What should children do if they yell at their parents and are disrespectful?

Children should be made aware that this is not right, and children should respect their parents, so that children can become better.

Parents should communicate well with their children, instill the correct three views in their children, give their children the right guidance, and tell their children that they should not do this to their parents, which will make others laugh.

Parents want to express their dissatisfaction, refuse to help him when he needs help, and offer to see what the child can do if he is angry.

I just saw an article that said: Parents can yell and scold their children. The reason is that sometimes the child is still disobedient after saying it once or even several times, and at this time the parents can only solve it by yelling and scolding the child. He also said that it is necessary to separate behavior from love, and to let the child understand it when using it.

I don't agree with this point of view, and I still insist that parents should not yell and scold their children.

Let's start with the child's performance when the parents yell, the child will immediately shrink into a ball when the parents yell, and of course his whole emotion is also tense! Think about it, what if it was like this for a long time? In the long run, children will have difficulty concentrating, being timid, and ingratiating.

Do you want your child to have these traits?

Besides, the child has been said many times not to listen, parents can choose to yell this point of view, yes, the child is, and into the stubborn sensitive period often has you said many times that he does not listen, at this time you choose to yell may have consequences in a short time, such as: the child immediately stop the current naughty situation, however, the child's mind will be hurt, will immediately enter a frozen state, which is also the reason why he immediately stopped the mischievous situation. I think what we need to do when the child has this situation is to find a solution calmly, not to yell directly.

Speaking of scolding, this is more than yelling, scolding itself represents disrespect and non-acceptance of children, which is also an important reason why parents want to grow together with their children, and it is no longer the stage of parents who are everywhere in the world before. If you scold your child, the child will not feel your equal treatment and respect for him! This is one of them.

Second, children's hearts will be very hurt, to understand the psychological suggestive effect of language, to remember that parents' language determines the child's future! What we need to do is to grow up with the child's thinking, strive to learn to understand the characteristics of the child's key sensitive periods, and deal with the child's various naughty behaviors in a targeted manner! Remember to always remember to be patient, the more patience you have with your child, the more your child will grow up to be more of himself!

Besides, I agree with the idea of separating love from behavior, yes, if we accidentally don't control ourselves and yell at the child, we must remedy it in time and tell the child that I am angry that you just said that you have not been assigned to rotate many times, not that I don't love you anymore. Let your child understand that yelling at him and loving him are two different things, and at the same time, you should sincerely apologize to your child for yelling. Let children understand that everyone has emotions, and that emotions are not good or bad, they are all the power of growth!

The above is my point of view about the person who can yell at the child, and it is simply summarized as one point: it is best not to yell at the child, and if you accidentally yell, you must remedy it in time, so that the child understands that it is his behavior that we are angry about, and it does not affect his love. Scolding a child is absolutely unacceptable, and it is the unequal treatment and disrespect of the child.

Welcome to discuss together, let's become the best parents on the road to raising a baby, and achieve a better self!

Can parents yell at their children?I think so. Many people on the Internet say that parents should not yell at their children, parents must know how to control their emotions, otherwise they will ruin their children, and some people even say that parents' good emotions are the best feng shui for children's growth.

In fact, this is a wrong view, they attribute the yelling and scolding of their parents to the fact that they do not know how to control their emotions. Usually when parents talk to their children in a good voice, do children listen?No.

Many times we only see the parents yelling and scolding, but we don't see the parents patiently talking to the children countless times, the children are still disobedient, and the parents have to do it.

We must always remember that there are no ruthless parents in the world, only disobedient children at the moment. From the perspective of emotion itself, it is an innate psychological manifestation of our human beings, there is no good and no absolute bad, any emotion has a positive side and a negative side.

For example, anger, whether you think it is good or bad, many people say it is bad, then I ask you what kind of people in society are easy to be bullied, those who dare not lose their temper. Bullies are often bullies who are afraid of the hard, and those who have a temper dare to vent their emotions after being bullied, and the bullies will be discouraged, so you see that bad emotions also have a positive side.

When a child makes a mistake, parents are angry and lose their temper, or even yell, so that the child will realize that he has made a serious mistake. Let many people say that parents yelling and scolding will make children feel inferior and cowardly, but in fact, as long as the mother says a word more, there will be no such consequences.

When the mood is eased, we can give the child a psychological counseling: Mom and Dad just don't like what you just did, but they will always love you.

Separate behavior from love, on the one hand, let the child fully realize that his parents yelling at him are not not not not not loving him, so that the child's sense of security will not be missing, and secondly, let the child realize the severity of his wrong behavior, so that he will correct it next time.

That's why we often say that there are no wrong parents, no wrong children, only the wrong way.