Is it me hypocrisy or is it him! Are men like that!!!!!!!!!!!!

This boy is immature, very simple. Most of them are girls who are willful. A boy who loves you will do a lot more than you think, and will take the girl's willfulness by nature.

Spoiled into a girl's inherent beauty. That kind of beauty. Only those who love you can see it.

Actually, you don't have to say anything to him. Broke up, things can still be like this, I doubt it, did you have love before?

I think this boy has no brains, and it's okay to break up. Good for you. Don't overthink it.

Love is noble, illusory, and vague. Friend, I hope you will grasp and cherish every true relationship in the future.

Just broke up with my girlfriend last night. I'm feeling very uncomfortable right now. The above is just my personal opinion. Hope it helps you a little.

Before? Well, maybe he has a special complex.

After all, when the forest is big, there are all kinds of birds, and when you meet such a person with a complex, you can only count yourself as RP.

Because the experience is different, the man is different, don't kill a boatload of people with a rod.

can only rely on fate to let you find a suitable one.

It doesn't matter if such a man doesn't be friends, a long-distance relationship is already very troublesome.

I think your first sentence was right, he just didn't take you seriously! You remember, men aren't all like that.

Not all men are like this, this person is a little strange in the world, and he always feels that he is right Even if he is wrong, he does not admit his mistakes Personality problems Thank you.

Don't generalize about all men, he's just special.

Leave him alone, how tired! It's good if you're happy.

I think he made you shake off your mental imbalance.

I can be honest with you, yes.

Men like delicate and effeminate women.

However, the female man is also very good, and she is the flower of Mulan.

Be yourself, don't care about your type, when you meet the type you like, it doesn't matter if you chase after him, even if he likes a delicate woman, as long as you really like him, you can also get a beautiful man.

Lover's first choice. Being a wife is not necessarily.

Each has its own merits, but I prefer the real and quiet ones.

I love women like Mulan!

It's not delicate, but likes gentleness and connotation, 95% of men like gentleness, which can reflect the masculine side of men.

Not necessarily, it depends on what kind of woman the man likes, and everyone likes different types.

Men with flowery hearts prefer this.

Men and women are not the same kind of creatures in this society.

It's a little bit unnoticed, it's all a small thing, it depends on the character and ability.

Maybe the taste is wrong. It should be nothing! Just tolerate it. this society. Everyone has their flaws.

Are Introducers Reliable?

If you can see, then he may be right.

If you are looking for a partner, you must care about your own feelings, after all, it is to decide who will live with you in the future, and they say that you are hypocritical, and you can let them live with that person, right?

This is definitely not your hypocrisy!

Everyone has a bottom line, he tolerates you, it doesn't mean that you can trample on it unscrupulously, just like you said, one day he is fed up and no longer spoils you, and then you won't end well. The man is yours, so don't you add glory to your face by saving him face and respecting him? Love is mutual, and unequal love mostly doesn't end well.

There are some questions that you don't really need to think about so much....Hesitating and thinking too much is too much....Philistines disturb themselves....All you have to do is continue to be happy....Stay happy.

Maybe you're just afraid that he won't be so good to you after marriage, and you're not used to it, and the two of them are good to each other when they are together, not one person is unilaterally good to another.

You guessed it. He will definitely not do this to you after getting married. For men, a married woman is like a fish caught, there is no need to serve like this, and the sins suffered before marriage will definitely be made up for after marriage.

You don't want to think about it, if he still treats you like this after marriage, isn't he sick? Why is he used to you? Isn't it? Such a man had no choice but to fly quickly

Rest assured! No, a man's decision to marry a woman means that he is fully psychologically prepared, how is it now, and it will be in the future! Unless he's trying to do otherwise!

Can't you change it? It's selfish.

Don't worry about what didn't happen.

You don't know his character. Character determines a person's life.

Every man is like that, unless he doesn't get married.

No, if you're not good, will you marry him?

A bloody man is regardless of age A man has a heroic spirit to protect women in his bones Like you said He always wants to be noticed by others Don't be cared for by others It's a bit overturned He is not enough for a man with a small belly If you need to be with him urgently, you don't feel safe Or persuade you to fly him.

Hehe is a bit hypocritical, a big man talks about this little thing, so if there is really a big thing, then what will he do?

Hahaha, it's clear that the boy has a delicate mind....Don't care, if you don't like it, show your attitude, so as not to annoy you when he gets entangled.

A guy is not a man yet: as long as you like him. His shortcomings will also be pleasing to the eye.

He's very pessimistic, and you won't be happy with this kind of person.

It's no problem, the personality is different, the same thing is naturally different, he is a little hypocritical as a man, and his advantages are detail-oriented.

Strange man. It's okay to give up.

It's really not to the point of divorce.

It is not easy for a man with such conditions and a standard of living like yours to meet in a place like Shanghai.

Not to mention that after you get divorced, it will be difficult to find the same conditions, let alone find a better chance.

Since he "didn't fight back before, he actually fought back now", it shows that he used to be very tolerant of you. If you know that you have your own reasons, then look for them in yourself.

Laundry, cooking, and cleaning the room are contracted by you voluntarily, since you are voluntary, don't complain, so as to bring out the emotions, otherwise, the direct "victim" brought out is him, and he will naturally feel annoyed after a long time.

With your standard of living, and you don't have any burden, you can occasionally hire hourly workers to clean up and so on, and free yourself from it. A little more time and energy to take care of yourself, he is not romantic with you, you can be romantic with him, of course, the expenses must be moderate, otherwise your husband's thrifty personality will probably backfire.

Let's talk about it one by one:

1. Although he attaches great importance to money and lives frugally, doesn't he treat himself specially, thrift is still for his family in the final analysis, and such a man is much better than a man who is only willing to spend money for himself.

2. His attitude towards your in-laws and your in-laws' attitude towards you are not the most important, they can be changed, your husband is not polite to them, but you have more room to play, making yourself more sensible and virtuous.

3. As for not caring about you, men are careless, what you need him to do, or what you want him to do, you can tell him clearly, but you have to talk about skills to be calm, otherwise, he doesn't feel that he has done a good job at all. Since it is understandable that I can't come to see you often because I am on a business trip, do you want your man to take a leave of absence at work because of his wife's miscarriage? The care of your mother-in-law's family is always only superficial, as long as the two of you are doing well, what can they do if they don't do these superficial efforts.

4. This is actually intolerable to most women, but don't you know him very well, what woman would really throw herself into her arms for such a "stingy" man, at most ambiguous. Instead of single-mindedly defending, it is better to improve your charm and direct his eyes and energy to yourself. When it's time to have a baby, let it be, maybe the arrival of the baby will completely change his values, and there is no man who doesn't spoil his child after becoming a father.

Isn't loving your children the same as loving you and loving your home?

5. There are no other problems, your relationship is good, his life is full, and he naturally has no energy and time to look at those **. It is precisely because of too much attention on these ** that he is more and more interested in you, so let's lure him away from these things little by little.

An analysis of the issues you have listed is as follows:

1, since you are in love with each other to getting married, you should know what flaws he has in dealing with feelings, and since you can accept and come together, you must understand and slowly help him improve, you say that he is selfish and stingy, so have you ever thought that he is used to this, from this question it can be seen that you lack sincere communication, and do not know and understand each other, so you always think about problems from your own point of view;

2, from your attitude towards his usual life, your mind is still very immature, there are so many entanglements in his heart, you don't help, you don't resolve, you don't understand, and you always think that your ears should be pure, you live together, don't just consider your own feelings, his mother has never disliked you, it means that he loves you very much and doesn't allow others to talk about you, this is actually his attitude, he always wants to get used to you;

3, you always think about your own feelings This is too selfish, you must know that maybe your husband's heart is more sad, and he still has to support to make money, you just need to lie down and recuperate, try to ask who is more stressed;

4. You think too much about yourself, and almost never consider his inner feelings, and he cares too much about you so he is always disappointed, and in the long run he will dislike you;

5. You never think about whether you are wrong or not, you are always looking for his fault, since you are willing to walk together, don't be too picky.

To sum up, your husband actually loves you very much and cares about you, and you don't actually love him, so you don't have a good word, no matter what, you made your own decision to live with him, and the decision about the happiness of your life is your own decision, and now you always talk about the other party's fault, in fact, are you better than him? It's very good not to dislike each other in your current marriage, besides, your husband and you are together alone, and he has never been under pressure and has never received your help, which means that he loves you very much and doesn't want you to suffer, you are content, otherwise there will be regrets

The first thing to be sure of is that the landlord is a good woman. Secondly, there is a little bit of a problem in your marriage, but I don't think it will rise to the point where you have to break up and divorce.

Aside from the rest, the most powerful thing about a woman is her heart, and if a man only loves a woman's appearance, it will definitely be unreliable. So don't worry about anything else!

I hope that the landlord can sit down, tell your husband what you really think, tell him your true feelings, don't be very impulsive, pay attention to the way of talking, tell you that you love him, love this family, and face whatever you have problems.

Two people go out together to relax, the love of two people is bank deposits, save more and take care of more, "wealth" can come, I hope the landlord can be happy forever, bless you!

Check it out a little while and hope to get good news from you!

The business of your parents-in-law is not important, and you don't live with them.

The key is your husband, his version of Huaxin is a big problem.

right, and beating people will never be tolerated.

If he is really willing to change, continue to live well with him, otherwise you can choose to divorce. It is advisable not to have children for the time being.

Your happiness is in your own hands, the result of your own choice, not given by others. Be responsible for your own happiness! Be brave enough to say no to unbearable living conditions! The most painful thing is not the tragic encounters, but the "acquiescence" to those encounters.

Forget about this kind of person, if you don't have children, let's separate! Otherwise, you will be like this for the rest of your life, and a woman can't marry badly if she doesn't marry.

First of all, this is a matter of two people, a hundred years of cultivation in the same boat, and a thousand years of cultivation sleeping together. Divorce is not necessary. I think you should correct yourself, don't keep arguing with others, be generous, you can hold a good-tempered person and provoke you, you can do it enough.

If you say he doesn't understand romance, then you can knock on the side, or just say that there is something you two can't say. Such a man can be converted, if you find someone who spends money very well, it is estimated that you have said that people are too good at spending money, as for the affairs of people and your parents-in-law, you don't care so much, you think about finding a suitable opportunity to persuade him, I don't want you to leave it alone. The miscarriage, they can understand that, they think they resent you, but it is understandable, but they are really a little too much, but if you want to live, be generous, you want to divorce with this, I have nothing to say.

You change yourself first, and also communicate with him, you are so old, it is not very easy for you to divorce and want to get married, I think the main problem is your lack of communication.

When you have a child at the age of 30, the problem is actually a bit dangerous, the best age is 25---26, as for your family problems!! My personal opinion is, let's try it. Discuss it with your family, ask for advice, and if it really doesn't work, leave it!! First, though, there are two points!!

First, there is always a difference between the reality and the future of your vision!!

Second, whose hands is the money saved by your husband!! How to divide the property after divorce???

Also, is your husband **? Don't ??? if you have a wife Even if you ask you to help you with the plane!!