How to be a little more tactful in dealing with people

I think everyone is talented, that is, to observe the talent of others, originally I was a stupid horse, but in the end I was pulled into the club, who knew that the club was surging, I was a small stream in it, but there were always people who told me that you can't get along like this or something, I also felt it, so I became a little more extroverted, in general, it is to accept others more, chat more, what others tell you and your own experience, participate in more school activities and slowly you will become able to talk, and finally send you a word; Bow first, say hello, and introduce yourself early. ‍‍

I used to be very timid when I was studying, so timid that I didn't dare to go to a place where I saw a lot of boys, and then I came out of the society and slowly contacted different people and found that this kind of self is not too soft, people always have to continue to learn, you can learn more about yourself like people with good interpersonal relationships around you, the most important thing is to learn to laugh, no one will like people with a straight face all day long, overcome their own psychological barriers, take the initiative to care more about others. I've changed a lot now, and I'm more likely to say hello and chat with others, so we still have to work hard to communicate with others.

It's very simple, make more friends, invite more guests to dinner, and open a little bit, others will say that you are a good person, and slowly join the old oil, and naturally understand the sophistication of people. The most important thing is to improve their business level, and doing their best work is fundamental, and the so-called sophistication is based on eating and drinking.

My advice is to be polite, be stupid, don't be self-righteous, or go to work in a company for 3 years, even a fool can understand the world. After all, people are under the roof, and if you want to grow quickly, you still have to choose the right environment.

In the elite dye vat. It's all old fritters. Intrigue tore around, calculated, calculated, and fell more.

If you want to be sleek, it is recommended that you soak it for a few years. For many years, I have been sending people to look at people's faces. People are warm and cold, like walking on thin ice, fearful and cautious.

I will learn to be tactful.

Communicate with others with appropriate verbal expressions that make the person feel humorous and funny.

I think the first thing to do is to control your temper, and if you want to be more tactful, you have to do what you like

Stretch out your hand and don't hit the smiling person, smiling is a tried and tested way, and then think twice about everything.

Talking people have a stronger aura and can move people's hearts, experts say that this is a difference in thinking, if you want to improve your thinking, you have to see where the talking person is when he speaks, and why he says so.

On the first impression of calling an aunt is called sister, and the first impression is that an uncle is called a big brother, as long as it is not too obvious that it is old, all uncles and aunts then the problem comes, what is the name of the first impression of the sister? Little sister, of course. ‍‍

Generally speaking, if you are unlucky, you will learn how to protect yourself and speak tactfully. It's okay to read books on how to understand body language and demeanor, and read other people's thoughts.

Be obedient and listen, don't look smart and shrewd, don't do everything for you, but it's a matter of separation, and it has great meaning in it.

Depending on the environment, if you plan to draw a pie two years away, forget it, and both parties are not on the same beat. The beat of the two-word tiger is so simple that you can't understand it.

Romance of the Three Kingdoms, Cao Cao once said a sentence, I know that the ancient city of Xuzhou is tenacious, easy to defend and difficult to attack, so I will send him 5,000 elite soldiers.

To be sleek, you should do this:

First, keep your mouth shut, talk less and do more. No matter what unit you are in, what kind of work you are engaged in, or whatever you encounter, listen first, don't be busy speaking, and wait until you think clearly about how to express it. Also, do more things, and what you do is to let the leader see it, even if you deliberately let him see it.

You have to let him know that you are doing something.

Second, we must learn to judge the situation, who to see and what to say. Speaking and doing things depends on the occasion, and with whom, you can say anything. Although it feels hypocritical, this is the law of social survival, and the more people who can judge the situation, the better they will mix.

Third, learn more from sleek people. There will always be a lot of particularly sleek people around us, and you can secretly observe them to see how they usually behave, how to deal with things, how to deal with problems, and how to communicate with colleagues and leaders. Then you can also try it yourself, summarize while doing it, and if it's full, you'll be sleek.

Fourth, experience more and try more. Anything, don't think that you won't fail to do it, or don't do it if you can't do it well, you have to do more, even if you do it more wrongly, it doesn't matter. Every time you solve a problem, you have experience, and when you hit a wall, you have experience, and slowly become smooth.

In short, if you want to be tactful, you must learn more, reflect more and summarize, and say less and do more.