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The reward of tolerance.
Decades ago, a primary school student went to the teacher's house to ask for a question, and just as he was about to go home with a satisfactory answer, the student accidentally knocked over a vase that the teacher loved. With that crisp sound, he closed his eyes tightly in fright, and then hurriedly prepared to clean up the debris. At this moment, the teacher patted him gently and said:
Don't be afraid, it's okay. Yes, the vase is broken, but who dares to say that something that is broken is worthless? Let's think about it, and maybe we can get something meaningful out of it.
Later, the student, the famous Danish physicist Jacob Bor, proposed the famous "Jacob Bohl's Law" in 1942 after painstaking observation, research and collation of a large number of experimental data, which was highly praised by the scientific community. He found that in a pile of debris, 10 grams of 100 grams were the least, 1 gram of 10 grams was slightly more, and 1 gram and less were the most. If those fragments are divided into 4 categories: large, second-large, second-smallest, and smallest, the phenomenon follows:
The weight ratio of the largest to the second largest is 16 to 1, the second largest to the second smallest is also 16 to 1, and the second smallest to the smallest is also 16 to 1. Repeated experiments, the results are highly consistent!
Through further research experiments, Bor found that this weight ratio is different for objects of different shapes. The fragment multiplier is about 16 for bottles, 11 for clubs, and 40 for spheres. The most incredible thing is that this multiple has nothing to do with the material of the object, and even if it is a soft object like tofu, its breaking multiple obeys this law.
People apply this law to archaeological exploration, astronomical research, and thus to infer its original state from known artifacts and meteorite fragments. The law opens up a scientifically grounded and rigorously regulated approach to these works that were previously based on speculation, experience, and imagination.
What we want to remind us is: if the teacher had been furious because of the broken vase, blindly criticizing and blaming, would there still be "Jacob Ball's Law" in this world? Therefore, in the face of a bad situation, only by remaining tolerant and rational can people make up for their losses, and even have unexpected "turns" to turn bad things into good things.
The discovery of Jacob Ball's Law is the reward of a student for a forgiving teacher!
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There is such a story that is not a story.
Once, the Japanese kabuki master Kanya played a man on a hiker, and just as he was about to play, one of his protégés reminded him, "Master, your shoelaces are loose." He replied, "Thank you," and immediately crouched down and tightened his shoelaces.
When he reached the entrance to the stage, which his protégé could not see, he crouched down again and loosened his shoelaces. Clearly, he wanted to express the tiredness of a long-distance traveler with loose laces.
On that day, a reporter happened to see this scene, and after the play, he asked Kanya, "Why didn't you teach that protégé on the spot?" Kanmi replied
The kindness of others must be accepted frankly, and there are many opportunities to teach protégés the skills of acting. On today's occasion, the most important thing is to accept the kindness of others with gratitude and give it in return. ”
How good it is to say that it is impossible for ordinary people to accept the kindness of others with a grateful heart! I remember that time, I asked them to read a question, and considering that I would apply the old knowledge from the past, I reviewed it as a matter of course. Suddenly, Xiao Guo stood up coldly and told me that I was wrong, there is nothing you said in this question.
I have repeatedly stressed that I am also a human being, and if I am wrong, I should be reminded immediately. See, it worked. At the time, I didn't even think about it, and I just said yes.
Not to mention my endless talk, he didn't understand, just talking about my attitude towards this matter, compared with other masters, I only saw a "small" word.
He sat down in a daze, and I noticed that he had not spoken for a long time. The child may eventually come to his senses and may feel stupid, stupid, and confused. From now on, he may think that other people's actions are justified, and his own mistakes are bubbling and burning buns.
Slowly, the child may be foolish. In the end, he may have lost the initiative, without questioning, only understanding and acceptance, and finally became a silent majority.
It is often said that children don't like to talk, and people's enthusiasm is not suppressed in this way. Accepting the kindness of others with a grateful heart and giving it back is a concept, and it is also a respect for people.
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In return, I always want to write something to praise my mother, but I don't use those flowery words, so I have to pick up a few small fragments of life to reflect the greatness of my mother.
Clip 1: I just went out in the morning, and I accidentally coughed twice, and I didn't even notice it, but my mother urged me to change my clothes, afraid that I would catch a cold.
Clip 2: In the evening, I had just finished my homework and wanted to eat some fruit, and when I turned around, my mother was already standing at the door of my room with a plate of apples.
Clip 3: It's late at night, I've fallen asleep, and under the light, my mother is still shaking the iron in her hand to iron the clothes I will wear the next day.
These are just the little things in life, as delicate as silk and as thin as thread, and it is these inconspicuous little silk threads that weave a web of love, in which I am netted to fully enjoy the warmth of my mother.
The decimal enjoys the sunshine, and the return for people is the coolness of the shade of the tree; The crops enjoy the sunshine, and the joy of harvest is reciprocated; And I am also enjoying the "sunshine", what should I repay my mother?
One night, my mother casually said that I wanted to eat an apple, and I also stopped by the kitchen, so I peeled an apple and brought it to my mother. At the same time, pass over a glass of warm water. The moment I looked up, I saw my mother's reassuring gaze and bright smile.
Oh! It turned out that what my mother wanted in return was nothing more than a little understanding and care. Once again, I felt the greatness of my mother.
Her greatness lies in the fountain of giving, and what she receives is a little bit, which is the true meaning of her mother.
I will use the drops of water condensed by my infinite feelings to repay my mother's kindness and love.
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Thank you for your help.
Time flies, in the blink of an eye, we are already in the third year of junior high school, and as we get older, our responsibilities are getting bigger and bigger, and our parents are more and more worried about us.
I remember my father once said that there are two most important exams in our lives, the first is the high school entrance examination, and the second is the college entrance examination. Because we have little understanding of life and do not understand the hardships of society, we still need to talk to parents in some aspects, and we have to be lectured from time to time. But which parent doesn't care for their children, although they were preached, but after that, they still returned to their original state as if they were fine, and took care of us as before.
Every parent cares about their children very much, for fear that we will be injured, as if "if you hold it in your mouth for fear of melting, if you hold it in your hand for fear of falling......"They were also always concerned about every detail of our lives. Whenever we are in pain, they help us; Whenever we had difficulties in learning, they encouraged us; Whenever we were sick, they were busy for us ......They are so nice to us that we forget the most important thing, which is their age and birthday.
Our parents have worked for us all our lives, and we should learn to repay them. Now that we have grown up, sensible and learned a lot, we should care for them and understand them, which is our responsibility as children, but we have not done it, but let them work hard for us every day, because of too long work and back pain.
We know that the only way to repay our parents is to repay them with their excellent grades, so that they can feel that their hard work is not in vain, and we should respect them more. It's the same in society, because respect is mutual, and to be respected by others, you must first learn to respect others. On the contrary, the classmates around me either fight all day long or skip class, in fact, it is not difficult to distinguish between right and wrong, and it is mainly up to them to distinguish right and wrong.
Personally, I think it is necessary to honor my parents, understand and understand them, and I hope that all people in the world who have parents can do this, so that the world will be better and more harmonious, let us work together to repay our parents!
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The word "return" is both familiar and foreign to me. Maybe you've given a greeting, you've been cared for in the future, you've put in an effort to get the desired result, something like that. But the purest and strongest love between relatives, the most genuine and direct love between parents and children, I don't know how to express it.
Maybe we're all missing an important lesson, a lesson that needs to be made up urgently -- learning to repay our parents. It was a calm afternoon, and I was lazily lying on the table peeling chestnuts and eating, and the sound of water behind me was my mother washing the dishes. I grabbed a handful of chestnuts in both hands, and slowly moved them away like a television, and all of a sudden, my mother came out of the kitchen, and she wiped her apron with her hands, and she said, "Okay, I'll peel it, don't spill it all over the ground."
As he spoke, he took the chestnut from my hand. Mom always brought things to my mouth, and I was used to it, and I never seemed to think to say thank you. But then I was caught in a video on TV that made me think about a female fish in the deep Atlantic Ocean who goes blind for a period of time after giving birth to a small fish, and that time she can't feed on her own and is in danger of starving.
And the newborn fish swam to their mothers without hesitation, and they brought them food, and even fed the females themselves, one after another, until the females regained their sight. And I was blown away by this documentary, and how these little fish can do this, and they know how to give up their lives in return to their mothers. And why do I only accept love calmly and don't know how to reciprocate love My classmates all said that I should repay my parents with good grades.
But in my opinion, while it's right to repay your parents with good grades, it's not enough, what parents need is for us to show them our love. Eat supper for us to send supper to our parents Wash the dishes Take the initiative to help wash the dishes Parents are sick Remember to remind them to take medicine It's raining Prepare raincoats for them in advance... Give them the same love they have for us, and you can do it if you have the heart. I think it's our instinct to give back to our parents, and then we give back to our teachers, our friends, our society, and our nature.
And these rewards are within our means, and I looked back at my mother, who was peeling chestnuts for me, and suddenly I felt that what I was going to do was actually very easy, so I quietly poured a cup of hot tea, put it next to my mother, and said, "Mom, you drink some water while you eat the chestnuts, and the chestnuts are roasted a little dry, and you will leave the dishes to me." Maybe it was because I felt that all of a sudden, my mother looked at me in a daze, and then she smiled heartily, and she took a sip and stopped looking at me, and drank and looked at me. I immediately felt extremely happy.
As long as you have the heart to reciprocate and bravely express your love, you will find that life contains countless happiness and warmth, and you will see another incomparably gorgeous and colorful world.
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