What to do if your boyfriend keeps in touch with his ex girlfriend and calls him a soul mate

It's not impossible to contact your ex, it's when both parties agree and both agree that this relationship is normal, so there's nothing to say (generally this kind of situation is really rare).

If you don't mind and the other person is not willing to make changes for you, then it is important to consider what the other person's feelings are for you. In addition, what kind of soul mate, why did you do something bad, and you have to set up a memorial arch to say its reasonable legitimacy, you can't simply say it. Think about it from another angle, if a woman has a so-called soul mate, can the man agree?

This kind of thing is still to be said clearly, you can't accept it, there is nothing to compromise, the feelings you cherish are that the other party will treat you in the same way, you are still boyfriend and girlfriend, the road is still long, small things can be confused, this kind of thing still has to be principled. It's really, really few people who do things that make the world better because of your compromises and concessions, and most of the time it's really really just an inch.

Let's talk about my own business, last year my boyfriend was looking for a job, looking for a long time, and the mood was not very good, I kept encouraging him, and he was also satisfied with all kinds of good, and then the goods swelled, and my attitude began to be a little impatient, I was angry at that time, scolded him, and then we fell in love with each other until now. Sometimes he may not even know about himself, so if there is a problem, he must communicate in time, and after a long time, it may not be solved in one or two sentences (a long-standing grudge, it is really a terrible word). I hope you're doing well.

Hello landlord, in fact, I personally don't like such a man, and I will definitely give up. But I don't know your point of view, I'll talk to you from my thoughts, first of all, if a man loves you and loves you, he won't go to other women, and it's a woman who has a relationship with him, the name soul mate is a bit ironic, you are his lover, he doesn't share communication with you and his ex-girlfriend, isn't it a joke? If he hurts you, you shouldn't do it at all, because then you will be unhappy, how can he bear it, so it is conceivable that he doesn't love you so much, and secondly, now his soul mate, so whether he will go to him or what he will do if you quarrel, no one knows, because there are too many unknowns, why not find someone who is really good to you, there is no need to put yourself in such a humble position, because you also deserve to be regarded as the only one by others.

Soul mates!! What are you kidding, you are all soul mates, how can you let go, so think about it, you are his girlfriend, if possible you are likely to get married, you will be together for a lifetime, what are you? ?

<> my boyfriend and ex-girlfriend have been in contact with each other, and it's hard for me to accept it, what should I do? I don't think there can be a "one-size-fits-all" approach to any issue. There are two sides to everything, and as soon as this topic is thrown out, many people think that since both parties have broken up, why bother to contact again, it makes sense to think about it.

First of all, the word "connection" seems to give people the feeling that the male protagonist and the ex are back together, and the male protagonist does not respect the current one, is not dedicated to feelings, and so on. But from another point of view, why should the male protagonist contact his ex, if it is a special holiday such as the New Year, send a message to the other party, and bless the other party, which is harmless; If two people have not seen each other for many years, it is normal for both parties to shush each other as ordinary friends and get in touch by chance. If you don't forgive, it depends on the reason!

If it's just an occasional contact, a greeting, I don't think it's a big deal.

If it's regular contact and there is a reunion, I don't think it's about not forgiving him, but just leaving him. Because even if you don't leave and forgive him, then you will not have a good result in the future, so why don't you leave when you just find out! Now that the boy and girl are in a relationship, they must respect each other, understand, trust, tolerate and care for each other.

Whether to leave or forgive, you have to rely on your own correct judgment whether your boyfriend's behavior is immoral. Feelings need to trust and understand each other, as well as timely communication when encountering problems, if you can't tolerate sand in your eyes, possessive, suspicious, the other party will make you feel emotionally uneasy, you can choose to communicate, clarify the direction of development and your own attitude, express the position of the people, if the other party attaches importance to you, you will naturally have measure, moderation, on the contrary, at this time in deciding whether to forgive. If you are strong, confident, and trusting, and understand the truth of the matter, you don't need to be overly nervous.

You should find an opportunity to talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you don't want him to be in constant contact with your ex-girlfriend, so that he can be restrained.

You should tell your boyfriend not to keep in touch with your ex-girlfriend or you will leave him. Because the most important thing in feelings is single-mindedness.

You should choose to break up, which means that your boyfriend doesn't care about you at all, so he keeps in touch with his ex-girlfriend.

Inform your boyfriend of your thoughts, get enough attention from the other person, and if the other person doesn't care, then you can break up.

First, men like to use being needed to reflect their value. After having a new relationship, it slowly loses its freshness, and a man's instinct begins to triumph over reason! They began to want to understand the current life of their former lovers, to show the fraternity of men, at the beginning may be to tell each other heartfelt feelings, at this time the man is warm, if the other party does not have a clear attitude, does not deliberately keep a distance, then the men begin to sell inches, become more attentive, more considerate.

Xiao Wang of the unit is like this, he has been separated from his ex-girlfriend for three years, and he has been married to his current wife for almost two years. Last year, by chance, Xiao Wang got in touch with his ex-girlfriend again, and his ex-girlfriend didn't seem to be very happy, and a lot of helplessness was revealed in the chat, which made Xiao Wang's sense of demand burst. Their contact became more and more frequent, and the conversation became more and more ambiguous, after all, she was noticed by her wife, and once directly confronted Xiao Wang with their chat records, and had a big fight with Xiao Wang for this, and almost divorced.

Xiao Wang sighed for this, you need to be cautious when contacting your ex-girlfriend, and you still have to focus on your family!

Second, the family status is weak, and you need to look elsewhere for self-confidence. Some women are too strong, which makes men very depressed. In order to release their inhibition, these men go to contact their ex-girlfriends again, and after getting comfort and understanding from their ex-girlfriends, they will become more and more dependent, which is the feeling of being unable to stop being closed, and the ex-girlfriend and him now have no worries about trivial matters in life, and they will become gentle and considerate, making men miss all the beauty of their previous love even more!

Third, he has a successful career and wants to prove himself again in front of his ex-girlfriend. At the beginning, I didn't mix well, so I didn't maintain my fragile feelings, and let my woman become someone else's woman. Men tend to be obsessed with this, and when they have a successful career, they will remember the past, so they will try to find out how their ex-girlfriend is living, and if the ex-girlfriend is as he expected, he will contact the ex-girlfriend.

To give care and help to ex-girlfriends to show their superiority, but this kind of care and help also makes many women unable to resist, and eventually they go to ambiguity, or even the revival of old love, and out of control, if they can't stop it in time, it will definitely endanger their marriage and cause irreparable consequences!

Why don't you have anything to do to mention his ex-girlfriend? Do you want to hear how they used to love themselves or your boyfriend? Do you want him to mention and praise his ex-girlfriend, so that you can compare Suiwu with his ex-girlfriend all the time?

Or do you want him to say that his ex-girlfriend is bad and make you think he's a scumbag?

It's not a question of whether he lets go of the spine at all, it's that you have nothing to do. Who would calmly talk to the current one in advance? Isn't it good to treat your current relationship well? The past is gone, do you have to let him relive it? Do you want him to rekindle his old love?

He can't let it go or notAs a boy, girlfriends often bring up their exIt's really disgusting to do that. Inner drama: It's okay, what do you say your ex is doing?

Shouldn't I take feelings seriously? No problem, right?

I'm good to my ex, and it doesn't affect how good I am to you, right?

Appointment in advance, doesn't it do any good for the current relationship?

How am I supposed to be doing? How to answer the guess field or send a proposition.

Sending propositions is that you have fun, I'm not fun at all.

Forget it, the weather is so nice today.

Still coming? Let's eat hot pot, shall we?

Again? So you're nice to your ex, right?

Interesting to talk about it again?

I don't want to talk about this anymore, she can't see it?

Why do you nag like a mother every day?

If my boyfriend was in close contact with his ex-girlfriend, I would immediately make everything disappear into his world as if it had never been.

I will not say anything to him, nor will I consult him or question him.

Instead, he left, because the moment he chose to contact his ex-girlfriend, he put me in a very awkward position, he didn't think about me, let him not think about me, then I didn't need to think about him as if he had never met.

If it were me, I wouldn't want to involve myself in such a relationship, I felt that I was very good, I didn't want to be involved in such a thing, I didn't want my love to be mixed with a little bit of unhappiness, so no matter how much I loved, I would give up, because I didn't want to be worse in the future. Of course, I'm talking too seriously, if it's just an occasional normal contact, if you're sure he loves you very much, that's fine, maybe being generous will make your boyfriend love you more.

It's certainly not normal for a boyfriend to keep in touch with his ex-girlfriend all the time, unless you don't mind it yourself;

Of course, you can't not mind, or even mind;

But when you mind, the other party still contacts your ex when you know that contacting your ex will make you unhappy;

It shows that in fact, your boyfriend's love for you is not as much as you think

And more importantly, what you said: he took care of me, and sometimes I did do a little bit of a job, but he didn't think about breaking up with me or anything.

I can't handle the last relationship well, I still contact me intermittently and occasionally, and sooner or later I will pick up **, especially this kind of conversation for a long time and then break up, no matter what the reason, the time of people is here, more or less still a little emotional.

It depends on whether the individual can accept such a boyfriend in his heart, it's really hard for outsiders to say.

It's okay to not divide it. I just have to adjust my mentality, since he is tall and handsome, it is not good to summon him from time to time to accompany him to have a meal, an appointment, and a bed. But it's really boring to come reluctantly like QQ space, message, etc.。

Maybe what you want is that he loves you very much, but this is really hard to force, you can try to dress up to make yourself beautiful, you can make him happy when he is with you, and then see if it works.

I think you should take a stand and break up with your boyfriend if he continues to keep in touch with his ex-girlfriend.

At this time, you should decisively break up with your boyfriend, because such a relationship has no meaning.

You can make it clear to him that he is very unhappy about this approach, and he doesn't like him to continue to contact his ex-girlfriend to see how his attitude is before making a decision.

I think we should propose to break up, because from this incident, we can see that there is really no place for you in the other party's heart, and even if you are together, there will be no good results.

In fact, you can ask about your boyfriend's choice, if the other party chooses to have contact with his ex-girlfriend, he can directly choose to break up, and if he decides to break off contact, he can continue to get along.

I must break up with my boyfriend quickly, because such a person is really not trustworthy.

You can have a good talk with your boyfriend to see what his attitude is, and if he can't let go of his ex-girlfriend, you can also choose to break up with him.

I think that such a man should break up with him, which shows that he is a person who can afford to let go, and he has nothing to offer.