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When you are memorialized by the deceased, you must pay attention to the fact that the dress of the clothes must be more formal, reflecting the solemnity and longing of this memorial.

1. Flower memorial:Bring a bouquet of flowers that match the personality characteristics of the deceased or pick flowers yourself to make a bouquet of flowers to pay tribute, place the flowers in the middle of the deceased's grave, and silence in front of the grave for 3 minutes, expressing your thoughts about her and the commemoration of her birthday.

2. Gift commemorative law:Make a model birthday cake, insert a candle representing the age of the deceased, write the name of the deceased, go to the grave of the deceased to commemorate the deceased's life, and sing a happy birthday song for the deceased, and burn the model cake to the deceased if allowed after the commemoration.

3. Wine:If the deceased still likes to drink some wine, you can also buy some wine that he or she liked to drink during her lifetime, bring it to the grave, pour it into the wine glass and then sprinkle it in front of the deceased's grave, pour a total of 3 glasses, sprinkle 3 times, and use wine to commemorate the deceased's birthday.

4. You can also commemorate the birthday of the deceased in the airIn this case, on the day of the deceased's birthday, a funeral platform of the deceased is set up in a different place, and relevant birthday gifts are also placed to commemorate and commemorate the deceased's birthday in the soul.

Deceased loved ones are usually worshipped on the following days:

Days associated with the ancestors.

1. The annual birthday of the ancestors (important sacrifice day).

2. The annual death day (important sacrifice day) of the ancestors

3. The seventh day after the death of the deceased (the first seven, relatively important).

4. The fourteenth day (twenty-seven) after the death of the deceased

5. The twenty-first day after the death of the ancestor (37, relatively important).

6. The twenty-eighth day after the death of the deceased (47).

7. The first month after the death of the deceased.

8. The thirty-fifth day after the death of the deceased (May 7).

9. The forty-second day (June seven) after the death of the deceased

10. The forty-ninth day after the death of the deceased (seventy-seven, relatively important).

11. The 100th day after the death of the deceased (100-day sacrifice).

Traditional worship days.

1. The thirtieth year of the lunar Chinese New Year's Eve, Chinese New Year's Eve (Chinese New Year's Eve ancestor worship, important sacrifice day).

2. The second day of the Lunar New Year (the beginning of the year to worship ancestors).

3. On the fifteenth day of the first month of the lunar calendar, the Lantern Festival (ancestor worship on the Shangyuan Festival).

4. April 5 of the Gregorian calendar, Qingming Festival (tomb sweeping and the most important sacrificial day).

5. On the fifth day of the fifth lunar month, the Dragon Boat Festival (ancestor worship).

6. On the fifteenth day of the seventh month of the lunar calendar, the midyear festival (sacrifice to ancestors).

7. On the ninth day of the ninth lunar month, the Double Ninth Festival (ancestor worship, tomb sweeping, important sacrifice day).

8. On the first day of the tenth lunar month, the ancestor festival (going to the grave and worshipping the ancestors).

9. On the first day of the tenth lunar month, the Winter Clothes Festival (to commemorate the ancestors).

10. December 22 or 23 of the Gregorian calendar, the winter solstice (ancestor worship, important sacrifice day).

11. On the eighth day of the twelfth month of the lunar calendar, Laba Festival (ancestor worship).

1. Birth, old age, sickness and death are natural phenomena, and we must mourn and change! Take care of yourself.

2. I was shocked to hear that Gao Tang Immortal had passed away, and I was so sad that I was sad. I hope to endure the pain and mourn by the way.

3. Life is impermanent, and the world is unpredictable. The deceased is gone, and life must go on. We who are alive must know how to cherish and be grateful.

4. Shocked to learn of the death of your family, deeply saddened and expressed deep condolences. Please take care of your condolences.

5. I am very saddened by the death of your family. I would like to extend my deep condolences to you, and I hope that you will be happy and take care of yourself.

6. I was shocked to learn that my old mother had passed away, and I was deeply saddened! I present a flower basket to express our condolences and condolences, please take care of your health.

Hello, Shenglaqin, 1, birth, old age, sickness and death are natural phenomena, and we must mourn and change! Take care of yourself. 2. I was shocked to hear that Gao Tang Immortal had passed away, and I was so sad that I was sad.

I hope to endure the pain and mourn by the way. 3. Life is impermanent, and the world is unpredictable. The vanished are gone, and life must go on.

We who are alive must know how to cherish and be grateful. 4. I was shocked to learn that you were smiling and preparing for the death of your family, and I was deeply saddened and expressed my deep condolences. Please take care of your condolences.

5. I am very saddened by the death of your family. I would like to extend my deep condolences to you, and I hope that you will be happy and take care of yourself.

Two ways to handle it:

1. One is to set up a spiritual table at home, worship it, and make offerings and incense on the fifteenth day of the first year of the Zi clan;

2. The other is that after the "Seventy-Seven" memorial service of the Jijia family, the offerings, paper money, etc., were incinerated together.

1. Place the incense case, the statue of the Buddha and Bodhisattva is in the center (put the statue of the deceased in front, and the statue of the Buddha and Bodhisattva is a little higher, with at least one head higher as the standard), and put five offerings in front of it (1 incense burner in the center, insert three incense sticks; 2 vases on the left and right, three or five flowers arranged, odd number is appropriate; A pair of left and right candlesticks, inserting red candles. collectively known as the "Five Offerings").

2. Five grains (five colors of grains, such as rice, black beans, mung beans, soybeans, peanuts, etc.), five fruits (five colors of fruits such as apples, oranges, bananas, grapes, pears, etc.), three cups of tea, etc., remember not to put meat, otherwise it will damage the gods and Buddhas (because becoming a god will "not eat the fireworks of the world"), and also damage the blessing of self-contact and self-elimination.

3. If you want to do seven, you have to be at the head.

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If you sacrifice at these nodes of seven and seven, the content will be complicated.