What should I do if I can t make friends if I am withdrawn?

Similar to me, but I'm definitely better than you. It's not a matter of complementing each other's personalities. Instead, you need to slowly try to change, try to take the initiative to communicate with others, or participate in some activities, and slowly contact and communicate.

There will always be some friends who are better at you, so try to communicate with your friends first.

Personality is difficult to change, and it takes a lot of motivation to change, plus long-term subtlety. It depends on what kind of motivation can support you to change, such as finding a boyfriend, the boy is more cheerful, and then slowly change under his influence. It's a pretty romantic approach.

Hehe.. Or life compels you to go out and socialize. Or force yourself to change for the sake of your own goals.

Or go to something that specializes in teaching people to communicate... There are many methods, mainly to see whether you have the courage to take the first step and whether you have the perseverance to persevere.

In fact, as long as you take the first step, it is good to take it slowly. For example, when doing some publicity and promotion work, you may feel nervous talking to strangers on the first day, and then you will slowly feel that you can talk endlessly in a day or two. In fact, that's it.,As long as you take action and do it yourself.,Then you'll feel like it's actually quite simple.。。

Seeing that I type so many words, you know that I am sincere to help you, so you should choose me. Hehe.. I'm also an introvert.

I've also had your situation, I'm not handsome at all, and I'm a public face. I had low self-esteem before high school, why were other boys so handsome? I kept feeling inferior and withdrawn.

At the same time, I also looked for some knowledge to make me sunny, and slowly I found that there are many people who look very ordinary, or have some flaws in their appearance, and still live a chic life. In the end, I know that they all have a passionate heart for life and are sincere to those around them. Obama said this:

If you are abandoned by everyone, the only thing you can do is not give up on yourself! Everyone has a trough, all we can do is not give up on ourselves, go on strongly, and maybe we will get out of the trough tomorrow.

A person who is successful, complete, and happy must be introverted first and foremost! From the heart, the real strength of the individual is established from the book, and the inner strength is the real power, which is the aorta, so successful people and people with mental health will read books, and as for extroverts and friends, they are capillaries. An extrovert who has no heart is also useless!

You are an introvert, but your heart is not rich, your heart is full, strong, and then you go to make friends, and you are not afraid of setbacks!

Try to be part of the group, and don't be alone all the time, otherwise you will only get more and more lonely. There are always friends in life who can get along with you, and don't always deny yourself, but build self-confidence for yourself.

The withdrawn personality is because of too little courage, but I have a way, that is, drinking, no matter how withdrawn the person who has drunk, you can come and kill me... I've never seen anyone who drinks so withdrawn... Believe what I say and give me extra points.

You can try to deal with people more, participate in group activities more, take the initiative to talk to others, and feel the joy of making friends, so you will naturally be willing to talk more.

Talk to strangers more, be generous, and have courage when you see guys! Go out with friends and socialize.

Things gather like people, people are grouped, you haven't found your own circle, and it's hard to find a bosom friend.

Start by building a good relationship with the girls around you.

Don't deliberately change anything, little by little.

Summary. I understand how you're feeling right now. Withdrawn personality, don't want to socialize, don't you deserve to have no friends.

But don't socialize, where do you get friends. I'm also introverted. In terms of speaking, it is enough to be able to communicate on a daily basis, and it is not necessary to say so much and what you don't have.

Withdrawn personality.,Don't want to socialize.,You deserve to have no friends.。

Dear, hello, I am a cooperative emotional counselor who has been engaged in the emotional counseling industry for 8 years, and I am thinking about the questions you raised, and I will be there for you immediately, in order to better your situation, please add your specific situation.

I understand how you're feeling right now. Withdrawn personality, don't want to socialize, don't you deserve to have no friends. But don't socialize, where do you get friends.

I'm also introverted. In terms of speaking, it is enough to be able to communicate on a daily basis, and it is not necessary to say so much and what you don't have. Everyone has their own advantages, so you should look at your own strengths, discover what you like, cultivate them into hobbies, enrich your heart, and live well even if you don't have friends.

But when I met a friend, the friend suddenly became very indifferent to himself, and he was indifferent for no reason, which made him very frustrated.

I understand how you're feeling right now.

Keep up the good work.