How to quickly get acquainted with people, how to quickly become familiar with strangers?

Keeping a smile, a friendly greeting, and a sincere relationship with people can break the awkward stalemate. Speak and behave appropriately, be polite, and observe the details of the other person, which can be treated directly or indirectly according to the individual's personality. Being like-minded makes you resonate quickly and get to know each other well.

This requires silent work behind the scenes, understanding that familiar with a person does not stay on the surface, deep thinking, empathy and empathy make you get along more harmoniously!

The first is a smile [note: not a giggle]; Then the peaceful fanfic "accosted" [note: non-inquiry]; Finally, it should be slowly familiarized. No one, or not all, can adapt to the environment and strangers very quickly. So, everything should be done gradually.

If it is a job, then study the work you are responsible for carefully and master it as soon as possible. Treat new colleagues with courtesy to strangers, be helpful to colleagues and be prepared to get along with people with different personalities. Actually, I think it's not hard to find something that feels familiar to you.

Can't learn, different temperaments have different ways of treating people, you have to form your own way of dealing with people, read more, communicate with people is the fastest and most effective way, in addition to no shortcuts, don't opportunistically think of what skills to approach people, that will make you look like a salesman to make people think that you are fake, and once you form a habit, it is difficult to change, worse.

When we first communicate face-to-face with someone we don't know, and the other person is unwilling to communicate with us too much, or we fall into an awkward conversation after not chatting a few words, what should we do? Is there a good way to get the other person to want to talk further? ** is illustrated in the case.

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If you want to be familiar with people quickly, you must first be honest with people, and you must quickly understand other people's interests, hobbies, personality and psychology, and then find opportunities to help others, or ask others to help, so that you can easily establish feelings, each other are familiar with each other, there will be no problem, then ask for more advice, talk to others, find more people to do homework, these are quick ways to get familiar with people, in addition to gathering with others, eating, drinking, and getting cards, which can also quickly be familiar with others.

1.First of all, do a basic understanding. After all, the choice of starting the topic with a stranger must not be in-depth, otherwise it will only make the other party disgusted and have no desire to continue to understand.

For example, when you first get to know each other, you can ask each other about their hobbies, past experiences, and plans for the future.

2.After an in-depth understanding, it is a run-in process. After all, teeth and mouths will fight when they are close to each other, the same is true between people, and the same is true for feelings, the growth environment of both parties is different, and the views on the problem are also different.

3.Appropriate little love words. Sweet words and praise are undeniably good things that can make the other half full of joy, and appropriate love words can enhance the feelings between each other and stabilize the relationship.

Have a good impression of each other and try dating. You can go out to watch a movie, sing a song or go for a walk to increase your affection for each other.

4.The important thing is to have a positive attitude and be patient and attentive to this matter. Many people's blind dates are going through the motions to deal with errands, and a negative attitude will only destroy their interpersonal relationships even more, and treating each other patiently to show respect for each other can also increase the favorability of the other party.

5.Acquaintance is fate, it is better for two people to get along with each other, maybe you will find that he has the qualities you like. A person cannot be judged solely on the basis of a few facets.

Often to see whether a person is suitable for themselves, they generally need to slowly discover and observe from life in order to discover their true heart. There are a few people who can look at each other once or twice. Whether a person is suitable for himself or not still needs to be found out by two people in contact with each other.

How to get acquainted with people you don't know well, first of all, you have to take the initiative, and you can't always wait for others to talk to you first.

Be relaxed, don't be nervous, because nervousness will make your ability to express yourself very poor, first of all, you must give the other person a friendly smile, a smile can instantly shorten the distance between the two parties.

Speak can't be too sharp, to maintain a peaceful attitude, but don't show that you want to have a good relationship with each other, the first chat is a faint chat, because people can't have a temper with everyone, if you fall in love, you can continue to find a topic of common interest with the other party to chat, if you can't really talk with the other party, forget it, after all, the twisted melon is not sweet.

If you are very close to each other, then don't forget to ask for the other party's contact method, so as to facilitate future contact, good luck, make more good friends, and be satisfied with it.

Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

1. Get close.

2. Show your strengths and advantages.

3. Of course, the best thing is communication. That's all it takes for you to make friends before.

I generally don't take the initiative to get acquainted with people, but I'm not afraid that others won't like me or anything, hehe, some people take the initiative and some people are passive, which is quite normal.

If you want to change this kind of thinking, the only way is to try to change yourself, meet a living person to take the initiative to talk to others, the first two days only talk to a living person, only find the most basic topics, such as your surname, ** person or something. If you do it in the evening, you can give yourself a small prize and cheer yourself up. On the third or fourth day, I talked to two people and found a little deeper topic, such as hobbies, work content, etc.

Take your time, and one day you will find that you have changed a lot.

1. Close to 2, understand your strengths, show your advantages 3, of course, the best is communication. That's all it takes for you to make friends before. 4. Smiling. It can give people a very intimate feeling. I wish you success!

You know, gradual self-exposure is more effective than sudden self-exposure. So don't worry, hold on! Talk about interests and hobbies, find a common topic, eliminate strangeness and touch When getting along with people, the fastest way to eliminate each other's strangeness is to "find a common topic" Have you found that chatting with two different strangers, in the same case of just met, you often have more good feelings about the person who has a common topic with you, and are willing to learn more about him (her), so when you leave a good first impression on each other, it is a great plus to have a common topic.

Let's see if we can talk.