I m empathetic and don t fall in love!! I hate myself!

It mainly depends on your own heart, if you only have a sense of responsibility for your girlfriend and have no feelings, then there is no need to hold on. But she's so good to you, you have to think it through yourself, if that girl is still waiting for you to break up, I don't like this very much. I still think your girlfriend is better.

Generally, kind-hearted girls don't do third parties. If you break up with your girlfriend and have a relationship with this girl, you may have conflicts because of your previous relationship. Just a personal opinion.

You must not wait, after waiting, you can only regret that you didn't choose at that time.

In fact, if your first girlfriend betrayed you, I think it's better to follow what you love She has hurt you, although it shouldn't be the reason why you hurt her, but if you love another person, time will only bring more pain. But it's useless for anyone to say, you have to choose for yourself.

Feelings are such a thing, you can only follow your feelings, you choose the person who loves you because you have a sense of responsibility, do you think there will be consequences if you marry someone you don't love at all? Will it hold on?

See for yourself

After all, you have to hurt one of them, you can't delay it for too long, but you have to minimize the damage and follow the direction of your experience, it's really like this, choose the person who loves you because you are responsible, but if after a long time, you find that you no longer love her, then what happiness is there? Cut the Gordian knot!!!

Brother, you are not married, and you can't say anything, but feelings are this thing that makes people happy and makes people good, and it is inevitable that the damage will be done, and all we can do is to minimize the damage, so the only way is to make a trade-off earlier. You need to know that no matter what decision you make, it will hurt the other one, so making trade-offs early will liberate one person + make two people happy!

Don't you want this to happen?

My opinion is: if the second girlfriend loves you too, then you choose the second one. If the first one loves you more, you still choose the second.

Because you don't love the first one anymore, the second woman also likes you) If the second doesn't love you, you choose the first. (That's no way, it's hard to keep if you don't love you!) ）

Don't choose someone who has betrayed you, and you shouldn't be with her anymore when she comes back to you.

I don't think there's a way to break up without hurting.

I advise you to choose as soon as possible.

Otherwise, the damage will be more and more severe.

I advise you not to be so amorous in the future.

Wouldn't it be nice to really love one?

Aido will only make itself in trouble.

Feelings are not something that can be forced.

As long as you're not married, you still have a choice.

Real headache. If you don't come across, I just thought it was a TV episode.

Love is like this, if you don't love it, you leave, even indifferent, without a trace of warmth, what can you hate? Can he feel guilty because of your hatred and like you, and then choose you? If you have someone who is more suitable for you, someone you like more, what do you want your boyfriend to do?

Do you also hope that he can understand you, in fact, if he doesn't love you, he will break up with you, in fact, it is your luck, if he doesn't love you, still possess you, and step on two boats, then it hurts you more, isn't it? Since he doesn't love you, why hate him, you hate him, it means that you still care about him and love him, for this kind of cheap man, he is not qualified to let you hate, all you have to do is to break up with him, have no nostalgia for him, and have a heart for him, and live a wonderful life, this is revenge on him. Having said all this, I hope you can let go of this heart and wish you well.

Losing someone is very simple, don't have any contact from now on, if the other party takes the initiative to contact you, it means that there is still you in the heart, if not, there is no need to contact. It may be that the love is weak, the heart has changed, the love is not loved, or there is a new love, even if you take out your heart, it is just harassment. It is yours and you don't need to force it, it is naturally yours, and if it is not yours, you can't ask for it.

The coolest thing is people's hearts, but they feel sorry for our past!

Upstairs is right, you hate him, it means that you still care about him, completely erase him from your heart, make yourself live a more wonderful life, tell him that without him, you will live a more wonderful life! This is your best revenge!

This kind of man is divided and divided, don't care too much, just take it as a joke, he is not worth your hatred, seriously, be happy.

He's not overdoing it, it's you overdoing it. Why don't you take a dignified gorgeous turn and look for someone who loves you?

Not everyone is patient with long-distance relationships, maybe he is not suitable for long-distance relationships!

Why do you hate him? Live your day by yourself!

Comrade Cow, can I ask you a few questions before answering your questions? Can a broken mirror be reunited? It is true that some rifts can be bridged, but it is a pity that there are irreparable, there are no two things in this world that are exactly the same, even twins cannot be exactly the same, including appearance and personality.

In fact, there is one thing that you are very worthy of affirmation, that is, you are very emotionally attached and nostalgic, which means that you still have the shadow of your previous boyfriend in your heart, which may be the main reason for your relationship with your current boyfriend, because you can't fully dedicate yourself, I have experienced similar things to you, but my girlfriend is not dead but married. One day she told me that her husband was not good to her, and I said that the path was chosen by herself; She asked me to go to her space to see her son's **, and I said it wasn't my boy. It's not that I'm cruel, it's that she already has a new life, and since I'm not the protagonist, I shouldn't mess with her life.

Here's a piece of advice for you: cherish the people in front of you, and don't always think that what you don't get is the best. You said that he is very similar to your deceased boyfriend, and he must be very similar in appearance, because you just secretly pay attention to what you mean and don't understand, even if it is a similar personality, he can't be the same person you used to be, understand.

If it were me, if a girl said that I was very similar to her previous boyfriend and contacted me, I would not be with that girl, because no one wants to be a substitute for shadows. Of course, this is just my personal opinion, don't be angry if you say something wrong, I think I'm right, we can add QQ to chat.

You haven't come out of the shadow of your deceased boyfriend yet, and even if you're with a colleague, it's not fair to your colleague, think about it.

Sisters, don't go against your heart, do what you want, and don't leave a source of regret with yourself in the future.

You have to trust your instincts, although your colleague looks like your ex-boyfriend, he is not a person after all, you have to choose carefully!

Well, 、、、 this question, your ex-boyfriend is dead, and your company has a man who looks like your ex-boyfriend, and what you like is not him, but your ex-boyfriend, but looks like your ex-boyfriend, you like him because he looks like your ex-boyfriend, you should cherish your current boyfriend, don't wait for the loss, and regret it.

She likes a girl?? Although it sounds a little inexplicable, but in fact, it is not surprising, I think you don't need to force her in this matter, otherwise you may receive unexpected results, I think you should take your time in this matter, if her child has love for you, I think she will definitely come back, of course, you have to be prepared, don't be too sad to lose, everyone has too much reluctance, but in the end, so what!! Have fun and trust you!!

She is already a person who doesn't love you, and there's nothing to feel sorry for giving up someone who doesn't love you

See if you can see it, the general empathy is unreliable, there are one and two,

If you're sure he's empathetic, leave him and don't hurt yourself.

If you just suspect and he doesn't empathize, you have to examine yourself, is your boyfriend wrong?

I wish you all happiness!

Break up, but have a better life than him.

What is yours is what you are afraid of? Everything is predestined!

It's a difficult choice for you, but the scales in your heart are tipping.

Don't be bitter about yourself!

Go to the water poor! Do it when the clouds rise!

It is recommended that you choose according to your own psychological will, sometimes it is too realistic, and you may regret it in the future.

Career and relationship are wavering, if your girlfriend loves you very much, you can choose her, she will definitely spur you. But your actions now are hurting her, and I don't know if she will forgive you.

How can women, the most fickle species in the world, be trusted? Are other women worth it? Don't think about it, pick it up, and put it down.

It's only 3 months. Did you fall into it so quickly?

The world is changing every second.

Sometimes it takes a lot to keep someone's heart. And it can't be relaxed.

Did you do it?

How about the next effort?

Get revenge on her!

You also empathize with don't fall in love, and you have to find someone more beautiful than her, hit him well, and tell him that men are not easy to mess with!

If she dares to bully your new girlfriend, you will bully her new boyfriend too!

Don't be too pessimistic, things may not be what you think.

Stop complaining, hurry up and pack up your mood and start a new life. Love is not the whole of life, and the more you care about it, the more it may joke with you. In fact, you have to think on the bright side, wouldn't it be better to see this woman as soon as possible?

True fate favors those who live seriously. Anyone who has a game life in mind or doubts about life will not experience true happiness!

One last word for you:

A man's lie, a night of deceiving a woman;

A woman's lie, deceiving a man of his life's ......

You should find a girlfriend again