Does empathy hurt, boyfriend empathy don t fall in love, I m miserable

Yes. Whether I've loved it or not, what I'm loving at the moment I'm genuine.

You can be friends with your ex, you don't think it matters if you hack each other, you hate each other, but you can still find fun in each other, yes, he can make me laugh.

At a certain moment, I fell in love with someone and started a crush like many years ago, and it is not painful to have a crush on each other, but why do you expect the other person to like you?

What the hell am I going to do to tell you when you show up that I like you and I deserve your liking In front of people I don't like, self-confidence is so redundant that it hits other people's self-esteem In front of people I like, I just changed my role, but fortunately, I didn't confess It's still not the most humble, and the humble thing is that my confession is rejected and I won't give up.

I'm not that brave, I'm a coward.

Are you feeling pain? It's very painful.

You will feel guilty, but you will not be miserable, you may be happier than before, and if you are unhappy, you will miss your ex.

If you find a lover who is better than your ex and is good to yourself, you will not feel guilty, let alone painful, but will be happy.

You can discuss with your counsellor about how you are feeling right now, and transference is an easy part of counselling that needs to be dealt with, so there's nothing to be embarrassed about.

Such people can understand others very well, so the advantage is that the interpersonal relationship is good, because everyone is willing to interact with people who understand themselves, often this kind of people have a lot of positive energy, so proper use is very conducive to their own life and work, and they will naturally be happy, not simply painful.

The above comments are all hypothetical people with high empathy and empathy ability (almost absolutely denying) People who really have this ability (can be said to be defective) are very painful, and even desperate People with high empathy and empathy ability, unable to focus on something, the emotions around him will have a profound impact on him, he can keenly feel the emotions of others and respond intuitively, (intuition refers to not the intention) and is prone to a pleasing state. It is extremely easy to fall into self-entanglement, and many times there is no way to get the best of both worlds, which will produce low self-esteem and thus be easily depressed. The so-called being able to find a good friend is impossible at all, anyone is a troublemaker, (people always have complex emotions, as long as the other party has mood swings, they can often detect it before the other party themselves, and give the other party a response, which is already very tiring and tired) When you are away from everyone, you are often the happiest, and it is really, really painful ......

It's easy to be moved to cry in life, even if it's not your own business at all, your boyfriend always says it's stupid. I don't feel pain, but I feel that the red eyes look very pretentious.

It's painful to think too much about others.

It's so demanding that no one has to understand you, and of course you don't have to understand others, as for whether you can or can't decide personally.

Why bother, dear, love yourself well.

Since he said to break up, let's officially separate.

Since it is wrong, it is better to have a short pain than a short one.

Although it is painful to fall out of love, but kiss you and think that love is not the whole of life, as long as you are willing, you will come out of the haze.

There are still many things that can be done, and girls should give full play to the expression of love for themselves, so that we can go further and be stronger.

Dear, I wish you happiness.

First of all, it must be to prevent the "love network" of empathy from being strayed and unable to extricate oneself. Secondly, as a counselor, you must learn to use empathy to promote effective **, and you can also use psychological techniques to transfer the feelings of patients at critical moments, such as "psychological sublimation", "relationship rationalization" and "emotional displacement". The sublimation effect refers to turning feelings into enterprising motivation, so that patients can succeed in their studies and careers; Rationalization refers to the normalization of the doctor-patient relationship into teacher-student, parent-child or friendship; The effect of displacement refers to the transfer of feelings to the doctor, and then transferred to a person who is more conducive to the development of the patient's feelings through the doctor's hands.

That's a good question, I also want to know, a few days ago I was counseling people, and I was depressed.

There is no right or wrong in feelings, if you like it, you will chase it. However, no one will leave you suddenly, your emotional contradictions are piled up little by little, you just see the moment she leaves, think about your own mistakes, and then go back to redeem them.

Memories are unforgettable, but painful.

Personally, I believe in fate, and the broken fate is the end. It's hard to forget your ten years of memories, so try to create new ones. Wait for your fate.

In addition to solving each other's physiological needs, lovers are still talking, in essence, there is still a difference between them and their wives, they don't care too much, they can find it again, both men and women are in great demand in this regard.

A lover is not a lover, not your don't force it.

Love doesn't come to an end in a day, but after accumulating enough disappointments, it slowly comes to an end. It's not that he doesn't love you anymore, he just forgets how to love you.

There is no difference between right and wrong on the road of affection, if you want to say right and wrong, you can only say that you fell in love with someone you shouldn't love at the wrong time. However, when we were growing up, we had teachers at school to teach us all kinds of knowledge, and parents at home to teach us how to behave. But no one has ever taught us how to love someone.

Emotional matters are difficult to explain clearly, and they are also the most difficult to let go. It's not that you can put it down, but how many literary masters have written poems about feelings from ancient times to the present. After reading those poems, it makes people feel sad and desolate.

Not to mention experiencing it yourself.

Emotion engineer Rybin" has said it before

The degree of pain after a breakup is actually determined by the degree of dependence of two people in a relationship. Everyone is an individual with their own circle. When in love, the two circles will intersect to form a common space, which contains the investment of two people's time, energy, intimacy, sex, intelligence, etc.

The more you invest, the greater the common space, the larger the common space, the smaller the private independent space, and the higher the dependence on lovers. The higher the degree of dependence, the more difficult and painful it is to break up.

It means that you have no fate, it is not your dish, and letting go is your best choice. Breaking up early is less painful, what are you still suffering. You should be happy

The long pain is better than the short pain, let him go.

"There are many difficulties to pass in life, since ancient times, love is the most uncomfortable, maybe I am destined to be bumpy in the sea of love...”

Don't love if you're afraid of losing! People who are in love need courage, don't they?