Is it reasonable to build an ancestral hall in the countryside and pay for the daughter who marries

In the rural areas of the south, the concept of family is generally relatively heavy, and basically all people in a village have the same surname, that is, a clan. Therefore, there is often an ancestral hall, and when there is something important in the village, it will also come to the ancestral hall to discuss together. This is reflected in many film and television works, such as when the younger generations in the family make a big mistake, they will open the ancestral hall, and then some of the older people of the clan will discuss with each other.

There was a boom in the construction of houses in the countryside, and the construction of ancestral halls was popular in many places, and basically all the villages in the farmers' hometowns had already been built. The villagers are relatively supportive of the construction of the ancestral hall, and there are few voices of opposition. And for the construction of ancestral halls, many people think that this is a matter of honoring their ancestors, if there are ancestral halls in other villages, but there are no in their own villages, it feels faceless.

Or if the ancestral hall in your village is better built and you spend more money, you will feel more radiant on your face. Of course, the money for the construction of the ancestral hall was paid by the villagers. Those who have money will have more, and those who have no money will have less.

Is it reasonable to build ancestral halls in some places and pay for the daughters who marry them?

On the farmer's side, even if the daughter is married, if the mother's family wants to build an ancestral hall, it will have to pay for it.

And grandma's maiden village also built an ancestral hall, and when it came to donating money, the grandmother in her 80s did not hesitate to take out 500 yuan from her pension money. And everyone who pays the money, even if they are married, will be invited to a banquet at the inauguration ceremony of the ancestral hall. In some large villages, hundreds of tables can be held for banquets.

On our side, we attach great importance to things like building ancestral halls, and everyone is willing to pay for it, and everyone wants to make their hometown develop better. At the same time, this is also to earn some face for parents and brothers. The countryside is a circle of acquaintances, and it doesn't take long for everyone to know what happened.

And like the ancestral hall built in our village, the ** and whereabouts of each payment are posted, and everyone is clear at a glance. If you don't pay the money, then others will see it, not only will you be gossiped about when you return to your parents' house in the future, but your parents and brothers will also lose face.

Therefore, I think this is reasonable, and we should support the development of my hometown, after all, this is where I lived and grew up since I was a child, and it is everyone's idea to watch my hometown become better. But if you have to stipulate how much money you have to pay, that's a bit too much. After all, different people have different family conditions, and it is unfair to have a uniform standard.

After all, some people have money in their families, so it's okay to have a little more. However, some people's families are financially tight, and they are forced to pay money, and they will be unhappy, and they will naturally resist!

I think it's morally reasonable, because even if you get married, it's your own family, and you're a descendant there, and your ancestors are your ancestors, mainly depending on what you think.

I think it's very reasonable. Because although it is a daughter who got married, it is still a family. Besides, now that men and women are equal, everyone should contribute to the family.

This is very reasonable, because the ancestral hall enshrines their ancestors, and the daughters who marry are also the descendants of these ancestors, so it is reasonable to pay for them.

Reasonable, because I think I'm still a part of this ancestral hall after all.

Needless to say, even women or underage children in the clan are not allowed to enter without permission.

Reason: The ancestral hall is a place to worship ancestors, and it is a key place that affects the future of the clan (it has a very high status in the hearts of the ancients, and can only let oneself enter) and in ancient times, it was believed that men could pass on the ancestry to their own clan, and women would be outsiders after they got married. Therefore, the family does not allow the women in the clan to enter because she will eventually become an outsider, and the daughter-in-law is not allowed to enter because she is an outsider and cannot be trusted.

The ancients believed that women's menstruation was a product of filth, and if this entered the ancestral hall, it would offend the ancestors and bring bad luck to the clan.

In ancient times, unlike modern times, there was generally very little population movement in large and closed auspicious models. A village basically has one or several surnames, which makes everyone instinctively xenophobic.

In ancient times, these spiritual sustenance and similar things were generally strictly observed, so the ancients strictly observed the above points, which led to the fact that women (within the clan or married) could hardly enter the ancestral hall.

However, in the old society, women can still enter the ancestral hall once, that is, when they marry into their husband's family and go to the family tree, and the woman on the family tree has no name, and will be called by her name after adding her husband's surname to her mother's surname, if there is no family tree, it does not mean that you are the daughter-in-law of the family or the main wife.

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I think it's reasonable, because she's still a member of the family name after all. And the charge of 300 yuan is not too high.

Plausible. Because although she is married, she is still a member of this family. And 300 yuan is not a lot.

I think it's very reasonable, because after all, it's an ancestral hall in the village, and we should ask for 300 yuan per household, which can make the construction of our villagers better, and also allow us to have a good living environment, so I think it's very reasonable.

Rational. Although these girls are already married, this is also their own ancestral ancestral hall, so it is reasonable to charge 300 yuan.

This money can not be withdrawn. Judging from ancient thinking, the girl who marries out is the water that is spilled. From the current point of view, this is completely voluntary.