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Maybe your family background is too good, and your parents are too good to you, so you are more self-centered.
When getting along with others, the most important thing is to genuinely care about others and consider problems from the other person's point of view, so as to understand what he really needs.
If you always think about yourself, don't know how to care about others, and don't know what others want, then it will be difficult to really get the approval of others.
Doing business is a comprehensive science. And it's basically a science of understanding people. Many people are interested in doing business with you because they have taken a fancy to you and recognized this person. So you have to learn how to understand people.
Start with the people around you, get to know them, care about them, and think more from their point of view. Also look at books about the human psyche. For example, Liu Yong's book, Carnegie's book. Study well, feel well.
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Making friends is easy!
You don't treat this problem as a very serious problem, no matter what you do, be generous, don't treat the person you want to be friends with as an outsider, don't care too much about money, talk and do things, be the main one, but don't be too extreme!
This way others will notice you and respect you.
Naturally, there will be friends.
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In fact, you should go out and contact with all kinds of people! You can learn a lot from it! If you see more and experience more, you will be able to distinguish between what is good and what is bad!
You're still young and don't have a lot of friends, so if you go to more activities, you'll be able to reach out to different people! Brother, try hard, you will be able to do it.
Read more books, that's what will help you! In terms of sales, management, interpersonal communication, and other books, they are all good, go and see, and learn more.
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Don't talk always, it's much better.
Sometimes being sincere or being friendly with others does not gain the approval of others.
Since you say you've never been good at making friends, you should think carefully about what the problem is.
Start with your own actions.
For example, do you have any bad habits, small actions, eating things that other people don't like, doing things that other people really hate?
It is also possible that you have not met someone who can be like-minded with you (so it is purely a self-consoling idea, a person should be accompanied by friends and lovers in life, so that life is full and fulfilling).
Positive life, buddy!!
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You don't know how to make friends, do you? Then you stay with people who love to talk and laugh, so that you are friendly, you can observe how others make friends, since you are a person who loves to talk and laugh, then how can you not have friends, it must be that you don't pay attention to what you say, you can pay attention to other people's language in the future, sometimes you don't know what you say wrong, but you have offended people, but you don't know, you can try to change the way you speak, maybe it will be useful.
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Take the initiative to chat with friends if you have nothing to do, treat everyone as your own [friends, let them see your sincerity, in addition, don't care too much about what others say, after all, everyone has their own way of life, so everyone's understanding of things is also different, open your heart, show your kindness to others, let them see your sincerity, don't backfire, build self-confidence for yourself, believe that you can do a good job in interpersonal relationships, come on.
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I'm not very good at making friends, I always feel that others are hypocritical, to change the status quo, you have to change jobs often, contact strangers more, feel how to get along with different people, if you don't succeed once, just try me a few times, if you want to make friends, you have to think about caring about the current situation of others (I'm a girl, I don't know if it's okay to do this between boys) Making friends is also learning, first change your mentality, you must make friends in society to live a fulfilling life.
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Take the initiative to chat with friends and read more books.
Maybe you have some problems with your personality, so look for the reason from this aspect.
In fact, what to say about making friends now is all nonsense
A lot of times, you can't make friends who are treated sincerely.
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Psychologically, you have to get in touch with your friends more and do your best to help them if there is anything.
Let them approve of you in their hearts. Open up to yourself ... Exchange your sincerity for others' sincerity and sincerity to you.
To live for others ...
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In addition to emotional investment, making friends also requires some financial investment. Be helpful. Willing, willing, giving will be gained.
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What do you mean by making friends!!
Throw away all those garbage friends, absolutely yes!
Try to pay some Anfen!
Lies are never allowed in dating!
Help each other win each other's favor!
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Try to be in contact with people as much as possible.
It would be nice to have more contact.
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If you want to change, learn more from your seniors!
Be bold.
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Sincerely, you can generally make friends.
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I don't make friends either, so let's let it be!
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You must have your own specialty, if you don't know what you like, you are at a loss, then be a curious baby, as long as you don't know, go to contact and learn, you will always find a one you love. When you don't know what to talk to someone about, take the initiative to find out what other person's interests and hobbies they have, and actively join their conversation circle. Cultivate more hobbies, and there will be more people who have a common language and common interests.
After a long time, it is natural to be able to become friends. The second point is to use your spare time to study, enroll in some part-time classes, and grow together with others. It not only enriched the level of my own channels for making friends, but also made good friends.
When everyone learns together, no matter what the learning content is, there are many people in a class, and they will always find one who has a common language and then develop into friends. Third, participate in more activities that you are good at or like to expand your circle of friends. For example, dinners, etc.
But it should be noted that if you have more contact with people, you must distinguish who you are dating and be cautious about making friends.
Maybe your living environment and work environment cause your personality to be introverted, if you want to make more friends is not difficult, first of all, you have to have a good heart, no matter what kind of personality people will have friends, to be good at chatting with classmates or colleagues, to find a common topic, can not only care about their own feelings or not emotional interest, to often contact friends, making friends is not a matter of a day or two, so the road to know the horsepower is long to see people's hearts, if others do not put you in their hearts then you do not need to be a friend of him, remember not wishful thinking, Only you know who can be friends with you, it depends on how you protect your friendship, remember to be sincere!
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