idol" may become the motivation for the child to move forward and the goal to catch up.

One child was a great admirer of Awakening, and his mother did so by digging a few stools: I found that Awakening had always been very good at school. When he was in junior high school, he was the first in his grade.

His English is excellent and he has a high score in IELTS. I told my son to learn from the awakening, to persevere and strive for excellence in whatever he does, and to hold himself to high standards. Gradually, the son went from being obsessed with the song of the awakening to admiring his personality.

My son is more serious about studying than before, and he often practices spoken English, saying that since he likes to wake up so much, he shouldn't speak English too badly.

Third, more understanding and communication. Adolescent children generally think that their parents ignore them, and in their minds, classmates, friends, and their "idols" are the ones who understand them best. Therefore, when they have something on their minds, they would rather talk to their peers than tell their parents.

If parents can have more understanding and trust in their children, and can communicate more with their children, I believe that their children will one day say goodbye to "obsessed chasing stars".

Think about the dirty things of celebrities.