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1 First, gradually reduce your dependence on computers and mobile phones. Interesting control of your own. When you have time, you can read a book or develop your hobbies. Distract yourself.
2 Second, take the initiative to talk. Do you feel like you don't know how to talk to people every day through chat apps? Take the first step on your own, participate in clubs, extracurricular activities, parties, etc.
Make more friends, or gradually master the skills of speaking by talking to strangers, so that you can be bold and not shy and timid. Get out and about and discover the world beyond computers and mobile phones.
3 Third, you can participate in some volunteer activities. While giving your love, you will also feel the meaning of life. Learn to be moved, learn to be grateful, and you will gain more.
4. Keep a steady mind and don't always feel frizzy, especially when away from your phone or computer. I always feel like I'm busy, but I'm actually just in front of the computer. You can arrange your time properly, make a time plan, and do what you should do, so as to develop good habits, and you will not be addicted to the computer all the time and can't extricate yourself.
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If you go out for a walk more, you will find out how wonderful it is outside, in fact, sometimes the house is because you are lazy, and you will naturally find it much easier to take the first step bravely.
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Try to participate in outdoor activities and make friends.
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If you don't want to stay at home, then you have to make more friends, and when you have more friends, you will naturally have activities, and you won't be bored.
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If a housekeeper suddenly stops being home, is he still called an otaku?
In order for him to step out of his comfort zone, he must build up a strong self-confidence in himself, or be attractive enough from the outside world.
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Your phenomenon is very common, let's put it this way, I am also a person from the past, and I have regretted taking the opportunity to do so, but it is not too late to know it.
1.Make a plan for yourself, graduation and career planning, and what documents to take before graduation to act 2Run every night and get some more exercise so that your confidence will come back3
Anime can be watched.,But most of the good anime now aren't updated on Friday?,Then it's enough for you to watch it every Saturday and Sunday.,4.Find a girlfriend or boyfriend, someone to communicate with you will see things differently5Go back to the dormitory less, the more you have a bad atmosphere in your bedroom, the more friends will go to other places with an atmosphere 6
If you haven't acted yet, hit yourself sober first, and if you don't act, it's useless to say anything. You have to think about the future when you do nothing, and your children will laugh at you.
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That's a good sign.
I think you're thinking about what I'm going to do in everything you do.
With this thought, you unconsciously get used to the feeling.
Unless there is no smoke or food, you will never go out, so if you can give yourself a direction and know what great ideals you want to achieve, everything will be fine.
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It's good to be able to find yourself home-proof that you want to change. It turns out that I am also very homely, I go home after school every day to turn on the computer to play, and my friends don't want to move when they call out, but now I force myself to contact my classmates and colleagues more, participate in any activities, I can get a fitness card, and I can exercise every day when I have time, which is good for my body. If you have time, you can also travel with your classmates in a group.
Breathe in the fresh air and enjoy the natural scenery. There's many, much more that we can do. We have to be good at discovering.
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Soon to be reincarnated, to go out and embrace the sun...
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Everyone's social attitudes will be different for personal reasons. Nowadays, many people don't like to socialize, many times because the Internet is developed now, and they don't need to have any social behavior with the outside world to learn a lot of new things.
The house is also a kind of life god and life choice, which does not need a reason, and should not even be explained in touch. Nowadays, the network of the Internet is too developed, and many things can be known without going out, and there are many things that can be accessed without going out, so many people are addicted to this feeling and are bound to the house by games and secondary elements.
You don't have to go out to solve it, why don't you go out, you still need transportation expenses and trouble when you go out. Of course, many young people choose to stay at home, and it must have something to do with economic reasons. Imagine if you were financially wealthy enough to take a break from your work and travel around the world, see the beauty of the world, and broaden your horizons.
Staying at home saves money and has a lot to do. For example, watching TV, playing games, etc., so there are more and more otaku. In addition to the economic aspect, personality preferences are also important reasons.
A bit extroverted and autistic, unwilling to go to places with too many people and too much excitement. This kind of person generally does not like places where people are particularly crowded, and they do not like to sit on transportation for a long time. So unless they're short of something you want to buy, you won't go out at all.
If you don't go out for a long time and communicate less with others, once you go out, you will find that you are incompatible with others, so you don't like going out very much. The vicious cycle is becoming more and more reluctant to go out. And mobile phones and the Internet may develop, and many people forget the most traditional way of socializing.
In the past, we needed to go out and meet people and build new social circles, but now as long as we have mobile phones, we can meet different people and get the hottest information, through various apps.
In fact, real social behavior provides everyone with a real feeling that is far more fulfilling than online social networking. It's just that modern people don't want to. I hope you don't rely too much on the Internet and return to the original social ecology.
My approach was to make more open-minded friends and then go on intermittent long trips. Increase your experience.
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