Male 30 years old, he still hasn t been really aggrieved?

Updated on society 2024-06-13
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Brother, I still want to persuade you. It is also normal for a man to reach 30 without a partner. You should think about the reasons why there are no objects. Rather than just looking at the results.

    Generally, men can't find a partner because of the following reasons.

    First, there is no money, no good job. A man cannot live without money, and if a man has no money, then no woman will like him. If you can't eat, drink, or count on anything, why would you even look for a man? Is it to highlight the importance of my woman?

    The second will not please girls, it is a wooden bump. A boy who can't speak is hard to have a girl to love. Because the girl didn't know that he liked him, and she didn't want a man who needed him to coax him every day to be with her.

    Women like men to coax them. Men who can't coax girls have a hard time finding a good partner.

    Third, women don't like men who are not self-motivated and have no sense of responsibility. If you are not self-motivated, you don't know how to work hard or complete your career. So why should a woman follow you? Is it to suffer poverty with you?

    And boys and girls who have no sense of responsibility don't like it even more. I can't get the most basic guarantee with you, so it's better for me to be single, why do I have to be with you, and I have to worry about being tired.

    So don't worry that you don't have a partner, but first see if you don't have these characteristics. If you learn a few of these things, you can also become a man that women like. It's not a problem to find a partner.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    This is indeed a headache.

    But for this question, it depends on the person!

    If you are very good in all aspects, have a car, a house and the ability to earn money.

    Then there is nothing to be aggrieved about. All you lack is someone who can go on with you. Fate has not arrived, and the time has not come.

    But if you're 30 years old, you can't do anything. I don't have a car or a house, and my earning power is also very average. Not even nothing, and a bunch of debts.

    Then this problem is very serious, you have to adjust your thinking in time, how you should go in the future, and hurry up to change the status quo, otherwise you may be 35 or 40 years old, and it will still be the way it is now.

    Anything happens, it happens for a reason. We have to learn to give up complaining and be pragmatic

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Then you should hurry up and deal with the object If you can't find it, ask a friend or family member to help you This kind of thing is not envied by others You yourself know that you are 30 years old, so you should also work hard Excellent people are better to find a partner Since you have this awareness, you must be ready to find a partner.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you want to get rid of the single, you must work hard, work hard to earn money, have a house and a car, it will be easier to marry a daughter-in-law, the so-called appearance is not enough, the house, the car to make up, the ability to make up!

    Secondly, it is to lower the vision and lower the criteria for mate selection.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't be in a hurry before fate arrives, do a good job, keep recharging yourself, make yourself strong and excellent, and someone will see your shining point.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't be aggrieved, as the saying goes, a man is 30 a flower! Now it's different from before, men are still middle-aged at 50 years old.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Two people are nice. Not bad alone.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I haven't had a partner at the age of 30, so you have to see if it's your own reasons, family reasons, or personality reasons. Because at the age of 30, everyone is in a hurry, seeing that they are about to be 40 years old, and they must make a difference when they are 30 years old.

    If you're a boy, it's okay to be single at the age of 30, but if you don't have savings or a house at the age of 30, it doesn't matter, after all, you always have to have a hardware on you to be fearless.

    If you are a girl, 30 years old and still single, you have to think about whether you want to lower your requirements, there is no feeling that you can't let go, if you want to say something back can't forget your ex or something, 30-year-old girls to be honest, it's not easy to find a boyfriend, it's really hard to find, you say, find it to run in, and another year or two, can't find it, and anxious, and can't be too impulsive to get married, after all, boys are more than 30, there are many choices, you can find 25 like this, so, girls are 30 years old, unless they have their own ideas, Otherwise, you still have to fall in love early.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Even if you don't have a partner at the age of 30, don't be too anxious, if you meet the right person, it really doesn't matter if you're late.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't be discouraged Cranky thinking about 30 years old It's normal to not meet the right person It's normal Fate is hard to find You need the time and opportunity to contact the opposite sex more So you will have the chance of meeting the right person So don't be afraid.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This one will definitely be encountered, because in the case of love, it is not very easy to meet.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The man's words are only 30 years old, and he is in the age of standing, so he doesn't have to worry about having no object, and now the society has gradually accepted late marriage and late childbearing, I don't think you need to be in a hurry at all, and you can find a girl in her early 20s when you are in your 30s.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I saw that women of the same age as me were 2 months pregnant, and posted on Moments.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Not everyone has to get married, there is fate, and if you can't meet it, you won't be reluctant, an unhappy marriage is more painful than being single, and only those who can live a good life are qualified to gradually control the family and partner, otherwise they are not doing well, so don't consider your partner.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Thirty and standing, anxious can't solve the problem, I have a friend around me who is ready to have three children, but you don't know if they are happy or not, right, marriage may not necessarily be happy, but being single is really fast, everything just goes naturally, and the happiness is over.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Don't fret. Although there are many free lovers now, there are also a lot of blind dates, no, you can participate in 1 blind date show, take action, and make more friends. Marriage is about fate, and now it doesn't mean that fate can't be, don't worry.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you don't have a target, you can find it, but what's the use of being distressed and anxious, friends, colleagues, and interest circles will always find a goal, and if you have a goal, you will chase it, and if you can't do it, you will be next, and there will always be a chance.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Feelings have to be this kind of thing, it's not like you who are both distressed and anxious, feelings have to go with the flow, if you come to do it, you have to seize the opportunity, if you don't have it for the time being, then I think you should take the initiative to find the opportunity to find the other half. You can fall in love by yourself in many ways, it is a more common way to fall in love freely, if you are more introverted, you can use the blind date, blind date is also a very good way, although many people have criticized blind dates, but I think blind dates are okay, folks organizations or blind dates will introduce you together, let you chat. Isn't this the kind of thing about feelings, if it's suitable, stay together, break up if it's not suitable, go on a blind date a few more times, then you will naturally meet your other half and naturally meet your true love.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you have fate, you won't be reluctant if you can't meet him, he and you will not be happy in the future, I wish you happiness.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Try to expand your circle of friends a little more. Maybe you're surrounded by those people. Get to know more people, talk more, and get together more. At the end of the day, what you want is up to you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Male 30 has no object, and it is not a hurry, which means that your fate has not yet arrived, and you can meet the right person in the right place.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    But your life shouldn't be about relationships.

    Could it be that you can retire directly after you get married? Is life coming to an end?

    Definitely not.

    You should have other pursuits, and it's not that you can't live without emotional companionship in this life.

    Then you're fine now.

    Affection is just the icing on the cake, not a complete necessity.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    People have fate, and it may be that your fate has not yet arrived.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's useless to be in a hurry? Let's do it!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Please don't be miserable! You have to know what you really want! Don't be anxious when you watch people get married and have children!

    Don't blindly go to the object! You're looking for someone to fall in love with! Or are you just in a hurry to find someone to accompany you!

    You've got a clear score! Keeping your heart is the key! Don't!

    Because I am in a hurry to find the wrong person, I can't go to the end in the end! It's still troublesome and harmful!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Fate is hard to find, now many 30-year-old unmarried, you don't have to be too anxious, as long as you are excellent, you will definitely attract girls who like you, you can also meet some reliable girls through blind dates, there are many ways, but the most important thing is to be suitable, not to force fate.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    30 years old, that is to say, you are 90 years old, 30 years old and unmarried, don't be too anxious. The more anxious it is, the more useless it is, calm down, you can go to play with more friends or make more friends to meet people, relax your mind, and wish you to get off the list as soon as possible.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    A 30-year-old man, if he doesn't have a partner, shouldn't spend time suffering. Instead, they should improve their personal ability and comprehensive strength to realize their self-worth. All the true love that belongs to you will automatically come and find you. To sum up, look.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Then go to find the person you like in time, for many people, it is impossible to fall in love first and then get married, most of them are married first and then fall in love, so you can also take this way, little by little to communicate with each other, you will soon find your other half.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    30 years old is a good time for boys to be energetic, successful in their careers, stable and mature, as long as the criteria for choosing a mate are not too high, it should be easy to find a partner, don't be painful, cheer up, love will beckon you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Don't compare yourself to others. If you don't have a partner at the age of 30, you haven't reached your fate. Relax your heart and face life with a smile. Don't worry, fate naturally has an object. They got married early, which is also their fate.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's normal to be 30 years old without a subject. I think it's best to go with the flow. Something is not forced. Only I have become strong enough. I think about nowhere to go every day, and I don't have much interest.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Brother, if you don't have a partner who is in pain now, you can ask your parents to arrange a blind date. You can also go on a blind date**, you can find a partner.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Of course, there will be panic, and this is also a normal thing, but there must be a suitable strategy, there must be a channel to meet the girl, and it is necessary to actively communicate and know and understand each other.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    No matter how good it is, first of all, you must clean yourself up, look at the spirit, strive to improve your self-cultivation, take the initiative to the girl you like, don't be obscene, grasp the scale, care about her, and family and friends help introduce you.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I think if you are 30 years old and you can't find a partner, you should find the reason for it yourself, and don't ask too much!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Of course, it is normal for a boy of this age to have no object, as long as he can work hard to make himself better or become strong in economic conditions, he will naturally meet girls who like him.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    For boys, 30 years old is the time to start a business. capital at the time. If you are capable enough, why worry? There are no objects.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Be! My child is also 30 years old, when he just graduated from college, I was anxious to introduce his girlfriend to him, all of them are good girls in all aspects, but he didn't want to, and then the child came to work in a first-tier city, I still focused on introducing him to a girlfriend, but I am optimistic about the person, he always looks down, as he gets older and older, I am more anxious, and this is a typical emperor is not anxious eunuch anxious!

    Thinking about all these years I have been busy working, now that the children are older, I have figured it out, no matter what, the mood suddenly brightened, because we parents do not need to worry about their children's affairs, the current young people are more and more assertive, they are forming a new way of life, their life trajectory is destined to be gradually distant from their parents, which is the characteristics of the young generation in the new era, and it is also the gradual awakening of self-awareness. With the rapid development of science and technology and the increasingly developed Internet, there are many different ways to survive in life, and the parents' mouths of having to get married and have children are not necessarily right! If you want them to find someone to live with according to our ideas, there is no way!

    It's 2020, and it's not what it used to be, and the old era of "cars and horses are slow" is long gone. And today's young people would rather lack than abuse, and would rather be left behind than women!

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Most men have a family by the age of 30, and at this time, they will have a harmonious family, a stable career, and of course, some families will have lovely children.

    At this time, a man will be very aggressive at work, he will think about how to earn more money and make his family happier, he will also love his wife very much, and will try his best to take care of the elderly and children, which is what most men should be.

    However, with the development of the times and the changes in society, in the society we live in, there are many men who are over 30 years old and have not yet married, and even they are still single.

    They also want to end their singleness, but the reality is often frustrating. From their own point of view, how old are men who are over 30 and still single, how old are these five problems.

    Personality is too introverted.

    Zhang Chen is a very introverted boy, let alone dating girls, even when he is dating boys, he will blush when he says a few words. When he went to the supermarket to buy something, he didn't even dare to talk to the waiter too much, and he bought it when he saw it.

    Zhang Chen has a lot of opportunities to meet girls, but after dating those girls, those girls will break up with him immediately in a few days.

    For this reason, Zhang Chen is also very distressed, he is also very eager to fall in love, everyone will say to him after seeing Zhang Chen, "Hurry up and change your introverted personality, if you don't change it, you will have to be single for the rest of your life."

    In our lives, there are many boys like Zhang Chen, such boys, it is really difficult to find a girlfriend, their personality is too introverted, no girl likes this kind of character. Personality is the most critical factor in determining the success of a relationship, and an extroverted personality is definitely more popular with girls.

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