Is there no face after a person dies?

It has nothing to do with ability, this is what love and wu mean. Because your mother's relatives have lived with your mother for a long time and have established a good relationship. As for you, you haven't established much of a family relationship with your mother's relatives.

It's like if you have a very good friend, when your friend is a good friend, you will take care of your friend's friend with enthusiasm, and the reason why you do this is because you look at your friend's face. You won't take care of your friend's friend at all if you don't have it. Got it, the main thing is that you didn't have a good relationship with your mother's relatives while she was still alive.

Before, because your mother was there, people were close to you through your mother. Now you have only yourself, and others are close to you directly through you. Competent, you're right.

People go to tea and cool, but you can get closer to them, why are you still relatives! People are very accidental, you have power and status, they will take the initiative with you.

Face is given by others, and face is lost by oneself.

In fact, you are wrong, the society is not what you imagined, blood is thicker than water, it is you who are crowding out yourself, not putting yourself in the right position, respecting others at the same time you can get the respect of others. (Why your mother's relatives, you don't call grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, cousins).

This is a matter of personal dignity and status, and maintaining a proper face can directly affect your image in the minds of others, as well as reading people's personalities and attitudes. But then again, face is given by others, and it depends on how much face you can get from others.

There is a saying that if you don't have that diamond, don't do that porcelain job, which means that if you don't have the ability, don't do what you can't do. But some people like to slap their swollen faces and become fat, and the result is to die to save face and suffer crimes. If you don't have the ability to do something, you have to do it, and you will only suffer in the end if you force yourself to do something beyond your ability for the sake of face.

So which of the 12 zodiac signs are like this? Let's take stock of the four major zodiac signs that want to save face.

Fourth place: Zodiac sheep.

Sheep people are good-hearted and kind-hearted, and they often agree to other people's requests, and they can easily take it without thinking, but if they think carefully after agreeing, they will also try to do it, just because they don't know how to refuse, and hope to maintain their helpful image.

Third place: Zodiac chicken.

Rooster people are shrewd and wise, competitive, pay great attention to their own face, and often can't pull down to apologize when they do something wrong, even if they feel sorry for others, they will not take the initiative to bow their heads to apologize, and there will be no change in action.

2nd place: Zodiac snake.

Snake people usually like to put up a shelf, be introverted and restrained, and not let others see their hearts. If they are upset and are asked of all kinds, it will often make many people hit the nail. But if you politely ask them for help, they will gladly agree for the sake of face and a little vanity.

1st place: Zodiac Tiger.

Tiger people are very serious and responsible in doing things, and they will never refuse what they can do, but Tiger people often do not distinguish between circumstances, even if they are some unreasonable requirements, they will not hesitate to agree for the sake of face or vanity, and then earnestly fulfill them, even if they suffer a loss, the same will be true next time.