After six years of relationship, I finally broke up, and I felt very uncomfortable, what should I do

It's right to be very uncomfortable, because you use true feelings. Obviously, he broke into your world first, but when you want to be serious, you choose to leave. And the pain after a breakup is like, I miss you, it's the kind of thinking that texting and calling ** can't solve it, it's the kind of thinking that hugs each other tightly.

No matter what you do, you will think of your ex. It's very uncomfortable and painful. Sunshine is always after a rainstorm, divide it, don't regret it, what you can't do without is "habit", it proves that it's really not very love, or that person is not very right, in fact, falling in love is a thing that requires courage, but breaking up requires more courage.

If you really can't forget, just shift your attention and you can do something you like or work harder, and you'll be much better.

Many things, we will feel heartache, we will feel helpless, just because we can't get it, we are unwilling, isn't it? This is human nature, and there is nothing strange about it. But we must understand that the young us, the temporary loss, is to meet the better.

Feelings are not the whole of human life. We have more meaningful things to do, don't we? We dream of a good life, the ideals of our family, and many more, now that we are young, there are many things that we are far from experiencing, so every loss will be painful, but, there is a saying that God closes a door for you, and He will open a window for you, look more, and you will find a more wonderful world.

Leave everything to time, be unbridled and sad, but believe that time can do everything well! Think about when you were a child, there must have been a toy that you particularly liked, and then suddenly one day it broke, or you don't know when you saw it again in the corner, you will find that you don't like it that much, and that's what time brings us. For example, when we chase dramas, we particularly like a protagonist, whether it's a man or a woman, when we chase it, I feel that it's not good, I think about the plot of the TV series every day, think about the future development route, and indulge in it, but now we look back and think about that TV series, I don't think it will feel anything.

Although this kind of heartache and love-loss heartache cannot be compared, the truth is a truth.

I did like you so much at the time, but who let us meet too soon?

At the beginning, we were all too proud, we loved our own self-esteem more than each other, and we always felt that it was not a big deal to be wrong, after all, there was a long road ahead and there was still a lot of time to waste, and I always felt that I would definitely meet a lot of people I liked.

But when we really left, we realized that liking is never a person's thing.

Six years in love! There must be a deep emotional foundation! Suddenly say to break up?

I don't think it should be sudden, there must have been a foreboding in the early stage, and you didn't pay attention to it. How to accept it? I think you should calm down first and then think about whether to continue the relationship, or choose to give up?

Six years of relationship is not easy, sort out your relationship problems, find the cause of the conflict, and how to change yourself. Then make the other person turn back through their own efforts, and if the two of them are really impossible, then let time dilute everything.

Basically, everyone will experience one or several times, you have to rely on yourself, try to keep yourself busy, you don't have time to think, you are busy and forget, you put all your energy on studying and working, and more with family and friends, and it will be fine after a year or two, and after ten years, everything will be indifferent.

Starting the next relationship again, or cultivating a hobby and interest to divert your attention, these are all very good methods, and I have personally tested and it works.

It's normal to feel uncomfortable to break up, after all, after six years of relationship, how can you have no feelings at all, feeling very uncomfortable means that you once loved each other very much, and this uncomfortable feeling will take a while to slowly fade away**.

Leave everything to time, time is indeed a good medicine, and slowly after a long time, it will fade and forget.

Over time, this feeling will slowly fade! People are emotional animals, they will be very sweet together, they will be very uncomfortable when they break up, and they will slowly forget after having a new love.

You've all been through six years this year, and there's another year like this, which is really sad, so you should adjust your mindset and go outside.

It's normal to feel uncomfortable, after all, after loving for so long, you can go out for a walk.

Six years of love is almost at the end of the seven-year itch. And your boyfriend's performance is actually enough to show that he doesn't love you so much, instead of worrying about whether he doesn't love you anymore, it's better to think about whether this kind of love should continue, how should you deal with this cold violence, and whether you are really willing to leave you. And before making this choice, here are three things you can consider doing:

Returning to their social circle, busy people rarely think about everything, and women who have friends with them don't like to worry about whether their boyfriends like them. Maybe before this, you and your boyfriend were inseparable, eating, sleeping, working and living, but now, immediately, immediately, please return to your circle of friends and get your complete self back. Your world shouldn't revolve around a man, and from your question, you don't see that your boyfriend's world revolves around you.

In short, give yourself more options for companionship, whether it's friends or relatives. Determine your future plan, your relationship is close to the seven-year itch, and your work and life should also be out of immaturity. In this kind of uninsured relationship, is your life and work guaranteed?

What are your plans for the future? Do you want to work or be a housewife later? There are a lot of questions to consider, but the idea that you are stubbornly entangled in whether your boyfriend has ever loved you is actually very naïve.

The most important point is that you are the only one who is struggling, and you are the only one who is troubled. Cultivate your own hobbies and live a fulfilling life, your boyfriend never coaxes you when you quarrel, but you still have been in love for so many years, which proves that you have always bowed your head in this relationship. You should have been pampered by your boyfriend, but you became the most humble one, have you ever wondered why?

The reason is that you have to him, and he, with you or without you is actually not much different. In a situation where this relationship can collapse at any time, and you are tired every time you bow your head, you should try to cultivate your own interests and hobbies to enrich your life. Use your actions to tell your boyfriend that you don't have to him, and if you don't spoil you, you also have the right to find happiness again.

When you have done these three things, you will find that your mind is extremely clear, and you will find that all kinds of questions in life that you have missed are gradually clear, and I believe that your heart will give you the most authentic answer to this question. Finally, I want to say that the world is so big, there is no need to hang yourself from a tree, and women can only become more and more beautiful and happy when they are pampered. If you are always sad and entangled, if it is always you who suffers from gains and losses, even if you are in love, you are still not as comfortable as a single child.

At this time, it is very simple, it means that you are about to break up, because six years of getting along means that you already know each other very well, and now you are not married, everyone is not willing to wait, and you are tired of each other, and breaking up is the most suitable choice for you.

Two people can calm down and discuss the issue of feelings, if two people really have no feelings, I think it is better to choose to break up in time.

Then break up and follow your heart, because you have been together for 6 years and are still quarrelling, then you are not suitable.

I think that when you encounter such a situation, you can have a good chat with your love partner, talk about the thoughts of two people, and if this relationship really can't be maintained, choose to stop the loss in time.

Then break up, you haven't talked about marriage for 6 years together, maybe your relationship has already had problems.

Instead of being painfully together, it is better to end the relationship early, stop the loss in time, and start a new life.

I think it's completely okay to break up, because the more it drags on, the less I have a good impression of the other party, and I feel speechless.

I happened to meet a boyfriend who had been talking about a breakup for six years, and after a year of breakup, he became sloppy, and your heart was very uncomfortable, but you also know that he has his own girlfriend, and it is impossible between you, which means that you are surprised, regretful, and even sympathetic to your ex-boyfriend's current situation, but you should think that he has his own girlfriend to care about, and his current situation has nothing to do with you.

Your heart is uncomfortable, only because you have not completely let go of your feelings for six years, so your heart is uncomfortable only because your feelings will completely forget him.

Don't be sad and sad, the past should forget and let go of this relationship, it has not come to the end, it means that you have no fate, not his real woman, you are just a passerby, maybe you and he only have six years of fate, the original fate of this thing is destined to not be forced, let it be, maybe the next relationship is easier to cultivate than this one, there is a give-and-take, there is no need to be sad, cheer up, live your own wonderful life.

No matter how uncomfortable it is, it's over, since you've broken up, you're bound to have bad memories, although I also want to say let go, although it's useless, but if your discomfort affects your life, it will require you to divert your attention. After all, six years of companionship also have deep memories, and it is not easy to let go. It depends on whether your own mentality can be corrected and when you can be calm.

After all, for myself is a relationship I once had, and I have paid a lot of emotions, and it is indeed sad when I lose it, but for each of us, we have our own empty and lonely side in life, and there are beautiful and painful memories of the past, but what is left to us is more beautiful, but we must analyze these problems objectively and realistically from the perspective of reality, because for these have become the past, and we should cherish what we have now, This is the most correct, in addition to that, it is necessary to adjust your mentality, do not have too many illusions and enrich yourself, do not be too empty and lonely, so that you can do it.

If you feel uncomfortable, it means that you have not completely forgotten him in your heart, and you have not completely let go of it, in fact, some things have passed in the past, and it is useless to think about it, so why let yourself live in pain? You just have no fate, since you broke up, it means that you are not suitable to be together, so it is better to find your own happiness.

Sometimes we have to reconcile with ourselves and let ourselves come out of the feelings of the past, in fact, it is certain that we are uncomfortable, not because of love, nor because we can't let go, but suddenly we meet, and those emotions explode in an instant, making you feel psychologically uncomfortable. Because he is better than you after the breakup, especially your sloppy image, it doesn't feel good.

If you see that your ex-boyfriend who has been broken up for so long is very uncomfortable, then regain your confidence and dress up beautifully to go shopping, eat and watch movies, so that you will forget your troubles.

After all, this has been together for six years, so it's normal to be sad, but since it's been more than a year apart, it's time to let yourself go and start a new life, because he already has a girlfriend, and it's impossible to be between him, so why make yourself sad because of him.

Let go of the discomfort in your heart, listen to some songs that make you more uncomfortable, and let your emotions reach a low point. The reason for doing this is that I believe that there will be a bottom line for everything, and when you reach that bottom line, the next thing is to hit the bottom**. After reaching the worst point, it will only slowly get better, not worse.

What should I do if I happen to meet my boyfriend who has been talking about a breakup for six years? There is no way to control your emotions only by yourself, and you have broken up, and there is nothing to be sad about, so let it pass. Don't try to be brave.

Hello, I hope you are introspective. If you don't have a current incumbent and you love that person very deeply. Then you can catch up and say hello to her, and there is skill in saying hello.

I understand your current mood, it is impossible for a person who has paid for six years to forget and forget, he now has his own life, you have to learn to accept the reality and work hard to live a good life.

Occasionally, I met my boyfriend who had been talking for 6 years, and now I feel very uncomfortable. And he already has a girlfriend, it's no longer possible. In that case, you should learn to let go.

Otherwise, you are torturing yourself. To understand one thing, it is normal for a relationship to fail, and these are all things that we need to go through.

That means that you still love him, you still have him in your heart, if the other party is also single, then you can try to redeem it.