Is such a man stingy or incompetent?

Such a person is not a little ambitious, and it will be very hard to be with such a person (I personally think). A person who is not enterprising has no economic income, so that his own money will gradually become stingy, if he has money, he will be very generous. Sometimes you have to be a little more restrained in your shopping, you have to buy only when you feel the need, and don't waste it, so that your boyfriend will seem stingy.

But I think you have to be realistic. Since neither of you can get along well together, let alone in the future!!

You can look at such a man, it really makes me laugh.

Hehe, let him goSuch a man can't have it1. No dedication 2. No enterprising heart.

3. Dishonoring the elderly...I think my wife spent all the money in the family to honor the elderly, and I have no opinion...But that's also impossible.

All happiness is based on the economy, and without this, you are destined to disperse.

The key is your own opinion!

He doesn't deserve to be loved by someone as good as you.

I just want to tell you, you two words, just give up!

I don't know what is in him that attracts you and makes you fall in love with him, since you have been together for a long time, you should talk to him well, take out the problems between you and make it clear, life is realistic, if it goes on like this, you will collapse, he is stingy and incompetent, whether he is stingy or incompetent, it was your choice at the beginning, give him another chance to change.

Yes, this kind of boyfriend should have been dumped earlier! There's nothing to be nostalgic about, marriage is a lifelong thing, and now finding a partner is also an investment, and you have to look at it!

Stinginess plus incompetence plus lack of progress.

Seeing that you say that he is useless, then I don't understand why you are with him. If you chose him because you didn't understand and went astray, then you should be sober now, aren't you still married, then leave him quickly, a person who doesn't want to make progress is hopeless, whether male or female, so you quickly tear off your arms and run, it's too late to run!

If you don't have money, it's understandable, so you're afraid, and if you don't have money, you can't make money.

Stingy men can't get married, why is that?

A man who is not willing to spend money for you in a marriage in love will not necessarily love you, and if he loves you, how can he make you feel wronged. Love is inherently selfless, and it cannot be compared with money.

Marriage is "firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea", and if you are too wronged on the issue of money, it will also cause many conflicts between husband and wife. Marrying this kind of slamming man, even if you have your ability, you have your independent economy, and you are qualified to live a decent, comfortable and happy life, he will lead you to a life where you have wronged yourself and make you pay for his selfishness. Not to mention that you are still a housewife who is incapable and has no independent economy.

After the man who picks the door gets married, he will just treat his wife as a free full-time free nanny who does his own laundry and cooking. In real life, if two people have different consumption concepts, whether they are in love or marriage, there will be a lot of contradictions, and the contradictions will affect married life.

After getting married, if a man is also picky of his wife and is not willing to spend money, he does not love his wife and does not take his wife to heart, and he should marry cautiously in this situation. Some men are very generous to outsiders, and often become fat for the sake of their own face. is very picky of his wife, reluctant to buy a piece of clothing, reluctant to buy cosmetics, let alone other daily necessities.

Some people may be mean to their lives, but they are still more generous to their lovers. Of course, there are some men who are also very generous to themselves, but they are quite stingy with their lovers. For marrying a stingy man, there is really no way to continue to live with him, because there are some small things that can make him nag himself for a long time, and he can make you angry and tell himself a lot of truth about small things.

In fact, many people really can't accept this kind of life, but because they are married, they have to endure it, which is not a good habit.

Because such a man is very small-minded, and he is not willing to spend money, he will be very critical of his wife, and he will not have a good development prospect.

Because such a man picks the door, such a man is reluctant to spend money, and after marrying him, his life will be a mess.

Marrying such a boy will make your marriage very bad, and at the same time, it will make you feel very wronged in your heart.

If a stingy man is stingy, then his vision is shorter, so he will not make a big difference when he does things, it is normal that if he dares to do anything with his vision, he will only stay on the surface and not go deep into the real practical problems, so if his vision is short, he will not do much, and now there are many people who are small men, so we all think that they will not have too much, that's it, I used to have a classmate who was relatively stingy, and now he has not done anything.

A stingy man is short-sighted, has no vision, only sees immediate interests, and cannot see long-term interests, how can such a person still have a sense of the overall situation, and he will not be able to do anything. This is the law of nature.

It's not that stingy men won't make great achievements, it's because stingy people aren't broad-minded enough, and it's easy to be timid when doing things, and if they can't put in all of them, it's naturally difficult to succeed, but stinginess is sometimes also good for people, so it can't be generalized.

If the mood is not wide and the pattern is not large, there will naturally be no great achievements.

A person's pattern often has a far-reaching impact on the future, because there is his thinking about the world and his own thoughts on his own life.

And people with a small pattern, they are a bit like frogs at the bottom of a well, with narrow vision, they don't think deeply about everything, they don't live thoroughly, and life is naturally bumpy and infinite.

Because stingy men have a small pattern, they put all the focus and attention on small things, and they don't have the thinking of doing big things in a big way, so they will naturally not make a big difference.

A person's pattern is a necessary condition for whether he can do great things. Whether it is at the moment or in history, the person who can enter and exit the phase and reach the peak cannot be the kind of person with a small belly.

If a person wants to win, first of all, you have to learn to give, and if you don't give up, you will gain. Stingy people will not give up, and they are reluctant to give up, so they are destined to get nothing.

What is the biggest characteristic of a stingy man, he remembers the little things, but he will not remember the big principles, in his eyes, sesame mung beans are big things, but he will give up watermelon, how can you achieve a big cause.

One of the main reasons is that because such a man pattern is very small, I think it is very stingy, so the feeling I give to others is also very small, so it will make others look down on me, so there will be no big achievements.

Stingy men are usually forward-looking, shallow-sighted, and always afraid of failure, so they don't dare to invest in any business. Generally, such people are more responsible and live a more down-to-earth life, but they will not have a lot of money.

Because stingy men always suffer from gains and losses when doing things, lack of courage, and lack of courage, it is naturally difficult to have much success.

If you don't know how to give up, just blindly taking, it will only limit your circle. In this life, you will only do nothing.

Let's see what kind of stinginess. Many self-made rich people are also very picky, they are poor, and they have been picking on the door all their lives.

That's definitely because of him. If you are stingy, you will go back, small things, don't you have a big picture?

Because he is narrow-minded, he can't tolerate big things, and he is always timid in doing things.

Because the pattern is too small to make a big climate.

One of them is that they don't love you. It's not clear enough to behave in the world. Either like to calculate each other.