If you don t want a bride price, is it okay to choose no bride price?

Updated on society 2024-06-13
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It should be housing! Because the house is a warm home for two people, the world of two people, even if it is a down payment, it is good to repay the loan together, and work together.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you don't want a bride price, it's a naked marriage, and if you get married naked, you can discuss it with your boyfriend and save the money for other places in the future.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you don't want a bride price, this girl is very wise, it means that he has true love for this boy, and if it were me, he would definitely choose him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In fact, I think that if you don't want a bride price, then you must choose a man who really loves you, which is very important, and I think you must choose someone who really loves you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hello, if I don't want a bride price, I will prepare a lot of gifts for their family in disguise, or help them when they need help, so that I will be at ease, and I will be uneasy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Of course, Carey chose the one who didn't want a bride price, and Qingxu was better off.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This situation is decided by your own choice, and in general, it is the people who are chosen, not the money.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Nowadays, many people are young and do not want a bride price when they get married, but they may want more multi-building RVs than the bride price.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you don't want a bride price, you must ensure that the other party really loves you, otherwise life will be too difficult in the future.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Marriage is a matter for two people, and the bride price is only a free part of marriage, not the main one for two people.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    We can still need a lot of kinds, so we can still choose better according to our different models, which is also very useful.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you don't want the bride price, choose the one you like.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Depending on how you think of it, choose what you really need in your heart.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    1. Is it okay for the woman not to have a bride price?

    1. It is not very desirable for a woman not to have a man's bride price when she gets married, that is to say, when she gets married, she has to charge a certain amount of financial resources from the man, no matter how much the bride price is given, this is a form, just like the three media and six hires said in ancient times, which can also reflect the man's family to the woman's defeat or an important value, so girls must receive the bride price when they marry themselves.

    2. Talking about the bride price alone, he directly reflects that the man attaches importance to the woman, if the man's family is very welcome to the woman to join their family, then the bride price will definitely be given, which is also an important form of welcome.

    3. And we all know that most of the woman's parents will let their daughters bring this part of the money to the man's house in the form of a dowry after receiving the bride price, so the bride price will eventually go to the Xinzhen Wu people as family funds to help a new family.

    4. And for the bride price, we should be more inclined to a form, which can measure whether the man really loves the woman, if the man is not even willing to give the bride price, how can the woman be happy after marriage?

    2. Why do women have to pay a bride price?

    1. The family can let the woman's parents rest assured that they will marry their daughter, because after the man gives the woman the bride price, the woman's parents can see the sincerity of the man's family from the bride price, and they can also directly understand whether the man's family has economic strength.

    2. Only the man's family gives the woman a bride price, and the in-laws' family will not despise the girl after marrying, because the people who are willing to give the bride price should not be so nonsense, if they are not willing to give, then life will definitely be difficult.

    3. The divorce rate in modern society is getting higher and higher, if you can accept the man's bride price before marriage, even if you divorce your own life is guaranteed, although marriage is not for divorce to defraud property, but you must keep your own back.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The bride price, a traditional form that has existed since ancient times and symbolizes good wishes for marriage, has become more and more the last hurdle for both men and women to get married.

    It is not denied that in many places, all kinds of ** bride price emerge in endlessly, and the original meaning of the bride price is slowly changing.

    But I personally think that marriage is sacred and solemn, and two people need a ceremony to pass from not realizing and loving each other to eventually becoming husband and wife, and this ceremony is the wedding, and the bride price is part of the wedding, and the appropriate bride price is still needed.

    It does not mean that the husband and wife who have taken the bride price for the wedding will be happy in the future, not to mention that the more the bride price, the more luxurious the wedding will be; It's not that they don't have a wedding, it's just that the husband and wife who are talking about it will definitely be unhappy in the future.

    It's just that marriage is a major event in life, we need to use some things to witness, especially girls, there are many expectations for weddings, if you love her, try to satisfy her as much as possible, instead of no bride price, not even a simple wedding, which will make girls feel unvalued. In fact, there are indeed many girls who are married naked for love, and they are not taken seriously by their in-laws after marriage, because they think she is "worthless" and don't care.

    Just like the girl said: wedding, the way to be rich and rich, the way to be poor and poor, you just have to do your best! All she wants is her boyfriend's sincerity, not how much bride price and how luxurious the wedding is.

    And now, the man secretly took away the ring he proposed to before, is this a plan to break up for himself early?

    The woman should take into account the actual situation of the man and ask for the bride price appropriately, rather than forcing the man according to a certain standard, and do not feel that the man cannot pay the bride price, that is, he does not love himself, or he will make himself lose face among relatives and friends. After all, love and face are not all supported by money, and if you force the man to borrow money to pay the bride price, not only will it hurt your feelings, but also, after marriage, you will have to save money to pay off the debt.

    As for the man, out of love and respect for the woman, it is not easy for the woman's parents to raise a daughter, after marrying, they will have children for you, and they will take care of your parents with you, so within their own ability, try their best to meet the standard of the woman's bride price. This can also be said to be a reflection of your sincerity! Girls who really want to live a good life with you will see it in their eyes and remember it in their hearts.

    In the final analysis, it is still necessary for both parties to understand each other and accommodate each other, so that the marriage will be harmonious and beautiful.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Of course, it is necessary to talk about the ceremony, because China has a tradition of thousands of years, and basically every family is like this. However, the bride price should not be too high for the banquet that the waiter should want, which will increase the burden on the man.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The Chinese marriage system is different because of the region, ethnicity, customs, beliefs and other relationships. We should respect the customs of all places. Although some people will scoff at it, they are all old and superstitious.

    As an indispensable part of Chinese marriage, I believe that people in different places have different habits in dealing with bride price.

    Should a bride price be given? Should. Since Min Lao Zegu has been like this since ancient times, then everyone is a layman, and it is not a fairy bridge shed, so it is also vulgar. However, it is true that there are cases where the bride price is not given. For example, if the custom does not need it, the family does not allow it, and the money is used for other things.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    My personal opinion is that the bride price should be asked, after all, generally a person will get married once in his life, and the bride price needs to be measured by imitating Lu Yu to prepare for the major events in his life.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Personally, I think that if the bride price is right, of course, it should be reasonable and reasonable, and you can't train the lion to open your mouth, otherwise it will be unreasonable. If you don't want a bride price, unless the man's family is very difficult, the stool will allow the woman to pay both the dowry money and the dowry, and the socks themselves will not pay a penny.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Let's do as the locals do. Of course, the actual family financial situation should also be taken into account.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Chinese bride price is a time-honored tradition and an important part of marriage and family. The bride price has always been an important wedding ceremony in Chinese culture, mainly referring to gifts given by the man to the woman.

    It usually includes items such as gold and silver jewelry, red envelopes, furniture, electrical appliances, clothes, etc., the quantity and value of which varies depending on factors such as region, social status, and wealth level. However, with the progress of society and the change of people's attitudes.

    The bride price is no longer a necessity in marriage. Now more and more people are beginning to oppose the bride price, believing that it is a commercial act that leads to the financial burden of many families.

    And it can also cause unnecessary stress and conflict. Therefore, although the bride price still exists in China, more and more people are beginning to accept the notion of no or less bride price.

    Some regions** have also begun to introduce relevant policies to limit the quantity and value of bride price, so as to protect the economic burden of families and the rights and interests of consumers. In short, the bride price has an important position in Chinese wedding culture.

    But it is also facing increasing skepticism and opposition, and people should respect each other's choices and avoid the effects of overconsumption and commercialization.

    to establish a healthy and equal marriage relationship. I don't think bride price should be the criterion for a person to choose whether or not to accept a marriage. As a tradition, the bride price should come from sincere love and blessing.

    It is not a business transaction or consumer behavior. Therefore, if I were to get married, I would respect my partner and our family traditions.

    But we will also try our best to prevent the bride price from becoming a burden on our marriage. I believe in a marriage.

    It is mutual care, understanding and support that is not the numerical value of the bride price. If he had the same idea, he would have lived happily in our married life.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The bride price should be requested. Because the bride price is a kind of importance that the man attaches to the woman, it should be required. But you can't compare the bride price, or ask for the bride price, because this has lost the meaning of the bride price.

    The bride price is the man's attention to the woman, not a reason to compare or want to be the best. Therefore, the bride price should be required. You can give a bride price according to your own conditions, rather than raising ** at will, and create pressure on young people.

    For example, a friend I know, she is in free love, and her parents are more sensible. When she got married, her parents didn't ask for a bride price, the man gave as much as he wanted, and the bride price given by the man was returned to them by the woman's parents when she got married, and their married life was happy, and it did not affect their normal life because of the bride price. Therefore, I think that the bride price can be determined according to the local situation, and it should not be too high, or compared, which will increase the pressure on the young couple.

    There are many advantages to the proper bonus, for example, it can show that the man values you, and it will not cause a financial burden to the young couple. Life after marriage will also be smoother. So I support asking for a bride price, but I don't support comparing or ** asking for a bride price.

    I think so! The bride price should be wanted, but it should be determined according to the economic conditions of the local man, which means that it can be too high, so that the pressure on the young couple increases. In that way, the conflict between their lovers will deepen, and they will even break up.

    Therefore, the bride price cannot be compared, and the bride price can be wanted, but it cannot affect their lives. The man attaches great importance to the woman, and the woman cannot deliberately raise the ** level because of this. Since you can love each other, it means that you have a great fate.

    You can't break a marriage because of the bride price, so you should be hungry and treat the bride price in an appropriate amount, rather than asking for or comparing the bride price. In short, the bride price should be requested. Because the bride price is a kind of importance that the man attaches to the woman, it should be required.

    But you can't compare the bride price, or ask for the bride price, because this has lost the meaning of the bride price. The bride price is the man's attention to the woman, not a reason to compare or want to be the best. Therefore, the bride price should be required.

    You can give a bride price according to your own conditions, rather than raising ** at will, creating a dull pressure for young people.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There should be a bride price, and love can last longer if it is supported by money.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think it should be a bride price, this is the custom left by the ancients, and it is also the touchstone that the marriage is really encountered before the omen disappears, and the feelings are very important, if you encounter practical problems, you will be able to fully embody everyone's guessing character.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    A bride price should be requested. As for the size, it is necessary to consider both local customs and actual family circumstances.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The wedding bride price is a kind of respect for the woman's parents and a kind of compensation.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I think that whether or not marriage should require a bride price depends on the man's family conditions, and a symbolic point can be given, but if it exceeds the man's economic conditions and needs to be filled by borrowing money, it will be difficult for the strong man.

    Every year because the bride price can not talk about the couple and break up is not a few, to be honest, I really have no filial piety to the bride price, living in Guangdong, the bride price is small tens of thousands, I remember when I got married, my husband asked me how much I want to give, I said it would be good, after their family gave 30,000 eight, this money my parents also did not want, turned back or gave me, some people will say, the bride price is more, the face is big, the face is big and can not be eaten, everything is vanity. The two of them are living together, and it would be a pity if they collapsed because of the bride price. But then again, those who can fall apart because of the bride price are not suitable for marriage, because if you really love someone, you will subtract all the rules and regulations for the other party.

    The sky-high bride price is something that ordinary people can't afford, so it should be eliminated. However, the appropriate bride price is still allowed, and in the process of asking for the bride price, you can see clearly what kind of family the man is. Recently, my friends also broke up because of the bride price, she and her husband 18 years of license, has not been a wine, the man said that the bank account has no money, because a new house has been built, they agreed to 2 years after the wine, that is, this year, but excessively, the man does not want to give the bride price, and the woman has no right to decide the wine, everything must follow the man's mother, many times to discuss to no avail, and finally the man's mother came to a sentence, this marriage you love to tie the knot, do not tie the knot.

    The woman's request is not much, 2-30,000 bride price, what you want is an attitude, but the man's performance is chilling, from this matter, my friend's husband has always stood on his mother's side, always saying that it is not easy for Chun Shen to let his mother raise him, because it is a single family, everything has to listen to his mother's words, this is a serious Ma Bao man, after this incident, his attitude towards friends is also 360 reversal, he doesn't pay much attention, and often murders friends, anyway, it's my mother who opens and closes, After the relatives and friends around her knew about it, they all persuaded their friends to separate, but they were afraid that she would be wronged if she married her, and finally her friends chose to break up.

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