Which moment made you decide to let go of that impossible person?

All I know is that I have suffered for a long, long time for this man, until one day, all the people who have a relationship with him are suddenly deleted, because I never want to know anything about him again. Maybe it's just because I'm tired! It's impossible to let go of a persistent emotion in a moment, I think I'm tired and don't want to worry anymore, or maybe I'm awake and don't want to think about it anymore, if the memories are full of sadness, then why continue this painful love?

So I chose to forget. If a person does not hurt to the extreme, it is difficult to let go of a sincere emotion, because it is not only because of love, but also because of the loss of too much, the gain of too little, the payment of too little, the gain of too little, too much unwillingness, too many things backfire, we always think that we have been unable to let go of the person who cares, the feeling that cares, in fact, we have not been able to let go of our own heart, is our own stupid expectations.

I used to love work grass, I love it very much! But there are only three months left from the confirmation of the relationship to the breakup, and the reason is that he betrayed me and fell in love with my best friend in the same dormitory, and it was very painful at the time, knowing that they were mixed together and deceiving themselves that they didn't want to listen or watch, until one day other sisters in the dormitory saw them dating, and they broke me in front of me! But I also want to give him a chance, let him choose one from me and my girlfriend, choose me can no longer be involved with my girlfriend, choose her from then on, I and him cut it off, as a result, Ban Cao chose his girlfriend, turned around and left, I cried on the beach alone for a long time!

But I still can't let go, with a strange mobile phone number and he next to him to care about him, until my mother died, I couldn't help but hit the first ** since the breakup, I wanted him to comfort and comfort me, but he didn't say anything, and suddenly put it down after hanging up**, I don't love it! It wasn't until later that he came to ask for a reunion, and I refused! Now talking about him is like telling someone else's story!

I was released a pigeon today, of course, not a pigeon, my girlfriend said that she was coming to me this week, I carefully prepared for a while, but I was asked away by my best friend, I just said a good word, and then began to give up. Of course I'm not a stingy person, I just want to open, I dated her, my friends, family, I introduced her without reservation, but every time I mentioned going to her house, she said it was still early, and I wanted to play for two years, I said that although I am five years older than you, but I am willing to grow up with you, every time, it is friends who have something first, family has something first, I always think of the role last, always hide me, never enter her world, today, I understand, she doesn't love me, maybe just a little like, But it's more of a solace when you're bored.

I have quarreled with him many times, I have broken up many times, the last time he agreed, I was very sad, I really wanted to redeem, he also added me again, no matter how I confessed my mistake to him, how I confessed my heart to him, he was very indifferent, and in the end he said that he was about to have a woman, at that moment, I really decided to give up, because no matter how bad he was to me, I was willing to give him the opportunity to give us a chance to give our affection, after just three days of separation, he told me that he would have a woman soon, at that moment, Let me know how worthless our relationship is. How stupid I am.

From the time you endure and endure, from let go again and again, from the deep love of your first love to the gray heart, at that moment, when you want to let go of yourself and want to leave a thought for your best eight years, you suddenly feel light!

In an instant, I found that I still have my mother and sister to take care of, I still have work to be busy, I still have to work hard for myself, my life is not just for him, tomorrow is a new day, my efforts are refueled, for myself and the people I love.

You and my messages always don't reply, just after sending him a message, there is no news when it's over, it may take two days to reply, or it may not reply at all (I watched him post a circle of friends after I sent him a message); After a lot of times, I decided to give up, no one cares about you, why do you stick to it.

There are two aspects to this question: emotional and rational. From the level of emotional spine, if you have a particularly deep relationship with this person and it is difficult to let go easily, then you may want to continue to entangle. However, from a rational perspective, there are many factors that need to be taken into account when judging whether a relationship has a future, such as values, hobbies, future plans, and so on.

If you have realized that there is no future with this person, then continuing to dwell on this person may only put yourself in a painful situation and delay you from finding a more suitable partner. Therefore, it is recommended that you should still choose one and two forgiveness, let go of the past with this person, and start a new life.

Of course, after a breakup, you may feel lonely, sad, or even depressed. These are normal emotional responses. You can spend time with family and friends, develop your hobbies, find new career or life goals, and help you readjust, regain your confidence and independence.

In the end, no matter which way you choose, you need to think it through, respect the other person's feelings, and don't make overly impulsive decisions.

Try it this way and you'll know!

Since he knew that it was impossible to let go was the only way, try to forget that he could even be far away from home, so that he would not have the possibility of turning back.

How to let go of an impossible person? To put it bluntly, when you find a possible person, you will let go of the impossible person, you can't let go of the impossible person, it means that you are still in the emotional whirlpool, your emotional world is still occupied by the impossible person, only when your emotional world is occupied by another possible person, you will put down the impossible person

1. Delete all contactable methods;

2. Never take the initiative to contact the other party, and the other party will not contact or ignore it;

3. Re-find new emotional alternatives;