When I m sad, I ve gotten through it, and what s not going to be able to get through?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-07
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hello, I personally think that in fact, I am also very deeply touched by what you said, that is, when you are sad, you have survived, and what else can't survive, that is, I have been hurt a lot, that is, what is the pressure of the family, and the contradictory relationship between social friends. I've had a lot of this kind of experience, and then I'm very deeply touched, anyway, it's really the pain of cracking in my heart, you know, it's that kind of wound, it's peeling it off again and again, you know? And then there's the gauze, you know, it's just tearing it off for him layer by layer, you know?

    Then I actually have to be optimistic, I personally think that because in fact, when you are pessimistic, the more you think about your sad and sad things, the more pessimistic you are, so I personally think that the best thing in life is unavoidable, that is. There will still be a life of no one, it will not be smooth sailing, that is, there will be many, many things that make us very helpless, but we still have to face it, we still have to choose, we still have to accept them, and then the words. So it's well, there are really a lot of sad and sad things to cry, but crying is really useless, but I personally think that apart from crying, what can we do, and be strong, you know?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Hello, when you are sad, you can stand through, it means that your heart is already very firm, tempered thousands of times, the general difficulties and ups and downs will not affect you, and there will be no hurdles that you can't get over in the future. Hope it helps!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I knew that I was a passer-by when I met, so why bother to provoke at first, the past was written off, and I was fine for the rest of my life, and I lost my memory and didn't talk about the past.

    I don't want to think of you anymore, don't meet you Tongkai again, never entangle, never be nostalgic;

    You give the last. Gentleness is, forget each other in the rivers and lakes, and do not disturb each other.

    When you trust one person unreservedly, there will only be two results in the end;

    It's not the person in life, it's a lesson in life.

    Okay, that's it, he's fine, I'm weird.

    Don't talk about the debt, thank you for meeting;

    From this moment on, there will be no more worries, and everything will start again.

    The beginning of the story is always like this, and when it happens, it is caught off guard.

    The story always ends like this, two flowers bloom, and the sky is separated.

    Like a theater of youth, the curtain was pulled down in a hurry, all the love and time were exhausted, and later, it was necessary to use the blood of a lifetime to circulate again.

    I will still think of you, but after many years, the end of the world is far away.

    If you say goodbye, it's good to say that you haven't seen you for a long time, and then look back, and the two don't owe each other.

    For the rest of my life, I only like people who like me, throw away all the people who don't deserve it, and live a meaningful life.

    3. Cherish the time I spend with you. Time is not old, we are not separated.

    4. No matter how good others are, they are also others, no matter how unbearable they are, they are also themselves, unique themselves, as long as they strive to be the best themselves, a lifetime is enough, the rest of their lives are not long, love themselves well, love their families well, cherish the people around them, good night.

    5. Live your own life, whether it is good or bad, it is your own, some things, let it pass, don't hate the mausoleum, and don't want to be nostalgic.

    6. At the beginning, I chose not to start because I was afraid of losing. But after a few years, I found that I still didn't seem to let go, although it was good to tell myself that I had some emotions in my heart, but I still remembered it from time to time.

    7. It's really not easy to meet you in the vast sea of people, but we missed it; Fortunately, I met you again, I will not miss it again, and I found out when I meet again: you are the greatest happiness in my life, even if it is just silently accompanying you, I am content.

    8. Sometimes sadness is that we are self-inflicted, when we all understand the hardships of life, but we find that there is no longer that familiar her around. I didn't live after you left, but I knew I wasn't as happy as I used to be. May you be well for the rest of your life, and may I not think of you for the rest of my life.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The mentality is very important when we are most sad, in fact, it is some negative impact that causes us to be in a bad mood, these are nothing, just endure it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    When you are sad and in a bad mood, you mainly rely on your own adjustment, sadness and sadness will always pass, and life will go on!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When you are the saddest, let yourself cry and vent, and your body will feel much better.

    Turn this sadness into a strong motivation. Think you still have a lot to do.

    Time will dilute my sadness, learn to be strong. Do what you love. Although the process is very painful, there is joy and hope in suffering.

    After continuous thinking, learning, observation, hard work, and hard work, I finally passed the saddest hurdles in my life. The hard work paid off, and finally let me realize my small wish.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Tell yourself from the bottom of your heart not to be sad, or you will cry a lot and forget about it after crying.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There's no need to make a lot of friends, because not everyone will stand up when you need it, on the contrary, a lot of dragonfly feelings will cause trouble, and the older you get, the smaller the circle of care you will be, and this is not a bad thing, you just need to protect the people who should be guarded, and it's this small group of people who have already stepped up and stood there when you thought they would be isolated.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I had my family by my side to help me share some of it, and I kept telling myself that no matter how difficult it was, it would eventually pass.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Think about the people around you who really care about you, and the people you need to care about, the most important thing is your own responsibility. You will find that suffering is not actually the saddest.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can only find a way to get through it yourself, because no one in this world can empathize with the pain of others.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Time to work it out. No one is smooth sailing, and everyone has a sad time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Find something to do on your own, don't give yourself idle, go out to eat with friends and go to bed when you get home. Time can dilute everything.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You must remember one sentence, don't be depressed, self-defeating, pessimistic and hopeless, as long as you are young and healthy, it is the biggest capital, calm down, work hard, take action immediately, cheer up, everything will really be fine, come on!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Sadness is short-lived, and it will pass after a while.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Don't think about it so much, as long as people don't die, sooner or later it will pass.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's good to be sad, sad, suppressed, tearful, and then strong to get through.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    A pack of cigarettes, a person smokes for a while and then goes on with life.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Don't overthink it, find a friend to talk to, talk about what is in your heart, and think of something happy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Regardless of the gains and losses in the world, think and do what you get easily, and on the contrary, you can't force it, so that you can survive all kinds of hardships.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Cry and then everything is a cloud!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Go to the supermarket and buy some of your favorite things and have a good meal.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Find something to do to kill yourself and forget about what you are sad about.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There should be a reason to hold on:

    For example, children, parents.

    Self-esteem, faith ......

    Facing it, accepting it, despite the painful pain, bleeding, pus, will eventually stop bleeding

    After that, it's time to be born again

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Some. I used to think that everything in life is the best arrangement, as long as the heart is strong, you can be fearless, now I just want to ask: how strong the heart must be, in order to bear all the ...... in this life

    I was so sad that I lost five pounds overnight, knowing that this was not scientific, but that kind of blow, thinking that I was at fault, losing, pretending not to care so much about people and things, and being ruined by myself, I felt the feeling of heartache for the first time, and I had to believe that the weight lost was not enough to represent. Looking back, you will find that you are innocent and narrow-minded at that age, but you can also understand that kind of self, there is nothing wrong with it, there is nothing important to think about, there is nothing to care about, this is terrible.

    Of course, I have also been told very ugly things by others, and I have never been said like this since I was a child.

    At that time, I was really sad to the extreme, I cried when I thought about it, I was still in school at that time, I cried for almost three days, intermittently, I cried on the way to school, I cried after class hahahaha, I cried with my father on the way home, in fact, now I think about it is all over, although I still hate that person.

    Relax and go out for a walk, see the scenery, eat something delicious, why sink deeper and deeper for so many beautiful things.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Of course there is, every time I think of him, my heart will tingle and sting, it's really not fun to break up, I don't know how many times I have been divided and combined in half a year.

    I may be more crying, I'm very fragile, and the most sad time is to lock up the room and lie on the ground crying, thinking about death and death all day long, it's not cute at all. Recently, when I thought of him in class, I just thought about it a little bit, and my eyes were red and my throat choked, and I couldn't help but imagine that I fell to my death after jumping from the building.

    When I think about death, I'm a little indifferent. But then, when I thought of my mother breaking down and crying, I couldn't be indifferent anymore, and I cried as soon as my nose turned red.

    He used to tell me that people who want to die are cowards, and he looks down on that kind of people.

    I know what he meant, I know I shouldn't always think about dying, but after a breakup, it's inevitable that it's really a good breakdown.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I have only been in this world for 20 years, I have never experienced the ups and downs of people, I have never seen through the heat and coldness of the world, if I say the saddest thing, I have not, but I have also lamented the impermanence of the world.

    The blood relatives are invincible, and the years are long; Confidants and friends parted ways; The beloved makes the garments of others; Singing and laughing will end silently; Rich and rich are just a dream; Life is a long one, and the road ahead is boundless. It can be described as: the world is a big dream, and life is cool several times!

    Maybe it's Jiang Jie's "Poppy Beauty Listening to the Rain" that is well written:

    The young man listened to the rain song upstairs, and the red candles were dim.

    In the middle of the boat, the river is wide and the clouds are low, and the broken geese are called the west wind.

    Now listening to the rain monk's house, the temples have stars. The joys and sorrows are always ruthless, one step ahead, bit by bit until dawn.

    The world in my eyes is no longer a myriad of straight lines connected by cause and effect, but a vast web of inextricable interconnectedness.

    In this net, we keep doubting, we keep giving up, we keep believing, we keep changing, we keep metamorphosing until we are unrecognizable.

    So what does it matter? We have become different people, and we can also have new standards of judgment, anyway, the truth of this world is not absolutely in anyone's hands. So after all, we can love our new selves again.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    There are times when your best friend makes a new friend, and you are no longer his best friend.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Yes, occasionally. When the night suddenly quieted down, I suddenly felt sad and cried a lot.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Yes. No one remembers my birthday, so it's sad.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Yes, when I first started working, I felt that I did so much work every day, but the boss felt that I was playing all day long, and I was always scolded inexplicably every day, and I felt very sad.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Yes When I was arguing with my boyfriend, he didn't comfort me, and I was very uncomfortable.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Of course. After breaking up with my first love, I lay alone in the dormitory for 3 days, didn't go out of the door, didn't eat, and thought I was dying.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Yes. When my grandfather died, I couldn't see him for the last time because I had to take the high school entrance exam.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Yes, it feels like the whole world is collapsing, and it's so sad that **.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    No. I'm nervous, and I've always lived happily.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Yes, when I was rejected by a girl who had liked it for four years.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    People are born with joy, anger and sorrow, laughing when they are happy, crying when they are sad, and scolding when they are angry, so everyone will have their own specific mood at every moment. Everyone will have their happiest moments, and of course, there will be the saddest moments, and these two moments will surely be the most memorable moments of that person's life, because it is unforgettable!

    The saddest time I've had in these twenty years or so was probably high school. As we all know, the three years of high school were very stressful, and my health was not good at that time, I had a cold almost every week, and I would get a hanging injection as soon as I caught a cold. In addition, I was a borrowed student, and the teacher cared little about me, so I felt very sad at that time, and I felt really physically and mentally exhausted. I didn't communicate with my classmates a lot, so I can barely remember the names of my high school classmates now.

    So the three years of high school were the last thing I wanted to talk about so far.

    During that most painful time, I gained the attention of my teachers every day by studying hard, and gained so-called friendship by studying hard, and it was clear that my grades were slowly improving, and the teachers changed their opinions about me and praised me in class. My classmates also cast admiring glances at me, but I knew that once I stumbled and returned to the original point, everything around me would also return to the original point, so I still studied hard, because I knew that my current efforts were for myself to live a better life in the future, and I didn't have much to do with others. But I am very glad that I also made a close friend in the class, and now I am a best friend, she used to care about me, she will guide me in my studies, and she will give me a lot of help in life.

    I spent most of my time at school, so I'm thankful for her. I had a group of good buddies after I got out of school, because of my brother, I got to know them, they accompanied me and took care of me, so I spent all my happy hours with them after class, and I was really happy to be with them. My brother is a lifesaver for me, but if it weren't for him, I don't think I would have survived now.

    Of course, my mother took the most care of me when I was the saddest, she paid too much for me, because I was not in good health at that time, so she chose to accompany her in her third year of high school, and she went to line up at four o'clock every morning to give me hot milk, because I drank milk for a year, my body became great, and I didn't even have a cold in the four years of college. I knew that thanking her wasn't what she wanted to hear, so I could only honor her when I became capable, and that was my greatest reward for her.

    Having said all this, what I want to express is that what a person needs most when he is sad is companionship, and I hope that when you are sad in the future, you will not bear it alone, but someone to accompany you! I hope you will always be happy and have no worries!

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