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I'm in favor, it's not that I'm reluctant to spend those tables of banquet money, but there is no need for that at all, because the relatives and friends in my hometown are incomplete, so two or three tables at home can be completely opened, besides, the feeling at home and the feeling in the hotel is different, you can drink at home for a long time or a short time, if you go to the hotel, can you drink for an hour?
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It's okay to do it at home. After all, you have a lot of things at home, in fact, the banquet is not of great significance, mainly depends on how to make the new house, how to make the groom and bride more intimate and tacit understanding at the wedding. Think about a little bit more, maybe you can be different.
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Yes. Our marriage is all done at home, so it is not only lively but also intimate, is there anything wrong?
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There is nothing wrong with marriage, marriage is not about the banquet, but whether the two people really love each other and whether their future life is happy.
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No, if it's a bit too much to save money. After all, getting married is a lifelong event and must be treated well.
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If you can't accept it, at least set up a banquet in front of your friends and brothers, and tell them, I am your wife, and you will be the man who will take care of me for the rest of my life.
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Hosting a banquet is just a ceremony, but also for relatives and friends to share our happiness, if you really love each other, you don't have to care so much.
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I feel that it is better to hold it in the hotel: first of all, due to objective reasons, many relatives are not in their hometown, the number of people attending the wedding is not much, you can be in the hotel, it does not cost much, and it is decent, which satisfies the bride's wishes, supports the bride's face, and makes my relatives look good; Secondly, it's a bit expensive, isn't it just this time in your life, what is it for making money?
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Weddings are temporary, but marriages are lifelong. Maybe you can ignore the wedding. Are you going to use your wedding to decide your marriage?
Of course, in terms of customs and etiquette, weddings cannot be ignored. But it's definitely a matter of thinking between two people. Simplicity is a kind of beauty, but it can also be a kind of regret.
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As long as he is good to me, any banquet and wedding are all a formality, and they are all a kind of vanity of people.
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It's more troublesome at home, and there are more things to pack. As long as the hotel is set, it is more worry-free, and the hotel is better in comparison.
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1. The wedding ceremony can be simple, but it can't be without, once in a lifetime (some people can be able to do it many times), everyone pays attention to life and has a sense of ceremony, not to mention the wedding of two people, although there are so many people who do not advocate holding weddings, but there are only a very few people who really do not hold it, anyway, there is no one around me.
2. For most ordinary people, the wedding is rough, it is a sense of formality, a kind of proclamation ceremony. The scene can be big or small, but both parties to this ceremony, especially the woman, must explain it, otherwise it will look like a sneak. So, the respect that deserves is still given.
The wedding is not about how gorgeous it must be, there is a passage in "The Little Prince" that says:
You'd better come at the same time every day, say you come at four o'clock in the afternoon, then from three o'clock onwards, I start to feel happy. The closer the time came to me, the happier I felt, and by four o'clock I would be restless. If you come at any time, I don't know when to prepare my mood.
I think the sense of ceremony of the wedding is here, the sense of ceremony can make me feel that a certain day and a certain moment are different, can let us know that the surprise is coming at a certain moment, we have anticipation, this is what the sense of ceremony can bring us.
Wedding is like this, always remind you, at this moment you and her are going to become a family, whether it is love, affection or friendship responsibilities must be shared by two people, maybe this is the biggest meaning of a wedding, it is such a moment to keep reminding why you chose each other, and it is such a moment that can dispel those confusion and hesitation in the marriage, so that this relationship has more strength to go on.
We often chant that life needs a sense of ceremony, so doesn't the wedding need a sense of ceremony?
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Although many young people will hold their own weddings when they get married, because they think that they will only accept this marriage in their lives, and they naturally want to hold the wedding lively, beautiful scenery, so that they can have no regrets, but I personally think that even when they get married, it is acceptable not to hold a wedding, and the reason why I think so is mainly based on the following reasons.
First of all, for two people who are married, holding wedding ceremonies and banquets to invite relatives and friends are just a formality, the most important thing for two people to get married is the actual content, this content is that the husband and wife can really love each other and tolerate each other, because the wedding is not good, if the relationship between two people after marriage is not good, then there is no point in burning such a wedding, but even if you don't do a wedding, The relationship between two people after marriage is always very sweet and harmonious, so this kind of marriage makes each other really yearn for it.
And if you hold a wedding, for yourself, for relatives and friends, it is also a burden to answer this, since you have a wedding, you must invite your relatives and friends, and your relatives and friends can not be empty-handed, you must have to follow the gift, then this also invisibly increases the financial burden of these relatives and friends, when these relatives and friends have similar red and white happy events in the future, they must also return this favor, in fact, busy to the end, everyone just earned a shout, I personally think it is more practical to use the money saved by not having a wedding to travel with your lover, and the real wedding does not need to be blessed by relatives and friends, but also because the husband and wife can feel happy in their married life.
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Acceptable. 1. It is a personal choice to hold a banquet or not, and there must be a marriage without a banquet, but now there are more and more young people who have this kind of hail idea, which does not mean that this idea is wrong, everyone has their own choice.
2. There is no explicit provision that marriage must have a banquet, so marriage can be a matter of two people, and it does not hinder the lives of others.
The reason why you won't regret not holding a banquet when you get married.
1. Will regret: Some people think that they don't hold a banquet when they get married, and they can't come back with gifts over the years. This kind of ridiculous thinking is of course understandable, but it means that the gift itself is relatively small in some places, so it doesn't make much sense, and now there are some places that don't accept the gift, or according to the region.
2. Will regret: Another reason for regret is that for many people, they still don't understand that they don't hold a banquet when they get married, and they will inevitably be pointed at.
3. No regrets: The wedding banquet is a huge expense, and there are many more expenses for the newlyweds to form a new small family after getting married, so if you don't hold a banquet, the money saved can be used elsewhere.
4. No regrets: Nowadays, young people are busy with work, and it is difficult to find time to prepare for weddings and hold weddings.
I wouldn't choose to travel to get married. The first time is not enough, after all, the wedding is still more important when getting married, and the marriage leave given by the company is relatively short, if you want to travel to get married, the time is not so sufficient, the second fund may not be so enough, after all, marriage is still based on life, if time and money are satisfied, you will still travel with your loved one.
It's a bit of both. Anyway, I don't think it matches.
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It is acceptable that two people are together, the most important thing is to have feelings, care for each other, care, love each other, height, age will seem insignificant in front of feelings.