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It would be better to deal with the problem sensibly, 6 years, what is it like for you to be together, I believe you should know each other very well, two people are together when they have feelings, and it is normal to separate when they don't feel it, don't you still want to tie her to you if you don't have feelings? What is the original purpose of your being together, is to give happiness to both parties, let alone 6 years, even if it is ten years, you can't give her what she wants when she is by your side, she is not happy or unhappy, is this what you want to see? You have been together for 6 years, and in these 6 years, do you dare to say that she has not loved you?
Don't always blame love, sometimes think about your own situation, and don't give hope for love. If you eat sand when you eat, are you not eating anymore? I think that in 6 years, I thought you would have a deeper understanding and understanding of love, and since you can still have such thoughts after breaking up, this kind of behavior is really sad.
What you should feel is more happiness, why is it painful, you should be grateful to her for being able to accompany you through the 6 years of this life, and can bring you 6 years of happiness and thoughts, not because of the breakup everything is gone, except for complaining and pain, you can look back and think quietly, in fact, you have earned it, and those who are content are always happy. Don't make a conclusion about the essence because of some unpleasant things, you should think about how to go next when you break up, men are ambitious, there are still many things waiting for you to do, your footsteps should not just stay here, the road ahead is very long, and there will be many people who pass by you, thank you for the person who has been with you for 6 years, and remember her every day and night in the 6 years.
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First of all, I think I can understand your feelings now, because I have just fallen out of love, and it is also my first love, but we are only two years old, and I also feel the same way as you, as for being a soldier, I think you are avoiding the problem, if you really want to be a soldier, I support you, if it is just to relieve the pain now, I think you should think about it again, after all, being a soldier is not a way to come back.
Now the benefits of being a soldier:
After being discharged from the army, is there a lot of settling-in allowance, and what housing subsidies are there, but the benefits in different regions are also different.
In recent years, the General Headquarters of the Central Military Commission has attached great importance to the work of salaries and benefits for servicemen, and has carried out a series of readjustments and reforms, and there is hope for a considerable increase in the wages and benefits of servicemen.
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It's a pity, but it's better to face the new life as soon as possible, it's already your habit, since it's impossible, then start learning to quit the habit.
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Love is not there, friendship is there, sit up and believe that you will meet better.
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broke up with your first love of 10 years, if you meet him in the future, it means that you still have fate.
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Wang Chenyi. Wang Chenyi is now due to personal reasons, and then he withdrew from the creation of He Zhiying. Because of this incident, it is a pity that the fans and the official of the creation camp will not be able to see Wang Chennian or art in the creation camp in the future.
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Ji Dongjie is a very good person, I didn't expect to withdraw because of this problem, and his relationship with his girlfriend must be very close.
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He is Yang Zongwei, such a result is also quite shocking, and it also makes people very sympathetic, I hope he can come out of the shadows as soon as possible.
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This person is Sun Nan, who announced his breakup with his first love for ten years, his wife Maimaiqing is his first love, the two of them belong to a flash marriage, but because he has a third party, he broke up with his original partner, and then in the state of live broadcast on the singer's stage, he suddenly announced that he would retire from the competition, this person is Sun Nan.
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broke up with his first love of ten years, and suddenly announced his retirement on the stage, which is surprising, this person is Man Wenjun.
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As the saying goes: the predecessors planted trees and the later people enjoyed the shade. The same is true for love marriages!
Both men and women hope to be married forever with their first love, but the fact is the opposite, the success rate of first love is very low! He [she] is just a short-term companion on the road of our mutual growth! Although in the end, they all broke up gloomily because of some inconsequential things!
But that unforgettable feeling, whether sweet or painful, will be treasured in the darkest and softest place in the bottom of our hearts and accompany us for a lifetime! This is enough to make us happy and grateful, this life has not been in vain in the afterlife!
If it's really fate in the dark, after a short parting, suddenly look back, maybe that person is waiting for you in the dim light! If it is really the end of the song, people are scattered, and it is difficult to collect the water, and the matter has come to this point, bless each other! There is still a long way to go in life, cherish that beauty, accept the lesson, and go all the way!
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In this way, in his heart, he doesn't want to break up with you and doesn't want to break up with you.
You yourself know where your share comes from, so why wait 3-5 years?
Why not be brave and bow your head like him?
Love is maintained by two people. It doesn't depend on one person's dedication and management.
Now that you know the source, I hope you don't wait so late.
Grab your own happiness. ,
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Friend: Please don't blame me for being cruel, first love can only be regarded as a childhood game! The percentage of success is much lower than the rate of non-success.
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I've been in love for 5 years, and I'm still together, I didn't know how to love at first, I'm a hedgehog like you, and then I've slowly changed myself. If your boyfriend doesn't love you, there's no way he'll put up with you for 5 years. We've also almost broken up a few times, but we've all worked together because of love.
Feelings need to be paid, and you have to change for him. What's more, he still has to bear the pressure from his family, no matter how much you hurt him, he will definitely collapse, who doesn't want to find someone who is good to him? I think if you still want to be with him, you should change for him, then I believe you can definitely be together again; If you don't want to be with him, you have to change from now on for the next one; Otherwise, you will be lonely for the rest of your life, or find someone who doesn't love you very much.
Maybe I'm putting it a little heavier. I wish you happiness from the bottom of my heart.
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There is no perfect love, the characters in each other in love will be presented, often this aspect will be the fuse of the breakup, the man is more tolerant, the woman is more transposition, all problems are not a problem, if the problem cannot be solved, it can only be said that neither party on either side is determined to change, if it has been like this, it is only a matter of time before the breakup is carried out. You're a girl, say something you shouldn't say, women are often very emotional, and they will get mad when they get angry, you've been around for 6 years, if you ask me what the reason is, is it that the future RV is not guaranteed, not that he doesn't love you and tolerates you, if so, I will think you're too realistic.
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His family is like this, even if you get married in the end, you won't be happy, his parents said that he didn't speak for you, many things are now at this point, both parties are responsible, break up, break up, anyway, it's still young, love is not all.
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I support you, I think as long as you can pull out your own thorns, and seriously go to his parents and tell his parents that there is nothing wrong with treating his parents as your own parents, don't break up at every turn, because we are still young, we also have to learn to persevere.
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What you say is very unrealistic. If you really want to be with him, you have to face his family and influence his family.
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After reading your story, I am reminded of a lot, and it used to be like this.
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If I don't let go, you'll blame me for hating me or being moved for many years...
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Understand, understand, I'm a year longer than you!. Time has passed, and you will understand. It's going to be fine.
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I was together for seven years and broke up. Later, I met a lot of people, met a lot of relationships, and grew up slowly, but fortunately, I later found out that it was just companionship and not love, but because I was still young, I finally found my love.
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When I can really be a qualified wife, will he still accept me? Even if you ask him, he won't be able to answer this question. Only when you actually do it will the mystery be revealed.
Instead of spending so much time dwelling on useless issues, think about how you can make yourself better!
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Waiting, but also a kind of happiness!!
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If you really love him, you must learn to change for him.
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Not all first loves end in a breakup.
It depends on whether you met the right person during the time period of your first love.
It's just that the thoughts of the first love will be different from the thoughts of people who have gone through a certain emotional experience.
People who fall in love for the first time imagine that everything is beautiful. But life is realistic after all.
My first love has lasted until now, and I can't completely guarantee what our future path will be, but I clearly know that we are on a good relationship and love each other now.
Therefore, it is not certain that a certain relationship is very beautiful. It depends on whether your fate has come and whether you have met your one at some stage. Realistic getting along is the most important thing. Don't pay too much attention to theoretical points, and measure it more accurately with actual situations.
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First love is the first time everyone tries to fall in love, of course, there is no experience in this area, and they don't know each other very well, many times they don't know much about romance, and they don't know how to love each other, and at that time, they were young and didn't know many things
The success rate is also relatively low, but it is really memorable
However, you must understand that falling in love, no matter how many times, is a process of understanding each other, not the result of feelings, as long as it is not suitable, you can break up at any time! No one stipulates that whether it is suitable or not, if you fall in love, you must succeed!
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Therefore, the favorite may not be the best, and the best may not be able to be old until the old, but until the old, you have to thank her, after all, only she has always been there, and everyone else is unwilling
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⊙o⊙)?How old are you? Sixteen?
You know, on the road of life, there is nothing to think of, jujube people go to high places and water flows to low places, if it is not suitable, it is not suitable, it is not good for anyone, this kind of thing is emotional, it is better to go with the flow, and give up if you work hard without accompanying it. We are all outsiders, this kind of thing, although it is said that it is a bystander, but the party is the one who knows your problem best, if you think it is not good, then it will not work, the matter of the two Luyan stalls, what is the use of unilateral efforts?
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Couples are afraid that there will be nothing to say Originally, a student, a job, and two people are exposed to different fields, so a lot of stupid people will have different ideas Not to mention what she said about being friends is the meaning of breaking up If it is not for those two people to find more interests together So that there will be no words to say Luo.
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QQ won't help you.
You can't be together anymore, a lot of things will change, you've been at one time, you've broken up.
She reads, you work, and lives in two different worlds.
She doesn't want you to break up and cause you harm, to be friends, to be friends with each other, this friend will never be together.
If you come back together, her parents don't like you either, the problem of academic qualifications is really. Chain Mengxiang.
Do both fathers and mothers like it? One of them doesn't like it, and you're all together on a blank slate.
It's still completely clean, and completely be a familiar stranger who has known before.
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First love is always unforgettable, maybe it's no fate.
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Love is warm and romantic, and first love will leave a good feeling. Therefore, in our minds, first love should be the most beautiful and complete state. But the reality of the situation is not necessarily as we hope, and in many cases the first love will end in a breakup.
There are many reasons why this is the case. Specifically, it includes the three aspects of being too young to make the right choice at the time of first love, the fact that the first love focuses on feelings, which leads to the fact that the two parties in the relationship are not suitable in terms of realistic conditions, and the change in personal thinking as they grow older, which eventually affects the relationship.
1. Although the first love is beautiful, because the first love is too young, it is easy to break up because of improper choice.
When I first fell in love, I was not very old. People in this age group don't really grow up in every way, so it's easy to have problems with specific choices. When it comes to love, there will be a first love that is very beautiful, but it may lead to a breakup for one reason or another.
This is one of the reasons why many first loves end in a breakup.
2. First love focuses on feelings, but they may break up because the actual conditions are not suitable.
Love requires not only feelings, but also realistic conditions. Specifically, if two people in a relationship do not match in terms of personal conditions, or if their lives are affected by poor economic conditions, then even if a first love seems extremely beautiful, it will eventually end in a breakup. For first love, only focusing on feelings and not paying attention to the difference in real conditions are the practical reasons that lead to breakups.
3. As you get older, your thoughts change, which can have an impact on your relationship.
As one gets older, one's thoughts change at different times. Although this situation is very normal in the process of growing up, it can have a very big impact on love. ......Specifically, after falling in love, as you grow older, your thoughts may be very different from the beginning of your relationship, and your attitude towards your first love will change, which may eventually lead to a breakup, which is an important reason why many first loves end in a breakup.
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